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  1. Reading Chicup's post "Reading between the profile lines..." about V-safe being code of bareback play got me thinking. If a couple/single admits to playing bareback as an option do you avoid them due to STI concerns even if you only play safe? If they allude to it, as described in Chicup's post, do avoid them for the same concerns? Do you bail on a couple that states they play safe in their profile, but when you meet, all of a sudden it is optional? What if it becomes optional after getting to know you better? We have seen a few couple profiles that say they only play bareback, usually due to latex concerns, but I don't usually buy that, since there are condemns that are latex free. We have seen 2-3 more that just state that is how they prefer to play. And we have meet a good many that state they only play safe in their profile, but bring up that bareback is an option once we meet. The vast majority we have met do not use any protection during oral. So where do YOU draw the line?
  2. I have always read it to mean in case of wardrobe malfunction there is an extra layer of safety against pregnancy. I am sure that some are looking to for BB play but I do not assume that.
  3. My wife is not a big fan of tattoos but I suppose it depends more on the guy, unless the tattoos tend to cover significant amounts of the body. I am okay with most of them, in fact I like playing find the tattoo on strategically placed ones. That said I cannot image I would be wild about being eye to eye with a cobra tat as I was going down on a woman.
  4. It is difficult to nail an answer down, but I will try. Situations where I have had a good time, but not great, yet my wife had a fantastic time, I still really enjoyed the experience. On the other hand if I had a great time but she didn't it is somewhat of a let down and disappointing. The best times are when we both had a great experience. I am a visual guy so I capture images in my head. The one that I replay most often in my mind is not even a sex act. We played in a hotel suite with separate rooms. We each had the doors to the rooms open, I had a wonderful time with the lady I was with and from the sounds of it so did my wife. Then I walked into the living room I saw my wife, through the open doorway, sitting on the edge of the bed. She had already put her panties on, but nothing else. She was putting on one of her stockings, sexy black ones, and she had a huge smile on her face. She was laughing as they chatting while getting dressed. She had just had a great time and was completely comfortable and relaxed in the moment. It was fantastic and memory that I really enjoy. What made each experience good or bad varies. So I guess seeing her have a fantastic time is what makes it special. More so if we both did.
  5. I voted OTHER because there was not an ALL OF THE ABOVE. I know it may sound like a cop out but I REALLY can find any one of that list, plus several not listed, as the main attraction to a woman. And I have. Honestly I can't think of a part of the woman's anatomy I do not find attractive. It just varies by each individual. I notice great legs, breast, eyes, boobs etc., each dependent on the woman involved. That is not to say I find myself interested in every woman, but I often find myself admire specific features of many women.
  6. I'm not fascinated with it at all. In fact I can only recall doing so intentionally with one woman and only because she really enjoyed it. It didn't do much for me either way. It was not a huge turn for me, other than seeing her enjoy it. And I did not feel I was desegregating her since she requested it. Nor did I feel any power trip of dominance for doing it. It is simply another form of a sex act. I am sure each person is different, some love it, some hate it, and some don't care. But I would never intentionally do it to a woman unless specifically asked. It's just not my thing.
  7. Oh hell no. If the other guy is going to long for my wife's comfort then she will bring him to a close, one way or another. But I don't stop them, unless something is wrong. But I am sure as hell not about to stop her fun. Besides, as others have stated there are a good many things you can do to keep your play partners fun going without using your dick. I will also add to what others have said. You may find, like me, that you love watching you wife with another man, it is a huge turn on. That is the main reason I think I MFM's, I get to watch her without worrying about not satisfying someone else. Use some caution doing this with a couple swap however. It is one thing to take a few minutes break after some very exhilarating sex for BOTH you AND your play partner too, but make sure her motor needs to idle as well and that you are not leaving her disappointed. I also find that after watching my wife for a few minutes that I am "recharged" and ready to go go again, like I said before it is a huge turn on. I most cases I do not stop doing something with my play partner, either going down on her or using my fingers to pleasure her. If we both needed a break and things have stopped completely, when I am ready to go again I will ask if she is, the answer has almost always been a resounding yes. Sometimes, however, my partner needs longer recharge or is done. Sometimes women get sore, or like my wife, need to come down from being on the edge. I never understood that until my wife got really good at getting me to that point. When it gets that intense continuing can be too much, not painful as much as an overload of the senses. So try to be very attuned to your partner and talk to her. A couple more things. I also find I usually do not cum as fast with a partner as I do with my wife. Sometimes it never happens. I am not sure why. I don't know if it is a mental block or what. But I don't let it bother me and use it to my advantage by playing longer with my partner. Again stay attuned to you partner so you know when enough is enough. And finally, I take great pleasure in getting my partner off, even after I have cum. I love to go down on a women and look up and see her back arched and grabbing at the bed sheets or seeing the look of pleasure on her face. It is a turn on all in to itself. Unfortunately, too many guys, and much to the dismay of my wife, some guys guys don't get it. When they are done they are done. If there us still desire from a woman to be pleasured then do it. It is awesome and will get you many repeat visits.
