The appeal of swallowing cum

[ga_cpl_frknit 15]

...is not something I have ever been able to do successfully without gagging, much to my dismay. I am able to go pretty deep if I relax my throat and if I'm doing a long, slow BJ, but if I'm furiously sucking his cock there's no way I can do it. I am quite jealous of women who CAN deepthroat though.

[good times 990]

My wife swallows but it isn't her favorite thing so I don't get it every day. That's probably good though as it is always a special treat when she is into it. She says it grosses her out to kiss after though, no matter who ate who.

[Nymph an' Satyr 19]

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Originally posted by LarrySmith

I'll take answer 'C', I love it when she takes it in her mouth, and then lets it dribble out slowly while continuing to suckle my cock.

 

Yes, yes, quite nice

[Nymph an' Satyr 19]

Like so many things- this comes down to PERSONAL PREFERENCE. No one is wrong- we are all right.

 

My wife loves to suck cock (and pussy god bless her). She is ambivalent as to where the load goes. She will cheerfully swallow, or take a full facial. Her enjoyment of the denouement (one of vjklander's words) is based off of where I want it to go. So much of her pleasure is based off of mine.

 

For the most part she doesn't really love swallowing come, and I prefer the visual of a facial- so that's where it mostly goes

 

She has only one caveat- NOT IN MY EYES!!

[Tiff T 16]

I've always figured a blow-job that doesn't end in a glorious facial is just plain incomplete ...kinda like leading the Indy 500 and pulling over to the shoulder right before the finish line. A strong finish is an intrinsic component when factoring the entire act. JMO

[Alura 2,766]

Perhaps here is another perspective.

 

The first woman to swallow my cream with pleasure told me it takes (I don't remember the number of) years for the body's nourishment system to replace each cell at least once. Therefore, if she digested a bit of me, I would remain a part of her for X years. She thought that was a nice idea. So do I.

[Princess 15]

I read these posts with interest as I have coined a line of "once a thumb sucker, always a thumb sucker" But the thing is I have always tried to make sure I dont miss a drop. :>)

 

Hmmmm, Guess I ought to consider wearing it next time!

*see you can teach old dogs new tricks, you can you can!*

[Flori_DAMAN 24]

There are two sides to this issue. If someone absolutely cannot tolerate swallowing I guess on second thought I could live with that. It is really a small part of a relationship concerning how many hours are in a day and how many issues are in a relationship.

 

Concerning "little fishies", that is hysterical. That is indeed psychological. Your mouth is full of little critters that make the little fishies look like nothings. Did you know that I heard..lol, once again very scientific here, that every time you kiss someone you have a part of him in your mouth for the rest of your life?

 

These little fishies have a lifespan of hours at most and the other big fishies that already exist in your mouth make them seem like guppies in an ocean. They have no mouths, and no ability to penetrate. What about a guy that has a vasectomy? Would that make a difference? The difference in the amount of ejaculate is practically immeasurable because semen constitutes an extremely high percentage of the ejaculate compared to sperm.

[Ashley 21]

Re: deepthroating.....that is one thing I have not been able to do...I do gag if the penis gets too far back there. I did read somewhere that it works better if the woman lays with her head off the bed, kind of like the way a sword swallower tilts his/her head back but I've yet to try it. Anyone else know?

[Flori_DAMAN 24]

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Originally posted by Ashley

Re: deepthroating.....that is one thing I have not been able to do...I do gag if the penis gets too far back there. I did read somewhere that it works better if the woman lays with her head off the bed, kind of like the way a sword swallower tilts his/her head back but I've yet to try it. Anyone else know?

 

I think penis size may be a factor. If you can get the head past the gag response then you won't notice the fluids because they are sent into the esophogus.

 

Yeah if you can straighten out the entrance then you have less pressure on the nerves that cause gag response though.

[uneed_love2 15]

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Originally posted by lostinnvcpl

 

I have experienced spitters, they jump and run to the bathroom and you hear them spitting you out. It is one the most terrible feeling of rejection I have ever felt. I think I would rather not have a BJ if in the end I am to be rejected like that.

 

Ok, I can see that this is not the ideal way to do it...

 

On the other hand, if a woman gives a bj, and the guy then refuses to kiss her till she washes her mouth... that is a complete turn-off also!

 

Just my 2 cents worth

[Nymph an' Satyr 19]

I always kiss my wife after she blows me.

 

Now after she blows somebody else, well that's a little different

[uneed_love2 15]

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Originally posted by Nymph an' Satyr

I always kiss my wife after she blows me.

 

We kiss and share. So I guess we both get to swallow. It gives me the feeling of complicity and it makes it special. And that's the part of it that I really love!

