pumpkins1970
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17 GoodAbout pumpkins1970
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- Birthday 09/24/1970
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
couple
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Location
Sterling Heights, MI
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Interests
Fishing, boating, shopping, nice dinners and oh yes swinging
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Swinging Experience
about 1 month
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14 years together, married 8 yrs on May 25
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How to deal with jealousy from the other spouse
pumpkins1970 replied to Darkblue's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Thank you for the enjoyable evening together, but we don't think things are going to work out for us. -
Surprises you hope never to discover when meeting swingers
pumpkins1970 replied to LikeMinds321's topic in Swingers Talk
Suprises,...hmmm 1) That couple you met online w/o pics that you really seemed to click with, you go meet them and it's a relative of some sort! 2) Some funky B.O. :wtf:3) You meet the other swingers for the first time for dinner in a nice quiet restaurant and "THEY TALK LIKE THIS ABOUT EVERYTHING, ESPECIALLY THE FACT IT IS NICE TO MEET MORE SWINGERS RIGHT HERE IN THIS RESTAURANT!" -
Have your swinging rules changed over time?
pumpkins1970 replied to northindycpl's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
None, all still intact, 1 1/2 yrs in the lifestyle. -
Cheaters calling themselves swingers!
pumpkins1970 replied to billygoat4u's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Cheating, plain and simple.ANYone that says it's not, hasn't a clue as to what the lifestyle is about. -
Stood Up, and I"M playing a game?
pumpkins1970 replied to MoonLightKiss's topic in Adventures in Swinging
No, you're not wrong, but that single male is an ASSHOLE! -
The only watersports we engage in are hot tubbing and swimming...and we'd rather you didn't during either!
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First things first, My wife's approval is paramount, then as long as he's(well they, as we only play with couples) are decent and can carry on conversation, then we go from there. We have to be able to be more than physically attracted to people too. If you don't like like who you play with, then how can you have any fun?
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We have to agree with Spoo, by letting her give you oral, the boundary was crossed, and if we were playing with you, then we would be expecting the same in return. If that was not going to happen, then you should have stopped her before/when she started. Everyone has their own pace/limits, we totally respect that, but you must remain steadfast. There is no wrong way to swing either, it is what You are comfortable with. Good luck!
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Meeting Swingers That Don't Converse
pumpkins1970 replied to avgcpl4u's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We once met a couple where Mrs. Pumpkin and I carried the conversation 90% of the time we sat with them. The other F talked a bit, but all the other male did was stare at my wife's breast's. Needless to say, we walked away from that meeting thinking "That's 60 minutes of our lives we'll never get back" When we got home we found they had left us a cpl of IM's about what a great time they had, how much they liked us, etc. It was funny reading their IM's because they typed more in those couple of messages then they had said the entire meeting! So for us, meet us halfway and talk...unless you're moaning! -
I didn't see hung like a squirrel up there:neener: J/K, but really, size doesn't matter, and if you are worried people may think you're under-equipped, you could always post a pic on aff.
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We may go to a lifestyle party for Halloween, we haven't decided yet. I had a cute idea though, the Mrs. would dress up as a pumpkin (or pumpkin pie) then I was going to dress up as Peter...pumpkin eater
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Transition Lines
pumpkins1970 replied to Spoomonkey's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
We have come to that point a few times ourselves, where you are kinda of like uh...uh...(ok think of something to say stupid!) But a female part of one of the cpls's we have played with really seemed to know how to overcome this. She simply excused herself and went to the bathroom, when she came back her pants were off...we got the hint! Now maybe someday we may use that approach ourselves! -
Do you play with Married Males without their partners?
pumpkins1970 replied to Amanda69's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
No. -
Well it's too bad we all aren't equiped with swinger's radar, it may come in handy sometime! But seriously, I think the greatest pick-up line in the world may have helped you two out here, "Hi, we're________&__________ , can we buy you two a drink?" Nothing ventured, nothing gained, and even if they weren't swingers, just being friendly and flirtatious is a nice way to spend an evening!