myschyfnmayhem

Ask them how healthy thier own relationship is. Do they not love thier partner enough to want them to have more pleasure? Are they too insecure? Make them realize that maybe they and thier spouse are a little too brittle,selfish or untrusting. Sex is Sex. Sex cannot kill Love. Only deceit and cruelty can kill Love.

We have been swinging in one form or another for about 15 yrs but never frequently and have been inactive for several years due to kids becoming teens and making things like schedules and privacy seem like a long lost fantasy. We aren't new to the board either but haven't posted much until now. We live in the northeastern corner of Maryland.

We have made our ads pretty descriptive too and no,it doesn't make things much better. Guys still do exactly what the OP has described. We have even chatted with guys who saw the wifes pics and still refused to show a pic or give any info on themselves. We aren't asking for bank accounts here,just some information pertinent to thier having sex with my wife. We also get tired of guys who aren't local and can't understand why we won't change our lives for them to meet us.

I'm guilty of not replying right away sometimes and it isn't always because we're not interested. I,the male, am the one who gets to post ads and respond but only after my wife has also read the mail. Therein lies the problem. We have 3 teens who still follow her around like ducklings. They give her no privacy when she is online,I guess they think Mom wouldn't be doing anything that isn't suitable for them to see. They don't do this with me but do still walk in the room where I have the laptop twisted around where its harder to see it. I apologize to anyone I haven't replied to and this is not an excuse but an explanation. We are also currently using someone elses laptop since ours died and our situation doesn't allow us to get one anytime soon.

myschyf loves guys with long hair,which is why i put up with the aggravating mess