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    utah
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    Self employed
  • Swinging Experience
    12 years

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  1. No, she lost any desire for sex with anyone about a year ago. Shes been having less and less over the last few.
  2. IMHO, the difference in swinging (although a debate can be made if a single is really a swinger) and cheating is that the other knows about it, and approves. My wife and I, for example....We started out as swingers but was hard to find couples compatible to both of us, so we ended up going with an open marriage...Now my wife has given up playing, even with me, but I still play with others, and she is fine with that, in her words "that way I don't have to do it" So in this case it is not cheating...
  3. About a year ago, the Mrs, decided that she was taking a break from swinging. I understand how that can happen and never pushed her to get back into it. Then about 3 months later, decided she didn't want sex anymore. I, or her bf, haven't had sex with her in 9 months. Only had it once last year, on our anniversary. I have had a couple off and on gf's in that time, but always ended up being filled with drama and I called it quits. Hard to find a gf when you're married, lol...Anyway has anyone else ran into this type of situation? If so how did you handle it?
  4. I also love this, sloppy seconds, and hoping for 3rd, 4ths... have only cleaned her up a couple times, and it has been awhile...Would love to do it again, so very hot!!!
  5. Wife and I started out swinging about 13 years ago, but it was just so hard finding a couple that we both were into, that we evolved into just playing separately most of the time. Just wondering how others got into it? Did you start out with open relationship? Or something else like our situation?
  6. The big rule we have is that we don't play with cheating spouses. The others husband/wife don't have to play, but they have to know about it....We don't want that phone call or visit from the upset spouse...
  7. I like sharing her, whether I watch or not. Plus I have a gf's. Easier to find couples than single women.
  8. Howdy all. Wifes about ready to quit playing with new people and just stick to the 2 guys she has because she wants someone that will talk to her about other things besides sex. Is it to much to ask for the guy to text or call sometimes about random stuff? Does it always have to be about sex? Looking for people that are friends first then fuck buddies. People that you can just go out to dinner with occasionally without expecting to end up in the sack....
  9. Usually use condoms but she has a steady bf that she doesn't use one with...Love being the second one in, feels so gooooood......
  10. Well, its happened....because of a couple bad experiences the wife has decided that she is thru meeting with couples for now. We've met 3 couples while in the lifestyle, the first one there was way to much drama, rules kept changing, and she always felt "obligated" to fuck him, the 2nd was jealous of the fact she has had a long time bf, that he knew of before we started playing, and was tryiing to get her to break it off with him, the third couple was going great, we were both looking forward in getting together, the problem was that the hubby never even talked to her once in 3 weeks....Shes doesn't want to fuck someone that wouldn't even talk to her....So she is just going to stick with the 2 guys she has now, and I'm on my own if I wanna meet others....
  11. Just wondering if y'all think we've over reacted to a situation....My friend recently signed up on of the swinger sites here....she is newly single, coming out of an abusive relationship, very nervous. Shes not really sure what she wants to do, but she has been chatting with a few people. She sent a face pic to one guy that she was chatting with. This guy recognized her and showed up to her place of work and said hi..This really freaked her out....quite a few people we talked to about it think that she over reacted and that this is part of the lifestyle....it would have been fine had he said something like don't you work at ........, or if she told him to come by and say hi.... Anyway, any opinions?
  12. Well, pretty much thought of one now, because of a loose lipped gal that didnt know what dont say anything to anyone actually meant....although either is fine with me, since I really couldn't care less about what people think of me...
  13. Wife bf of 10 years is actually her boss. She is also pursuing another potential...
  14. LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wanting sloppy fouths or fifths....
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