Hubby and I started into this lifestyle because of my being bisexual. We have our fantasies about another man or couple, but it's mostly for the girls.
I'm on the loud side. Hubby always worries I'm going to wake the kids when it's just him and I. When we are playing with others, I don't hold back. He's got the cutest little grunts and they can get pretty loud also. If we are anywhere but home or a hotel, I usually have to cover my mouth with my hands so I don't wake parents or others.
Love, love, love it. We go alone, just the 2 of us, with our vanilla friends, and have brought playmates with us. We have a ball, laughing, cutting up. We haven't brough a couple yet, but are planning on doing that soon!!!