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sigh35

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About sigh35

  • Rank
    Active Contributor
  • Birthday 02/14/1972

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Oregon
  • Occupation
    self-employed
  • Swinging Experience
    new to the idea

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    sigh35
  • Favorite Club(s)
    none yet
  1. I agree with deny, deny, deny..! Just look at your accuser like they caught you off guard and say "what?!!" that's crazy! who told you that? my 19 year old? "so, you go around believing stories told by 19 year olds? Wow! Maybe you wish it were true and this is your way of propositioning me hu? Heehee!
  2. It seems to me this person really wants to be a mother and doesn't think Mr. Right will come along during her safe fertile stage of life. We have our babies and many of us with people we wish we didn't..but we wouldn't trade our kids in just because being with their other parent wasn't good for us. I do not think this is a fetish so much as a longing with doubts of a secure future. People get pregnant everyday by mistake with the wrong person and we don't freak out about it...she has just disturbed us with her honesty. I scincerely hope she holds out for a loving relationship, but if she can't, I hope she cherishes the baby she produces from her desperate adventure.
  3. I smell pre-mature mid-life crisis;) Starting today, take one year of your life (not that long in the grand scheme of things) and focus on what you do have and not on what you think you are missing out on. I have lived in the same small town for all my 35 years, I have never lived anywhere else and have only traveled to two neighboring states. I hate that! But I would not throw away my family to embark on a more adventurous life. If you were diagnosed with cancer tomorrow, and given one year to live, would you want to spend that year having meaningless recreational sex or with those that truly love you? Think about it. Swinger sex is an activity not a purpose.
  4. I don't care if my 7 month old daughter sees me cuz she is too young to connect the dots, but after the age of 2 I will be more modest
  5. Thank you for all your thoughtful replies Sometimes I just jump into things, but sometimes I like to think them completely through. Your answers were very helpful and confirm my own motivations.
  6. Forgive me, I am always thinking! Why does swinging appeal to us? Is it our complete understanding and comfortability with our mate? And/ Or, for some maybe, are we keeping our friends close and our enemies closer? Do some swing to ward off cheating? Is the intense intimacy caused by mutal satisfaction or mutual trauma? Does swinging allow us to feel less dependence upon our mate, thereby lessening the blow of there loss someday even if only slightly? Who in this lifestyle has experienced a great and devastating loss before finding a mate to swing with? These are just some questions I have..not meant to offend or annoy anyone...please disreguard if overthinking things bothers you
  7. I think I would enjoy brief touching, as long as they got back to me...why waste their loads on another dude?
  8. wow! I am really surprised at this... I am a swinger n the making...I had sex with my 1st husband for 5 years , then sex with my 2nd husband for 4 years, then 4 other lovers within one year ..of which one is now my only...I am really perplexed that the poll shows such low numbers..I thought being a swinger would rack up the numbers! Explain!!!
  9. My concern, iapr, is as you have stated. Unwanted advances. There is no concern over anyone being fired. I am no mad at my SO, because he did not intentionally cause a problem. I suggested the idea only a day after he suggested trying out going to a nude beach. It was all new to him and he didn't think about rules or codes of conduct. He was just pleasantly blown away by my suggestion and told his best bud at work in confidence...if I am irritated at anyone, it is his friend. I was just wondering if people had experienced misconceptions and how they dealt with it. I hadn't even thought through all the scenarios that you presented, but I will now.
  10. I have been with a man who's penis was so small, that it would disappear under his ball sack when standing..he always used a cock ring when trying to have sex which only worked when I sat on him...he was the best lover I ever had because he always made sure I was satisfied...over and over and over...he was a genius at pussy eating and loved to use toys though the way he did it, it might as well have been him...also small penises are the best for giving oral...no gagging and you can perform more tongue tricks!!
  11. Edison Carter...I know nothing...I read nothing...this isn't even sigh35, this is someone who broke into her house, stole her password and logged on!! P.S....this does not sound like swinging, this sounds like your ordinary Jerry Springer family drama sorts thing...PPS...Shelly M I do think you're great and not in a bi way...I just like how you think
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