[SDFuntimes 15]

I am very lucky to have a wife who loves to give head to completion . In fact, there are times that I know she is getting off just swallowing, as she starts squeezing her thighs together and thrusting her pelvis rhythmically and moaning with her mouth full. She is very forceful at getting what she started out after, and the bj gets more and more vigorous as it cums to fruition. OH, HOW I LOVE MY GIRL! I have had women that don't swallow and it is completely different experience, with almost a distant feel to it.

 

I have to agree with Mr Alura too, that I should be made aware of the protocol beforehand, and not have to guess how things will happen. I will then determine how long I will allow it to continue before moving on to a more gratifying activity(since swallowing won't be happening), and then there can be no shock and dismay followed by anger as she spits and sputters like she was siphoning gasoline and wound up with a shorter hose than every other time. Man, I still can't get that taste out of my memory.

 

If everyone is upfront about their stance on semen exchange, then there should be nobody puking on anyone's lap.

 

And as for me, I love lapping up nectar at the Y. Give me a woman that gushes buckets when I'm doing my thing, that gets my motor running. Love to see the satisfaction after a good tongue lashing ?

[Misty&Todd 16]

I love to give head and have been told many times that i am very good at it. When it comes to swallowing I really don't like it, I'd rather spit. I just don't really care for the texture.

 

misty

[CLITFRIEND 15]

Can I ask a question here? I am not trying to be funny, (believe it or not), but I am curious.

 

Ladies, did your like or dislike about swallowing come from your earlier experiences in your orally treating a man, or did you gradually grow into the way you feel? I understand that a lot of time, what we like and what we dislike comes from our first few sexual experiences, so would this have anything to do with your opinions of this issue?

[Roxysbayou 19]

I think it is the taste or the saltiness. I have tried, just for the sake of my hubby and this board. But once it hits the back of my throat, forget it. It's coming out. I just couldn't bring myself to swallow it. I still think that it has to with his diet. We use a lot of hot sauce...lol, and spicy food. I have to think that has something to do with it.

[geeman 15]

With my g/f, the issue is texture. It's not just a problem with semen, but with all foods. Texture is more of a problem with what she can or cannot eat than taste.

[BradAndJanet 69]

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Originally posted by Roxysbayou

I think it is the taste or the saltiness. I have tried, just for the sake of my hubby and this board. But once it hits the back of my throat, forget it. It's coming out. I just couldn't bring myself to swallow it. I still think that it has to with his diet. We use a lot of hot sauce...lol, and spicy food. I have to think that has something to do with it.

We appreciate your sacrifice for science and salute you!

[AndynRoxy 15]

I think that I am going to have to try something! She keeps trying to force pineapples on me!

[CLITFRIEND 15]

Originally posted by AndynRoxy

I think that I am going to have to try something! She keeps trying to force pineapples on me!

 

I think that is just her way of saying--"Take me to Hawaii--u big stud u!!!"

[Regularguy 16]

There is no scientific evidence to show that dietary changes affect the taste of come...it is popular lore.

 

The reason why a guys come tastes the way it does is because it must be slightly alkaline to buffer the PH of a woman's acidic pussy. Alkalinity varies, and mine doesn't taste alkaline at all, taste very neutral. So I have never had a problem with women having me come in their mouth once they tasted me.

 

I have had women who were cum-phobic, but I just don't see those types again, no need to.

 

I love going down on a clean, healthy woman. Feeling them squirm against my mouth and tongue, seeing their brows furrow as they slightly grimace in pure pleasure.

 

Personally I don't care if they swallow or not, as long as they don't stop when I am coming, just like I would never pull my tongue off a woman's pussy when she is lubricating into my mouth and/or coming.

 

I had one really good friend and lover who didn't swallow, but she loved for me to come in her mouth, then she would either spit it out all over my dick and suck up and down my shaft...or would kiss me, give it all to me, then she would rock back onto the small of her back, spread her legs and I would spread her pussy open a tad and spill it all into and over her pussy and clit, then start tonguing her....drive her nuts.....

[Nymph an' Satyr 19]

If she wants to spit it all over my dick, I can accept that

[uneed_love2 15]

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Originally posted by happysexaddict

Ladies, did your like or dislike about swallowing come from your earlier experiences in your orally treating a man, or did you gradually grow into the way you feel? I understand that a lot of time, what we like and what we dislike comes from our first few sexual experiences, so would this have anything to do with your opinions of this issue?

 

You are right, its my first experience that made me dislike it. And the experience with my ex didn't help. He refused to kiss me afterwards till I washed my mouth. Which in turn gave me the impression that it is something dirty.

 

With JC I am starting fresh. I am realizing that I don't need to let earlier experiences run my life. I want to experiment, discover new things, maybe that's why we are here. Besides, his body fluids do not have any taste or smell to me which leaves me to believe that his and mine must be very similar. He also loves to kiss and share after which makes it something special to me. And since he doesn't come by the bucket, his dismay, my delight, I have less of a problem to swallow.

