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    Default Not sure what's going on...

    (M) My wife and I have been in the ls about a year and a half now and it's been great. We have a friend we've know about a year and after a little encouragement from me and the wife she agreed to play with me. She's not comfortable playing with my wife home yet, so we always plan it when she's out. I think it may be going too far, though. We've gone out to dinner twice, alone, which my wife has told me no more. We talk almost everyday, hike and do stuff like that. I'm afraid this is becoming more than the FWB situation we agreed on.


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    Swingers Board Addict lcmim's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Erik13 View Post
    (M) My wife and I have been in the ls about a year and a half now and it's been great. We have a friend we've know about a year and after a little encouragement from me and the wife she agreed to play with me. She's not comfortable playing with my wife home yet, so we always plan it when she's out. I think it may be going too far, though. We've gone out to dinner twice, alone, which my wife has told me no more. We talk almost everyday, hike and do stuff like that. I'm afraid this is becoming more than the FWB situation we agreed on.
    If YOU have that suspicion about yourself, then who should argue with you?
    If you have that suspicion about the lady in question, that is for you and your wife to sort out before you involve the lady in the discussion.

    My advice, from what you say, is to trust your gut.

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    I can understand your friend being uncomfortable fucking in front of your wife the first couple of times, but she should get over it. And why can't your wife join you for dinner and hiking?

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    If the wife has said stop, then you stop. The reason why doesn't matter. If either one of you says no, then the answer for the both of you is no. Time to move along.
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

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    Quote Originally Posted by Erik13 View Post
    Iím afraid this is becoming more than the FWB situation we agreed on.
    I strongly suggest you take the very next exit, Ďcuz I believe you are currently heading for ten miles of really bad road.

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    Being alone with a sex partner from time-to-time for sex or otherwise is fun and fine, but all the time? Why?

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    May I presume this woman has no partner of her own?

    I suspect not, as there has been no mention of it.

    Itís pretty obvious that this woman at best, wants a poly arrangement and at worst, wants to replace your wife.

    You should shut this down yesterday.

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