r_poseidon
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- Birthday May 10
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Couple
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Location
Charleston, South Carolina
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Occupation
Management
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Swinging Experience
6 months-ish
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SLS Name
hedgehogstew
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r_poseidon started following What do sexy women wear?, Soft Swap question: Where to finish off ?, Men, how would you react if a man started giving you oral? and and 7 others
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Soft Swap question: Where to finish off ?
r_poseidon replied to Playtou's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
For me, I like both. Sometimes inside, sometimes on them. I do love the visual of a nice facial tho, something about that is so erotic to me. Dunno why. -
Ladies, ever intimidated by the other woman's body?
r_poseidon replied to 2TexasTornados's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
I know for a fact my girl never has been. She has the most confidence in her body of anyone I have met, and it's totally justified. Now a few people we met, the *other* lady has been a little intimidated, they as much told her that. -
How common is condom use by swingers in your area?
r_poseidon replied to sexcupid's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
I'm actually the same way. I just can NOT function with a condom on. I have only been able to work I think twice. So... it happens. :-( -
Someone is Hot: Do you Tell your Spouse?
r_poseidon replied to Evil_Bastard's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
My girl just recently asked me to start finding "hot girls I would just want to f*ck really hard". I admit it was really weird coming from her, but kinda hot. We spent the night up on the internet sending links of hot girls and porn stars back and forth, and she got excited just as much as me. Maybe after a while when you are more comfortable is when these conversations come up. She reminds me of a guy (in this situation), you know, telling me to go out and try to find a girl for a threesome, or let her know who I want to get into bed. I kinda like it ? -
Seperate Room vs Same Room... what and why?
r_poseidon replied to r_poseidon's topic in Swingers Talk
Well thank you all for your input. It's nice to see totally different opinions on the same topic. :-) -
What makes a man let another man fuck his wife?
r_poseidon replied to Roundstic's topic in Curious About Swinging?
I think everyone totally misjudged the original poster when he asked ".... LET another man...". (I felt no need to write the whole thing out). I see nothing wrong with this wording. Now I am not some dominant asshole (no offense of course to those who are), and MZ is not dom either. But yes, I do *let* her fuck other guys, I do *let* other guys fuck her, just as equally as she graciously *LETS* me fuck other women. The word "let" does not connotate ownership. I wholeheartedly agree with Monkey-Man's ? well written post, that this is done together, as a couple, as a journey, etc etc etc. But the simple fact remains that if neither party has permission to do this... it's not "swinging". Just because you are swinging and happy and stable in your relationship doesn't mean that you don't need permission to engage in these activities. You need permission just as much as you need good communication skills, trust, and love. If MZ felt that this was going to far, and wanted to quit, she would be effectively withdrawing her *permission*. I have no problem admitting that I need her permission, that I need her to *let* me do these things. I need it just as equally as she does, and when we agree on that, when we agree that we are ok with this and say it's ok for each other to do it, that is when the journey begins. Does this make any sense? I don't want to start a fight here, and I may be missing something, but it seems that a few people sort of over-reacted to the original post is all. -
Seperate Room vs Same Room... what and why?
r_poseidon replied to r_poseidon's topic in Swingers Talk
So are you saying that you would never do separate room, for that reason only? -
Going on vacation with another swinger couple
r_poseidon replied to ts4's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Sounds like it could be a lot of fun. We haven't had the opportunity to try this out tho. Hell, we haven't had a vacation to ourselves in a long ass time anyway, lol. -
Seperate Room vs Same Room... what and why?
r_poseidon replied to r_poseidon's topic in Swingers Talk
I'm not saying I have to see her get laid, what I am saying is that it is a major turn on for me. I hope that clears any mis understanding up! -
I saw an older poll about this, and yes, I have used the search thingy. But this isn't a poll, I would like it to be a centralized discussion. Which do you prefer? Same or separate room? And why? If you do same only, would you ever do separate? Why or why not? I read in some random intro to swinging book, that if you are not comfortable with separate room, you should not even be involved in this. I personally find that very flawed. We have never done separate, and not sure if we ever will. For one, 50% of the excitement for me is having MZ right next to be being pounded away! The other bit is that even though I may feel that I know the other guy... unless we have been around them for years, something bad could happen. I guess that what I'm trying to say is that while I enjoy MZ being treated like a whore, and yes, she likes being treated that way as well, I don't want to risk somebody going overboard. Those are just my two reasons. I admit, if the absolute PERFECT couple came along, I may be open to it. (MZ doesn't really care, yes, I am the one saying that we are staying same room). But I am somewhat afraid that I would not be able to open up 100%. Not sure on that one though. When I was thinking about this, it sounded so much better in my head, now I feel as if I have forgotten things and worded this whole post poorly. So forgive me!
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Men: Do you prefer a Lady or a Tramp?
r_poseidon replied to TNT's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
If I don't know the girl... I prefer a lady. Maybe just how I was brought up ? I like being flirted with, just like any other guy, but don't go overboard. I tend to get overwhelmed, lol. But once we are in a relationship, I loooove a total tramp (in private!)- 30 replies
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What's your opinion on family nudity in the home?
r_poseidon replied to sepacouple's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Well we don't have kids (yet)... but I know that we would not be walking around nude in front of them. I mean, sure, I'm sure we will be walked in on, whether getting dressed or... ya know ;-) , but that would just be an accident. -
To Swallow or Not to Swallow
r_poseidon replied to 4ormoresomes's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
MZ always swallows me. She has only semi swallowed one other time, during a MFM. Although it was very VERY hot (she like shoveled the cum off her face into her mouth!), I don't think I would want that to happen every time. Especially since I am only the 2nd guy she has ever swallowed. -
Are you "One Night Stand" swingers?
r_poseidon replied to CLITFRIEND's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We don't mind the one night stands with single guys, actually prefer it that way. But we want to be friends with the couples we meet. Luckily, it has worked out relatively will so far :-)