Couples Profile Reviews

[Trin&Neo 15]

See? I knew y'all wouldn't miss a beat. These are exactly two of my primary areas of concern. I'm gonna take both pieces of advice actually. I felt the same thing about the single males thing - the negative vibe that is. However I was so impressed with my rather unintentional (albeit witty) rhyming capability simply from the train of thought, I left it in.

 

Thanks again for taking the time to look at it. It is really appreciated.

 

-Neo

[Mr. Truelove 81]

Well, we recently made a new profile for ourselves on SLS. Revamped the whole thing and would really like some critiques. Be honest, be brutal! We will be adding more pictures as we take them, and we have some pending private pictures too. One goal is to have a public picture that shows us together as we feel that is important to have in any profile.

 

So, here it is:

 

TheTrueloves on SLS

 

Thank you,

 

Mr. & Mrs. Truelove

[havefuninsun 122]

Looks good to me! I didn't read anything I'd find "negative." You guys have such a fun, quick whited personality on the board -- I didn't "feel" that in the ad as much. I'm not sure how to add something that reflects that, but if you can, I think that would be super duper.

 

We probably need to work on ours, too. It sounds a bit negative. I had several not so pleasant emails from people who got pissy when I wouldn't share face pics right away. We don't do that. If we've chatted and made a connection, then we'll share face pics. Until then, I'm not willing to have our face out there for anyone who wants to know what we look like. It's a job/family discretion thing. So, I added a blurb about that in our profile and maybe people get offended, who knows.

 

Our profile is havefuninsun (duh)

[Tonio647 15]

OOH, OOH!! Pick us, please?!?! Kaine in Texas (There is another in NY) on SLS.

 

TIA,

T & E

[flkeyscouple 20]

Tonio647, to the board. Your SLS profile looks great. I like the detail you put in about being a couple and playing together. Looks good to me.

 

Sarah

[Mr. Truelove 81]

Our profile is havefuninsun (duh)

 

I'm assuming that means you want me to return the favor, if it isn't then sorry, you are getting my opinions anyway. :-P

 

Your tagline is so funny. I was laughing as soon as I read it. I think your profile did exactly what mine didn't. It shows a lot of personality, and I like that.

 

The only thing I didn't like is where you said "Some of the most unfun people we've met have been "pretty people" who couldn't hold a conversation in a bucket" When people have something in their profile that talks down on individuals, it kinda puts the person in a bad light. I'd refrain from putting something like that in there and just leave it that you value good conversation. Afterall, the people that are bad at it aren't going to read that and suddenly not contact you... I hope that doesn't come across sounding bad as I only say it to be honest and helpful.

 

Other than that though, I really like your profile.

 

Mr. Truelove

[havefuninsun 122]

The only thing I didn't like is where you said "Some of the most unfun people we've met have been "pretty people" who couldn't hold a conversation in a bucket"

 

Very good call!

 

I changed it to:

 

"Some of the most fun folks we’ve met have been “blind dates.” It's kinda like opening a Christmas present :)"

 

thanks again!

[catslaughing 45]

Okay, give us a shot please. Rip it up, pick on us, we have thick skins :-0 Well, don't pick me on me, I know she is the hot one! heh

 

We are Catslaughing on SLS.

[DGrey 28]

Catslaughing --- very well written and catchy.

 

The only reccommendation I would make would be to rearrange your pics so that when you pull up the profile, all visible pics are right there. Then, when a user click on the "more pictures" link, they will then find the rest after the first 5 are private pics. It's just a peeve of mine to see the "private picture" icon on the main profile page.

 

E

[catslaughing 45]

Thanks, pictures are reordered. We were allowed to see our private pics, so I did not notice.

[Mr. Truelove 81]

Just a comment on that. I don't believe unpaid members can click on "more pictures". So you can rearrange pictures like that to maybe keep some pictures private so unpaid people can't see them, yet still be public to paid. I think that has a little bit of an appeal in case you want that extra level of semi-privacy.

 

And I took a moment to look at your profile catslaughing... I like it. After I read it I felt like I had a good feel for what you were about, what you were interested in, and what you were not into. Wish more people put effort like that into profiles.

 

Mr. Truelove

[des1re06 200]

Please review our profile Des1re06 at swinglifestyle.com

 

Looking for a classy way to be more graphic in describing what we want.

