1hotyogamama
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- Birthday 08/17/1963
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Couple
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Location
Midwest
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Swinging Experience
Mr. Had an experience or two, me relatively new.
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Haven't done clubs, privacy concerns, however, we'd consider one way out of town.
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Same here DNR, I guess it's a quality over quantity thing for me, not that multiples could be erotic for others. I just don't think I could handle many. If it works for you, great! more power to you!
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Who have you told about your swinging activities?
1hotyogamama replied to Coupleerotic22's topic in Swingers Talk
Mr's brother knows and my best friend knows. His brother would actually make a great single swinger and I can tell my best friend anything, heck, she tells me all about her BDSM with her guy friend. Nobody else would understand and we wanted someone to know, that way we can tell them where we are in case of emergencies, etc. and if something happened to us, they could do damage control. We feel it's not our kids business (mine are a little too young to understand), besides, if our exes found out, we'd never hear the end of it and they'd do their best to try to make our lives miserable. It is a shame people can't be accepting of others preferences, whether they're into it or not. I think it'll be a long time coming before its accepted in the general population. -
Thanks, Maui, for the clarification.
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Alright, here's another question for those of you ladies who do. Mr says I do ejaculate, I don't even realize I do, I just figured I got very wet and wet the sheets. But it doesn't shoot out several feet like I've seen or read about, it's more like it flows out. Is this the same thing?
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I have yet been able to do this, although I can get very wet, I have never squirted. If anyone as any tips, let me know. We've tried stimulating the G spot, vibrators, etc. and still nothing. Maybe not everyone can do this. It's kind of depressing reading about it as it sounds like everyone is able to. I think it doesn't help much that I'm so worked up about wanting this to happen. I know you're supposed to relax and just let go, but how exactly do you do that?
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Club 51 in Galesburg, IL?
1hotyogamama replied to 1hotyogamama's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Thanks! We're planning on going in a few weeks. I'll let you know how it goes. -
How Did You Come Up With Your User/Screen Name?
1hotyogamama replied to Elusive BiFem's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Since I'm the primary poster and Mr just reads, I made one that describes me. There's a type of yoga I practice (one of several) called hot yoga. I'm a mom, so it's pretty self explanatory. -
Did you have sex in high school?
1hotyogamama replied to Alura's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Nope, I didn't have sex in high school, I had a lot of male friends and I think they all thought of me as one of the guys. Mr did, at the age of 16. Once I graduated and started college, that changed big time! When I met Mr for the first time around, I really discovered what the big deal was about sex! -
What are YOU gonna be for Halloween?
1hotyogamama replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
Mr hates dressing up for Halloween (which always surprised since he's such an outgoing guy). One year we were invited to a Halloween party, I told him to carry a golf club and wear a sombrero and be the Gulf of Mexico. It elicited a lot of groans. -
BIG dildos - do women enjoy them?
1hotyogamama replied to PlayingPossum's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
I've had two kids by C-section and am still relatively tight, but I do believe it is an anatomy thing. There's no way Mr could get his hand in there, he has big hands-ouch! I will say it is a fantasy of both of ours to meet a woman that liked to be fisted. Being new to posting, we were a little nervous asking about here, obviously we learned that we can talk about just anything!- 13 replies
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I agree with Maui, have you thought about going to a marriage or sex therapist? Obviously it makes you unhappy and it sounds like to me that this pattern of behavior will continue unless you get some sort of outside help. Therapists won't judge, they're there to help you straighten things out. As stated above, stop swinging for now till you can get a handle on it.
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I saw praying the gay away also. It made me wonder how much more it screwed up the people trying to become straight by praying emotionally and mentally. I may believe in Jesus' teachings (notice I didnt say Christianity, I believe we've really gotten away from what Jesus taught) but I'll tell you that there is no way that will work. It may supress their feelings for awhile, but the guilt and shame will come back tenfold when they can't keep it hidden any longer and will set them up for a disaster. Either physically or mentally, I can just see a long time on a therapists couch trying to undo what the ministry did. Loved the swinger piece too, I felt she really touched on all aspects of swinging.
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Oh I forgot, 'Hips Don't Lie' by Shakira or maybe it's the video that can get me going, I (Mrs) keep trying to move them like that!