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Well as far as my experiences go, I have been with a couple guys who were slightly curved and couldn't tell a difference... hubby has a slight curve up and to the right but like I said it feels good no matter how it is, but everyone is different. Now I read that a few of you said that you don't like it if it's curved, does that mean you will not play/have sex with another man if he does? I mean I don't think most guys will even say anything about it... and what would you do if you were with this man and started messing around and you noticed it was curved does that mean you will stop messing around right then and there?

LOL this is a very common thing that is gonna continue to happen... I do remember the two times I was with the same man (partner) it happened both times he had sex with me, and I didn't think about it, just kept doing what felt good... he didn't seem to mind b/c he just kept going and alittle harder if I might add... hmmmm, he likes to hear it b/c he is the one who made me do it, LOL! The only thing I can say is forget it happened (I know easier said then done) and if he doesn't seem to bring it up then I would say he was just paying more attention to other things... I hope something I said made you feel better.

Very well said intuition897... The only problem I seen with some of these posts is ppl not understanding the question... I didn't ask anyone to tell me what they think is wrong with it, but I did ask if there is anyone who is doing it and how they felt about it... please remember that God says do not judge anyone b/c he does not judge you... so with that said thanks to everyone who gave some good advice on the matter... it has helped alot.

Thanks for all the advice and input... you have made very strong points... Hubby and I have been in this lifestyle for a couple of months and now he says that he keeps thinking of what God is thinking of him... is it just his nerves getting to him?

"sex outside of marriage = BAD!" ...... so if we are not together but know about what each other is doing is it still considered outside of marriage? And what if we are together when doing it but not in the same room? Will never know unless you ask!!

Thanks I was looking for posts like this but must not have gone back far enough... I am reading them now... thanks.

Are there any christian swingers out there, and what feelings do you have about swinging? Sorry it's not more in detail... just short and sweet. Any advice would be great... thanks.