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16 GoodAbout jimnjan
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- Birthday 04/06/1969
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Relationship Status
Couple
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Location
Shoemakersville, PA
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Occupation
Professional
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Swinging Experience
about a year
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SLS Name
jimnjan
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Favorite Club(s)
Planet Pocono
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How Did You Come Up With Your User/Screen Name?
jimnjan replied to Elusive BiFem's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Now that had me laughing...you changed the words to the song, huh??? For an AWFULLY long time, I thought the words WERE "Secret Asian Man"...I smile every time I see that bank commercial about identity theft with that song in the background. ~ Then again, a friend of mine used to think Brian Adam's song was "Cat's Fuck at Nite"....(cuts like a knife) No lie, true story! LOL -
Then there's me...I'm VERY Bicurious....why am I listed as CURIOUS? 1)You list yourself as BI and every couple thinks you will automatically play with the female. BECAUSE YOU ARE BI. My response? I don't fuck every guy I see, I have to be attracted to them....just like playing with a girl. ALOT of people DO NOT understand that. 2)My first FULLY BI experience with a woman I would prefer to do as a 1 on 1 event. NO SPECTATORS. OMG, can you imagine the first time you had sex had to be with people watching??? Talk about performance anxiety! 3)I have had some bad experiences. Like with the first two women I was ever with....to use my kids terms...they smelled like a swamp, completely nasty...now I am very gunshy. Not that I haven't gone down on a woman, I have (a little, twice), but I had to be completely comfortable with both halves of the couple. The first time was at a club in a semi-private room (curtain for a door) another couple came in and tried to join in...Oh just frigging great (didn't even know them - and the male half of that couple just starts trying to finger me!?!?!?) The other time, she had acted into me, but when I went to go down, she pushed me away. So, as I stated, would love to go 1 on 1 with no spectators with someone I was very attracted to, know a few women who would be willing, but their husbands say "NO", because they have to be there??? They know me & my husband, and know that he would NOT be there, and would be willing to keep her SO company while us girls played. NOT GOOD ENOUGH for them. So, here I am, still bi-curious....and writing novels...LMAO Jan
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I don't like flossing while performing Oral. Either does my hubby. We're staying shaved....LMAO
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Would you appear in a swingers documentary?
jimnjan replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I think we would, if our identity could be protected. Mainly, I wouldn't want to hurt my family (very conservative) or have my kids (even though they are adults) deal with people asking/saying things to them.- 42 replies
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jimnjan replied to Elusive BiFem's topic in Finding People to Swing With
We had no imagination/luck the night we first signed up to a sight....hence, Jimnjan...lol Now we host monthly M&G's by the name of kissabal, we like that one too! Surprisingly, some people think they are fake names....LMAO! -
Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?
jimnjan replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swingers Talk
We've done full swap same and seperate rooms, MFM and one FMF. The FMF was HORRIBLE for us, due to the fact that the other woman LITERALLY kept cock-blocking me and if my hubby tried to show me attention, she did everything she could to get it back, including pulling us apart. We learned a lesson that night, make sure she REALLY wants to share... -
Our first experience was with a couple (good friends), same outcome, hence our rule. The main reason we're not friends anymore? The husband of the other couple OUTED us to mutual friends (vanilla) and we lost THEM as friends as well.
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We host monthly parties (usually around 150+ people). We allow single males. I will tell you this, on our sign up list, we'll have about 75-100 sign ups, and about 25 of them will be single males...HOWEVER...only about 10 show up! Why, I don't know. But that's what we've found. Some people are NOT looking for single males for whatever reason (personally, I think it's insecurity, cuz they sure as hell are looking for single women, even to the point that they show interest in the couple but tell you they only want the female). I hate those parties where you have to 'sponsor' single males or ask the hosts permission to bring them. Why? Well, it's no one's business who I'm meeting, and M&G's are a great place to meet them without wasting 2-3 hours of your time and $75 (dinner/drinks). You don't like them, you walk away, harder to do over dinner/drinks.
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If he can fuck other women, why can't I fuck other men?
jimnjan replied to a topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
You're right, it is unfair. You need to make him talk about it to you. Tell him no more other women until/unless he's going to be fair. Otherwise, this could lead to a breakdown of your marriage. Your marriage should be more important to him than the other women, if not, you have your answer. -
Jim & I prefer to know the people we play with. We love our friends, and even love the people we play with, we're not IN LOVE with them though. We've found the sex is better with those that we know well....
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I've told people that I'm a vocal road map....you're going to know if what you're doing is right!
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Honey pot.
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I have to be in the mood and/or with the right people.