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  1. 1. What's Your Main Attraction?

    • Breasts, What else is there?
      289
    • A lean and mean stomach machine!
      68
    • Legs....long, short, I love legs!
      132
    • OOh, Give me a tushie any day!
      240
    • Flash those baby blue/brown or greens at me! I love the eyes!
      189
    • My eyes are looking to see what the guy is packing!
      40
    • Sexy clothing! The tighter the better so that I can see the whole package!
      78
    • Other (please explain)
      98


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I'm definitely a legs and tush kind of guy. :D If my wife only had nipples on her chest I would be happy; but she carries one heck of a can and a great pair of legs to boot...hey, pardon the pun. :lol: (Yeah, she looks good in those boots too; hers or mine.) Really, this poll could have been two separate ones....male and female. :cool:

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Hers-she is a total package. She loves a tight ass, but loves guys' eyes.

 

Him - He is foot person. He starts at her feet, and will say a woman is attractive, when she is not, if she has sexy pedicured feet or foot jewelry or anklets. He then moves to the hair. So his is feet and hair.

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The wife: I had to go with "Other." My MAIN ATTRACTION is my main draw toward swinging with other men. I have always been hotly attracted to big fit men with large muscled shoulders and pecs and arms, but not too cut. "Teddy bears" someone else called them. A little padding over all that to round off the edges. Whew, my mouth is watering!

 

The husband: Gotta be the breasts! But I just love everything about WOMEN! So everything else would come in a close second.

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Working mans upper torso and butt, the construction worker type or cowboy type, fit but not gym fit, with nice snug levis or wranglers, carhart jacket,sigh...and all the young stuff is wearing the baggy, crotch to the knees, butt crack hanging out look, bummer.

 

The husband loves boobs boobs and more boobs, big'uns.

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Well I have Voted EYES they tell me alot about someone but in the throws of passion I like Nice Strong arms to rub and squeeze I like to know that a man can hold all me up

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Okay, I picked eyes because that was the closest to my actual attraction button.

 

When I look at a woman I take in the whole package but I'm drawn first to the face. I'm attracted to the girl-next-door type with (what appears to be, anyway) a GENUINE smile. And the smile is as much in the eyes as it is the mouth. The first woman that comes to mind in this category is Jamie Lee Curtis. Rrrrroooowwwwrrrrr!

 

Okay, JLC unfortunately is NOT my girl next door, but I like women who are attractive (not necessarily considered great beauties) because of their looks AND their demeanor. I guess the non-physical attraction is intelligence WITH a sense of humor.

 

I guess with me they NEED a sense of humor... :lol:

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Ideal.

 

Face, Hair and Eyes.

 

Tall, and lithe with a beautiful skin tone. Long thighs.

 

Breast which are well formed, with sexy puckered pink areolae.

 

Flat tummy.

 

Sexy cunny lips, with a light covering of hair. Nether lips that becon you. Cunny lips on the small size, and cunny not too long. The best curtains are light red in color. Definitely not shaven.

 

If I could have only one, it would be sexy cunny.

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Very first thing I notice is nice teeth and clean fingernails. Everything else is dependant upon the person. Warped sense of humor crucial. :D:cool:

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dont get me wrong all of the above are all great and dandy but the nose is the best of the best. :lol:

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I'm a lifelong, avowed tit man so I answered breasts. I also voted for eyes since they're the window to the soul. Have to ask where the smile was though--a beautiful smile melts a man!

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You didn't have a choice here that matched us, so I chose Other...here's why...

 

John is a pussy man, always has been, always will be. His eyes gravitate to the cameltoe, every time. He loves pussy in a way I've never seen before. he is fascinated by the shape, taste, appearance, folds, layers, and everything! He could spend hours just touching, investigating, licking, looking at, and studying my pussy, and I absolutely am grateful I have a man who loves it this much.

 

I am, on the other hand, very attracted to men's legs. I love muscular thighs, wrapped around me. I love every part of the legs, including the feet. I could spend hours running my tongue up and down John's legs, kissing and nibbling the backs of his knees, and sucking his toes. Yummy!

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what about the sense of humor?

 

The site makes me think: I mean it must be terribly attractive, who gets more attention around here than a certain humorous purple monkey? I myself find a certain odd animal attraction.

