Why are people so hesitant to be surgically safe?

[revicamc 15]

In my case, the deductible makes this procedure prohibitively expensive, for now. My GF is an older woman who is not worried about pregnancy.

Also, if I did get snipped, I would like to get paternity insurance. As far as I know, this is unavailable....

[Coupleerotic22 1,417]

As others have stated the Dr gave me orders (in writing) that we should have as much sex a possible as soon as I was comfortable and bring in a fresh sample after 15 ejaculations, we brought in the sample on wed. It was great seeing his jaw hit the floor.

 

Let me get this straight. In less than 48 hours after surgery you had 16 orgasms?!?

 

I bow in respect /o\

[Chicup 38]

Let me get this straight. In less than 48 hours after surgery you had 16 orgasms?!?

 

I bow in respect /o\

 

THESE PIPES ARE CLEAN!!!!!

 

(bonus point for those who get this line)

[MsGoneWild 181]

Not all swingers are in their 30's or older, or done having kids...or have even started having kids...

 

I'm 24, my S.O. is 29. We are not planning on having kids but I want the option open to me if in 9 years we decide we want kids. I am not old enough to consider life changing surgery like that and I would never consider playing with someone who was offended that I wasn't "fixed."

 

It is MY responsibility and my S.O.'s responsibility to keep from getting pregnant. No one else's. If I had to rely on other people to keep my woman theatre empty then I wouldn't be having sex. I'm on the pill (with perfect use) and we use condoms. We do what we can to keep from getting pregnant. We've also discussed the repercussions of an accidental pregnancy.

[Coupleerotic22 1,417]

THESE PIPES ARE CLEAN!!!!!

 

(bonus point for those who get this line)

 

And how, hmmm, hmmmm, hmmm

[LFM2 1,482]

THESE PIPES ARE CLEAN!!!!!

 

(bonus point for those who get this line)

 

I started laughing out loud when I read this...

 

I haven't seen Cabin Boy in ages. He was such an idiot.

[slevin 1,374]

We haven't started having kids yet, but even when we're done I don't think that either of us will get surgery to avoid more kids. Neither of us like to have any medical procedure that isn't needed. Hell, I don't even like taking Tylenol unless I absolutely have to.

[Lascivious L&L 865]

I don't like taking drugs either and didn't for my vasectomy. I recently had surgery for a hernia, and that was surgery. In comparison to the not that heavy duty surgery of a hernia, a vasectomy can hardly be considered in the same ballpark. I've had many far worse cuts in my profession than a vasectomy offers. It's outpatient and hardly worse than many slivers I've pulled out over the years.

 

And the cost? No more than a couple nights on the town, or even one night in some cases. To be absolutely sure that I can't cause pregnancy...priceless. To rely on condoms for pregnancy protection simply postpones the pregnancy for a while, in most cases.

 

Yes, men are often wimps when it comes to the most reliable pregnancy protection available to them. And the cheapest.

[revicamc 15]

And the cost? No more than a couple nights on the town, or even one night in some cases.

 

 

How do you figure? Cost is about $1000 - $1200 My deductible is $2000.

 

I had a hernia operation 3.5 years ago. Had a $3000 deduct. Had to pay >$3500 for a $5000 operation - took me 2.5 years to do it.

[TheSwingerSet 205]

Let me get this straight. In less than 48 hours after surgery you had 16 orgasms?!?

 

I bow in respect /o\

 

It was more like 56 hours, Surgery was at 7 a.m. Monday and brought the sample in around 4 pm wed. Mrs. swingerset gives great oral . We just wanted to get it over with as soon as possible.

 

On a side note, I had a sperm count done every year for the first five after the snip just to be sure.

 

K

[Lascivious L&L 865]

My vasectomy cost $400 years ago. My hernia operation cost $7500 last year. While the hernia repair was worth the money, it can't compare to my vasectomy's worth.

 

I've checked my no sperm count almost every year. Doesn't require a doctor, just a basic microscope and a sample. Looking at my sperm before the vasectomy was one of the most profound experiences of my life. It was the first time I reached a physical understanding of the number millions. The vitality and motility of those sperm were impressive. It brought home how easy it would be to get a woman pregnant in a way never equaled by words. Seeing the number of very motile sperm before and the total absence after sealed the deal that no swimmers existed. And decades later I can be just as sure.