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captainbob last won the day on March 14 2008
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30 ExcellentAbout captainbob
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- Birthday 03/28/1956
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
Single male
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Location
Ontario
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Swinging Experience
< 1 year
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SLS Name
Captainboob
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Favorite Club(s)
Club Prive, Mississauga, Ontario
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captainbob started following Motorcycle Riding Swingers, What do you tell others about where you are when swinging?, Easier to start swinging with a MMF threesome? and and 4 others
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How to ask would you like to have sex?
captainbob replied to twoartists's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I think swingercast podcasts should be required listening for people on this website. Ally does it right in episode #18. Woo hoo! Good example of how to get 6 people to play! (I had to go buy an iPod after Julie talked about swingercast.) -
My sweetie and I ride. She has an '87 Harley Custom Heritage Softtail and I have 3 classic Honda GoldWings ('75,'76 & '78). She doesn't let me ride her bike, but she's ridden mine on a 5-day trip to North Carolina and loved it. I just think it would be cool to meet other couples to go on trips with to share two interests at once. We spend alot of holiday time riding and it takes away from the time we have to meet other couples for sex. We'd like to "kill two birds", if you know what I mean.
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Wow! Isn't it funny how when you browse the new posts, or the active posts, you sometimes avoid those threads that you read before that you thought were kind of weird. But then they keep getting bumped. And then finally, you go back and read the 4 pages of new posts and realize the thread has gone off on a whole new direction! Wow!
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Did You "Jump In" swinging or did you "Wade In"?
captainbob replied to intuition897's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We're wading. But we're wading faster and faster and it's getting so wet we can taste it! We started talking about it seriously in January and agreed on our first ad on another website. We met a long distance couple from that and wasted alot of time and turned them off because we were too timid. Since then, we've been on SLS and met many more local couples and now we're ready to dive in! -
Easier to start swinging with a MMF threesome?
captainbob replied to elfman36's topic in Swingers Talk
I agree with LikeMinds on this. I am still a newb but recognize that my sweetie has jealousy issues about me with another woman. An MFM might satisfy her desires but won't do much to elevate her jealousy. I'm still where I started with the added bonus that now there's another single guy I have to worry about when I'm away for a few days. I want her to learn that it's a two way street from the beginning. The 2 on 1 that she fantasizes about will happen with the other couples as we get to know them better. -
Going to a swing party to get pregnant
captainbob replied to TerryforSex's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
So, how about them Blue Jays? -
Newbies: Who would you rather play with?
captainbob replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Although I probably shouldn't have, I posted in the other thread and was not impressed with the attitude of the "experienced" swingers. It was mentionned that an indication of a non-newbie is one that doesn't even know the names of those they just had sex with! Lovely. I voted for experienced, but not too experienced. I don't want the attitude, but I'd like to move along at a good pace by a friendly, patient couple that doesn't have their own problems.- 71 replies
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I was drinking beer and surfing the 'net one evening and somebody on a forum wrote about how wonderful the book "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner was. So, I bought it on Amazon.ca. I also bought "The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure by Violet Blue. You shouldn't drink and shop on the 'net! My sweetie thought I was nuts, but appreciates that I spend alot more time going down on her. Anyway, they're both great books and explain why women don't necessarily know how to masterbate and why they might not like oral sex at first. You could have a mental block because you feel unclean, for example . I can't help feeling that your lover might not be doing it right. As Hoistsail mentionned, he should use his fingers on your G-spot. Buy yourselves a nice book on the subject and study up! Shellym said: If you read Ian Kerner's book, you wouldn't say that. There's 18 parts of the clitoris. The head of the clitoris has some 8000 nerve endings, twice what's in the penis. When it comes to pleasure from sex, women get 90% of it! I want to be a woman!
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Google maps says it's almost 3000 kms to your house. SLS says it's almost 1500 miles. Whichever is right, it's too far! Bummer.
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Don't be silly! This is a great thread. Julie was right. You should have shared it with us. I don't think there was sufficient mudslinging to worry about. Hopefully, this discussion is more helpful to you, and others and that help out weighs any damage by any perceived personal attack. It looks as though it takes more than that to fluster sereneiders.
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How do you feel about screamers?
captainbob replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We're not too noisy. We've gotten used to making love with the kids awake in the next room. It's a challenge to not even make the bed squeak. It's an old antique wooden bed. But when the kids aren't home, or if we're on a trip without the kids, then my sweetie can get quite noisy. Once or twice, she has forgotten to be quiet at home and the youngest came running in the room asking if mommy's all right! So we learned to be quiet most of the time.