 

 

my women friend of mine used to remark that my type was:

"young, dumb and full of _____" you probably are familiar with the saying.

 

The male species. I like males. Tall ones, medium, short, hard, regular, dark hair, the occasional blond, toooo many red heads, blue eyes, the tops of heads cause I can't see their eyes cause their talking to my breasts, brown eyes, funny guys, musical guys, guys who climb on rocks, I don't really care for sissy guys, but they can help pick out really nice dresses that look WOW on me, too old to remember guys with chicken pox, horny guys, shy guys, cool guys, some nerdy guys, smart guys are great! guys in tight jeans, guys with hard abs, guys at the gym, and guys at the grocery store, guys at home depot, flirting guys in the next car, guys who live across the country....yes, exactly, I'm attracted to males!

 

Now I'm old, after a hiatus of dating and "other" activities, I'm finding a certain attractiveness to pauncy middle aged guys. - I'm not terribly certain I'm tellng the truth here. :rollseyes

 

I love sexy forearms!

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what about the sense of humor?

 

The male species. I like males. Tall ones, medium, short, hard, regular, dark hair, the occasional blond, toooo many red heads, blue eyes, the tops of heads cause I can't see their eyes cause their talking to my breasts, brown eyes, funny guys, musical guys, guys who climb on rocks, I don't really care for sissy guys, but they can help pick out really nice dresses that look WOW on me, too old to remember guys with chicken pox, horny guys, shy guys, cool guys, some nerdy guys, smart guys are great! guys in tight jeans, guys with hard abs, guys at the gym, and guys at the grocery store, guys at home depot, flirting guys in the next car, guys who live across the country....yes, exactly, I'm attracted to males!

 

 

I with you sista'

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Personality, cleanliness, consideration, Looks are deceiving. Just because people are cute, etc., doesn't mean they are NICE. Had a few wunderkids and said goodbye as soon as they showed their true selves.

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I couldn't vote, don't make me choose! That's cruel and unusual (is that the phrase used in the US?).... I like women, period. To look, to touch, to hold, to fondle.... (did I mention I like women?)

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Give me a lean mean tummy!!! OMG- for some reason it just rocks me. The buns are second.

 

All that said, a pretty face might completely compensate for any other features that don't come near my personal ideal.

 

AND all that said, a sweet personality can entirely compensate for all lack of attraction to any of the above.

 

WAIT- what am I saying? I’ll hump air. JK :lol:

 

Mr.

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Warm personalities and sexy attitudes! Those folks usually pack nice smiles and bright eyes ...

 

I worked with an absolutely gorgeous guy once. Couldn't help but stare. But he had the personality of an eggplant. We totally rubbed each other the wrong way (unlike the right way ... hahaha). It got to the point when he walked in my office and started to say something smart, I'd cut him off and say, "can't you just stand there and look good? Please don't ruin it with words." I'm sure I was called a few choice words, none of which were deserved ... >

 

Fun personalities and attitudes are where it's at ...

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I love the eyes. There are people that have eyes that twinkle which reveals the humor inside and eyes that can melt you just by looking at you that promise passion.

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The smile (including the look in the eyes) is what does it for me ... You can tell a lot about a person by the way they smile at you :kissface:

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I have nice breasts - my husband has said that is one, maybe 2 things that initially attracted him to me. Married about 30 years now - so guess there was more! Couples we have met seem to enjoy my full breasts as well.

 

So for me breasts are my main attraction - although I have others!

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Attitude is the main attraction. Period.

 

When a man or a woman is outgoing, personable, confident and relaxed about their surroundings, their looks, jock or breast size is not an issue.

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First the eyes with that sparkle that turns to their other & both sparkle

Next a sexy smile with lips that emit sensuous seductive soundes.

And then, looking over at Ms Fluffy getting turned on & the look in her eyes...

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I guess I'm in the minority here...I'm an eye person. I love expressive eyes, people who can use them to speak without saying a word. Dino, on the other hand appreciates a nice ass...something to grab firm hold of.

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Hmm... My Main Attraction would have to be the Vulva or would that be the Labia... hmm let me look that up. Hey, I was right on both counts 🙂

 

I love thick nether lips.. I love CamelToes. Sorry, I can't help myself. And of course i have to be upstanding in public but you see so many toes out there tis hard to keep your composure. Which of course I do very well!