[good times 990]

My wife didn't care for the taste and then one of her friends recommended popping a mint just before she started. My life has improved substantially in that department since she added Tic Tac's to her toy chest. It gives a pleasant tingling sensation too, so it's all good.

[Misty&Todd 16]

I think my earlier experiences contribute to why I don't like to swallow. Sometimes I do and in that instance I need something to chase it with like soda or something.

[OhioCouple 38]

Misty, I am with you there. The few times that I have done so with my husband, I have to guzzle down a coke immediately. Coke is my drink of choice, but regardless if it wasn't, I'd have to have one anyway to help chase it all down.

[Guest Seymore]

I'm really surprised that some guys feel so strongly about having their partner swallow. I'm really curious as to how you can tell the difference!

 

My wife (and all my past girlfriends) would swallow, but more recently it's made her nauseated afterwards, so now she usually spits it out. It's not until after I've come and I see her reach for a towel that I know she hasn't swallowed.

 

So if the technique is the same and it feels exactly the same, why is it so important to you? I'm just curious...

[Vjklander 136]

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Originally posted by Seymore

I'm really surprised that some guys feel so strongly about having their partner swallow. I'm really curious as to how you can tell the difference!

 

Well, I don't really care if she swallows or not, however, when I ejaculate she swallows and keeps swallowing sucking and working my cock. She can make my orgasm last for several minutes easy. She really enjoys swallowing and giving me that kind of awesome orgasm. If she stopped to spit it would end the continuity. We have found that some, or most guys can't enjoy that kind of prolonged orgasm.

[Nymph an' Satyr 19]

Count yourself lucky

 

I actually prefer the facial over the swallow.

[CLITFRIEND 15]

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Originally posted by Nymph an' Satyr

Count yourself lucky

 

I actually prefer the facial over the swallow.

 

Apparently, so do most porn queens. I don't think I have ever seen any porn movies where the lady involved just sucked it directly out of the dick they just sucked. Usually it is a facial or somewhere on the body. I have seen where they do lick the cum after it has already been shot. Is this considered the same thing as swallowing? Or is it a little too late for that?

[Uneed_Love 15]

I am not really sure that a porn actress prefers a facial. In fact she does what she is directed to do and paid for!

 

Why then a facial?

 

Just because it is VISUAL. It's easy to understand that if you cum INSIDE then nobody can see something BUT if You come OUTSIDE then it becomes VISUAL and supposed to arouse the customers.

 

Now is this REALLY what women prefer ? IF you read what it's said from the queens of this board then I should say NO.

 

Porn video are marketing products and nothing else. Well, I like this kind of stuff but I am not dupe about the reasons people act as they do in those movies : IT'S COMMERCIAL ONLY.

 

Things are a bit different with amateur videos as long as they don't want to copy the professionals IMHO.

[Flori_DAMAN 24]

I would like to share an experience I had with a very lovely female at a club.

 

We met in the hot tub. No introductions....we just started fucking without saying a word.

 

Her hubby was very enthused as was my wife. It was so spontaneous and consenting it was remarkable. The spirit of open sexuality was there, but due to the fact that it was so impromtu I could not come.

 

Afterwards, her hubby and my wife hooked up and this lady gave me a fabulous blowjob. I leaned back and felt like it was a gift from the heavens.

 

Well, next time we got together she sucked my dick and when I was about to come she pointed it away from her face. It took me by surprise and I asked her why she didn't swallow again. She shocked me by saying that she has NEVER swallowed in her life!

 

In my heart I felt like she must be lying cuz I was sure she did. But truth be known she didn't.......

 

I still wonder how she made it feel that way.

[teknurse 18]

I only swallow with my husband. When we are swinging with another couple I prefer to have him ejaculate somewhere other than my mouth or face or I will spit it out. I just dont like ingesting other men's fluids (other than my spouses). I haven't tried or figured out a way to get around this when I am with another female, my face is usually covered in cum.

[St. Augustine 18]

She says: Great thread! I'm in that category that swallows. Surprised the heck out of my man the first time I did. He had never been with a woman who does. He loved it!

 

All I have to really say about it is this. My exhusband, probably because his diet was so bad, I could not give him blow jobs. He tasted terrible, smelled terrible, even after a shower. I tried once with him in all those years we were married and gagged!

 

Now with Mike, its different! The first time I took him into to mouth I thought YUMMY! He tastes wonderful. I love the way he tastes and smells. It turns me on no end! The first time he ejaculated in my mouth I admit to being apprehensive, but his cum tasted wonderful. Maybe it is because I love him so much. Or that I love the way he smells and tastes, I don't know really. But I swallow whenever he cums in my mouth. He has also let go over my body and my face, I rub it in! It is a great experience for me.

 

Sad to hear that more of you ladies do not feel this way...