  8. First for both of us, well over 20 years. Both sets of parents married for life.
  9. You know I almost wrote that. But I look at it this way. Wouldn't you think a business/business person would want to put their best foot forward too? Frankly, anyone for that matter. I try to always put my best foot forward, because that is how I was raised. But in a practical sense you never know who you are going to meet or when. I was interviewing a man for a job, and I like asking unusual questions. So I asked him to tell me about an instance where he had bombed an interview (we all have). He proceeds to tell me that we was late to his interview (strike 1 in my eyes). While rushing to his interview he cuts a guy off (strike 2). The guy he cut off lays on his horn so he flips him the bird (strike 3 - it is amazing what people divulge in interviews). He arrives at his interview late and is waiting for his interview, when in walks the guy he just flipped off a few minutes earlier. That was who his interview was with. Needless to say he didn't get the job (or mine either). You never know who is on the receiving end of you being an ass. For practical reasons, if no other, it pays to always put you best foot forward, not just when you want something, because you never know. Sadly, I fail miserably at times as well, and when I do, I almost always wonder to myself if that is going to come back and bite me later.
  10. One of the clips I watched had a M&G between two couples, one appeared to be a show regular and the other not. The one that did not appear to be a show regular seemed to be a legit swinger couple. They wife even said she was a bit confused by the other couple (who also appeared to be very drunk). THe show copuple start arguing over the male whispering to the other females, touching her etc. Maybe it was because they were on TV but the non-show couple was a hell of lot more polite than I would have been. Had a couple we were talking with started that nonsense we would have moved on immediately and said have a nice life.
  11. There is something to be said for an "I don't give a damn" attitude. I do not know what it is, but when you are anxious to meet people, it can sometimes act as a repellent. If you are there to enjoy each others company and really don't care if you meet anyone else, it is entirely different vibe. Kind of like the guy in college that couldn't get a date. When he finally starts dating someone and is attached, girls are sticking phone numbers in his shirt pocket. I am not saying be an ass. Mingle, talk, be friendly but go with the attitude (not just the facade) that it is all good as long as your partner is happy. Some of the best times I have had meeting women is when they were the last thing on my mind. As for over dressing, unless it is extreme, like tails at a beach party, I wouldn't worry about it for a second. Being well dressed is never bad. Hell, even if it is tails a beach party, get rid of the coat and tie, roll your cuffs up a couple of times, drop the top couple button and shoes/socks, maybe roll your pants legs up to keep them out of the water and you still the best dressed causal guy at the party. I actually did this when I was younger, leaving one party and going to another. The lady's thought it was sexy and I had the time of my life. I am not sure if it was how I was dressed or the fact I didn't let it bother me at all, but it worked. Well dressed and the right attitude is a powerful combination.
  12. Okay, maybe I should not post this as I have only watched clips of the show and not the actual show but I few things strike me as....well, odd. 1. Some of these people are "concerned" that their families would think negative of them if they found out. Well, unless your entire family and everyone they know live under a rock, the WILL know now. So, I have to wonder are these actors or real swingers that are being coached what to say. 2. In a couple of clips there seems to be WAY too much alcohol involved for the given situation, as one couple is clearly impaired. Which of course leads to drama. 3. There is WAY to much drama and jealousy going on. People freaking out about their spouses flirting with and touching someone else. Ummm, what exactly do they think will happen next?!? Number 1 above I just cannot reconcile. Unless these people thing outing themselves on TV is some how easier than doing so face to face I don't get it. Frankly, if they think that I don't get it. Numbers 2 & 3, yes I have seen both of these in the LS, but it is the exception (at least with the people we hang with) rather than the rule. The drinking part is more common the drama (at least at that stage of meeting, with supposed experienced swingers). So it begs a few questions: A. Is there anything real about this REALITY show (BTW - typing is difficult when you are trying to control your laughter). B. Is this more the norm than we realize? I mean, most of the regular posters here are very experienced swingers, so this show does not seem to portray what most of us have apparently experienced. Are we the norm or the anomaly? My thoughts are we are the norm (or sure as hell hope we are) and these guys are the anomaly. In fact it looks like they found a few couples that wanted to be on TV so badly that they would gladly say they are swingers for their 15 minutes of fame, but in fact have never be in the LS. Think about it, they never actually show them doing anything really sexual at all. Are they really wannabes or maybe even actors? Maybe they are real and want to swing but are so ill prepared for it that the drama can not help but come out.
  13. I don't associate level of income as much with traditional definitions of blue/white collar anymore. There are plenty of white collar workers making wages on the lower end of the scale and certainly a decent amount of blue collar on upper end as well. Particularly when you consider entrepreneurship. I was simply looking at the scale of wages, regardless of work classification. And yes, I meant take risk from intellectual or entrepreneurial standpoint. As paradoxical as it seems, those that I have known in high risk (injury or life threatening), are some of the most risk adverse people I know. Even though the jobs they do are, at their core, very high risk the people doing them are risk adverse and, generally, do not see themselves as risk takers. I guess that really makes sense when you think about it. DO you really want risk takers in high risk jobs like high steel, mining, law enforcement? Take too many risk in those areas and you will likely have a short career. That said we have known people from virtually every walk of life in the LS, teachers, doctors, miners, lawyers, judges, media personalities, butchers, landscapers, accountants, electricians, politicians - and many many more. That brings me back to causality. What are the driving factors cause people to move from having no desire to participate in or have nothing to do with the LS, to having a desire to ultimately engaging the in the LS. Are there any causal factors having anything do with demographics or are those factors completely external. Do the demographics reflect anything at all or is it just random. My brain tells me nothing is random, but with the privacy concerns in the LS, it makes it difficult to divine much from the statistics.
  14. Look at it this way. How many times during the course of a day do you deal with rude people? How many times a day do you deal with faceless people (via the internet, phone, etc.). I for one meet them all the time. So my expectation is I will meet them in the LS as well. I don't like it in either case, but the LS is no different from real life in that regard. Though you would think it would be better than it is in the LS.
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