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I think it would be more efficient for a lot of us if a persons ethnicity could be told on their profiles. I mean as in male/female followed by pick your ethnicity. I mean they ask it on everything else. I know pictures tell all anyway but you may not want to friend someone just to find out their Hispanic or non. I know what I'm looking for when I play. I would love to be able to click: male, click African American; black.

Whatever happened to the pizza man fantasy?

On New Year's Eve I logged on to Swinglifestyles and joined the chat (lobby). I know sometimes Im too forward....but Im getting better as I go. But keep in mind my reasoning. Im a woman who knows what she wants and has a honored husband who wishes to help in every sort of way. We decided to do the hook up now thing. I typed while he leaned over my shoulder. So he is my witness. I asked the guy straight up: R U black? He responded: Yes. From there we went to private messenger to photo sharing.......Agreed to meet up outside of a local bar....a drink or two and then if everyone was good to go.....hotel. Anyway to make it short to my disappontment he was just as white as me! Boy! Like I wouldnt notice? WTF? People (single men get the bad rep here:() will lie about their race to get some booty. So after my time wasted and him going thru the trouble to send us fake pics......We politely told him he just wasnt what we wanted and that he knew that. So we got to experience some of the things we had been warned of first hand. It's funny now, it wasn't then. Oh and by the way he was wearing work coverals....top to bottom....I would not expect someone to go in the bar with me in some coverals......OMG. Lesson Learned: Fine line in between being too forward and them assuming you are desperate. Swinger's have standards.

Female of the couple here. I prefer to always swallow.Less Mess. If ure afraid its gonna taste bad,hurry up and guzzle. Like its a shot of liquor! No risk of eye injury or unwanted hair gel

Me and my husband are considering heading there this weekend. We havent been to a club yet. Has anyone been that could tell us what to expect and if you think its fun? Does it help find a hook up easier than on the internet?

My man's cock is by no means "average". He has the thickest cock i've ever had. Thats why i stay with him. LOL. Im addicted to it. However we love to engage in MFM. We both know "the more the merrier."

We both have tats. I feel like people with tattoos are sure of themselves and know what they want. U are free to do what u want. A positive thing in swinging. Isnt that what America stands for freedom to 'swing' or get tats?

We took your advice and re-did our SLS profile. Check it out. Very much improved? username: mixoscopia P.S. pictures asap

We dont think a drink or two hurts with a lil'buzz. But no one wants to get wasted, risks chances of not remembering?! thats no fun

We just want to make it clear "no strings attached". Its new we will post pics soon. Should we not be so straight to the point???? Help please;)

Thanks! the capital letter thing I didn't know about until I read it on here. lol. That's a lot of help:)

Any ideas on him doing the asking? as far as approaching someone. We dont want to offend anyone who's not into it, u know??

1. Either of us can choose to "bail" out at any time, but we both go. 2. Same room all times. No swinging solo. 3. No "getting to know" anyone. Here for sexual relations not friends in home life. 4. No full names, Don't entertain in our home. 5. Respect everyone involved. 6. No cheating spouses. 7. If we dont like something its a no. ***Open-minded couple***

Profile is on SLS Username is Mixoscopia