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We are both primarily drawn to faces. Overall attractiveness is key: personality, humor, physical traits, sexual compatibility and intelligence but, our key physical trait is hands down the face. If we can't look at someone we are talking to or having sex with and think they are attractive, the perfect breasts, abs and ass aren't going to make up for it.

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I have a very specific look that really melts my butter. And I have thought about this lol. He is not thin, what some women would prob call chubby. He has dark hair and dark eyes. Lots of stubble, and dark chest hair. Man oh man. :rolleyes:

 

I guess I'm in the minority here...I'm an eye person. I love expressive eyes, people who can use them to speak without saying a word.

 

I can agree with that, eyes are great. Also, and this is strange even to me. I love men's arms. I have no idea why. The way they are so muscular. That is strange even to myself lol.

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Ok superficial me says a great set of abs does it every time. I love a hard body. Big chest, strong arms, tight abs. i like how they look, but mostly I like how they make me feel. In a word, safe. Nothing can hurt me in Dogs arms. But I love short or no hair on top of the head. could be why I love those military types. I could spend all day looking into a great set of eyes. But what good is a great body if they have nothing intelligent to offer in a conversation.

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Facial features. It is more than the eyes alone. Nose, cheeks, lips, chin. One of the wonderful mysteries in life is that beauty is truly in the eyes of the beholder.

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I would have to say I am a tushie woman.

Give me a tight ass in a pair of blue jeans and I am in heaven!

FYI Mr. Truelove has a nice ass.

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For me it's the face/expression that begins the attraction process.

 

Breasts are a close second, but the face communicates a great deal of useful information: attitude, personality, reactions, etc.

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For me it's the eyes that first catch my attention. Probably because you can tell so much through a persons eyes, intelligence, mood, interest level, attitude, etc. After the eyes then it's the face in general, especially the smile, a girl with a great smile is just pleasant to be around.

 

(A great butt sure doesn't hurt either!)

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We voted other. F, if forced to choose, would cast his vote for the "tushie" and for K, her vote would unequivocally be for "boobs". She describes herself as boobie-sexual, first and foremost! As for the guys, her vote goes to "tushie" too. Maybe we should have voted "tushie"! But heck, "other" covers everything - and there isn't one square inch I haven't come to appreciate in women! :)

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First, the face and eyes. I think you can tell a lot by the eyes.

 

After that.... I am most certainly a breast man. Teasing cleavage.....OH MY!!!

 

The wife is also an eyes person. And I believe a tushie gal.

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A CAP (Confidence, Attitude and personality) hands down. Don't get me wrong being presentable and attractive are important. The overall package if you will has to work but CAP is what make the final ruling for me.

 

The Other Mrs. Menage

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I had to pick other.

 

I'm immediately drawn to tall, dark haired, medium built men. Not that I don't like medium and blond, because in the end it is really the whole kit and caboodle that matters.

 

I believe I am attracted to tall men because I'm 5'8", and wear 3" heels at least 6 days a week, so it's nice to occasionally stand next to someone taller than me, outside of the office (I like to be taller at the office - it's an intimidation factor with the male attorneys - only the fittest survive and this is a survival tactic).

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I like large real breasts that the woman can push together and you can then have intercourse with them. How crude. No that's not it but a woman with large breats in a tight sweater makes my weeny jump up and look around. It may actually be the woman's voice. I have found that a woman that wants to have sex with you has a very low soft tone that says "if you want it, you can have it" and that makes me melt.

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Twist-

 

I love a cute face, and a booty that is not too skinny, but not too big. I love a women with a few extra pounds, they just look so sexy.

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I like large real breasts that the woman can push together and you can then have intercourse with them. How crude. No that's not it but a woman with large breats in a tight sweater makes my weeny jump up and look around. It may actually be the woman's voice. I have found that a woman that wants to have sex with you has a very low soft tone that says "if you want it, you can have it" and that makes me melt.

 

 

Regarding the voice: you know, I never paid attention but this is the truth! LMAO!!! I sat here and thought about it and yes, I do talk with a low, sultry voice lol.

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Susan and Edison here-- For us, it's intellect. Give me smart and clever any day. While it's been tempting, Susan says it best,"I just won't fuck stupid."

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