 

Example for Mrs. ? Ummm, I really like giving oral to both male & female, while being penetrated.

 

Example for Mr. ? Loves to watch her being "penetrated" and hearing her scream.

 

See, I'm awful at putting this into words.

 

Thanks for your help.

 

Mrs. Des1re

[JustAskJulie 2,589]

des1re06 said:

Please review our profile Des1re06 at swinglifestyle.com

 

Honestly, you may want to include just what you said here. The one thing I saw missing was specifics about what you want out of swinging.. what types of things you are looking for. Are you full swap or soft swap? Does the Mr just prefer to watch (which is what I gathered from above), or are both partners looking to do an actual swap? What is it that you want from swinging? You said you want a couple who is interested in the same things you are but what are those things? (and are you talking about just sexual interests or non-sexual as well?).

 

Also in your other post you mentioned sending/ opening pics for people then never hearing from them again. It's obviously not a look issue as the Mrs is smokin. In your profile you mention that you will open more pictures once you chat a bit. I would suggest leaving that out. If you have private pics then it's obvious they are private for a reason and they may/may not be shared at your discretion. By stating that you will open them once you chat a bit you are inviting people to just chat with you for a bit just to get to see your pictures.

 

Just MO

[Mr. Truelove 81]

I think all couples profiles should have a general picture of both the male and the female. I mean, if you are important enough for me to see, why isn't your hubby important for my wife to see?

 

It doesn't have to be revealing, but we'd like to know general shapes, skin colors, body hair, etc...

 

I'm camera shy too, but I managed to get one up.

 

Mr. Truelove

[des1re06 200]

We edited our profile last night, and are waiting for a pic of him to be approved.

 

Thanks for your suggestions.

 

Mrs. Des1re

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

Mrs. Des1re ~

 

I read your profile and want to thank you for opening your private pictures to me. They are great pics, tastefully done and compliment you both. I think removing your prior statement about opening your private pics after chatting with people was a wise decision. This should help keep the picture collectors at bay.

 

Julie and Mr Truelove have made some great points and I see that you have already made changes in your profile that have made a big difference:

 

You now have a public picture of Mr. Des1re. I think this is so important, even if his face is not visable. Women want to know BEFORE writing to a couple what the man looks like. I think too often the husband will contact a couple before discussing a profile with his wife, then, after she looks at the profile or finally sees private pictures she does not share her husband's enthusiasm and they disappear. All the more reason to have pictures of both of you public that show your physiques and even some of your head (hair, smile) that will give a women sense of what you look like. You can do this without revealing your identity.

 

You found a way of telling people what you both like sexually, and it doesn't sound gross.

 

LM

[des1re06 200]

Thanks so much for your input! Now it's someone else's turn for your expertise.

 

We're going to go through the search again tonight and make more contacts. Still looking for that one couple we can call up for a spur of the moment get together (close friends w/benefits).

 

Mrs. & Mr. Des1re

[28volts 15]

Please checkout ours

 

28volts at swinglifestyle.com

 

Mr S

[Bad Sandy 15]

Hi guys, check ours out. I know we aren't certified yet. We need to ask a couple of our "playmates" to do that and also need to do that for them. Thanks in advance for suggestions. Sandy

 

extrovertintrovert at swinglifestyle.com

[Mr. Truelove 81]

Bad Sandy said:

Hi guys, check ours out.

 

I'm not sure I have any to offer for your profile. It looked excellent and has everything I look for. Well, except that you are both hot and live way too far away from us.

 

Mr. Truelove

[Mr. Truelove 81]

28volts said:

Please checkout ours

 

Not sure I have anything to add to yours. I like your profile. It does seem a bit witty, which is a good thing.

 

Mr. Truelove

[Playtou 15]

We would love to get some input on ours.

We are Playtou on SLS.

Thanks.

[prettylady 221]

LOVE IT!

Too bad we live in Canada.

It was right to the point, I know exactly what you want and don't want. I love that the Mr. is in the picture. I really don't like not knowing what I am getting myself into. It makes you wonder why some couples don't show the male half. Pictures are beautiful and fun.

 

I would contact you two in a heart beat if you weren't so damn far away. Typical, find a couple you like and have to drive several hours to get to them.

 

But sometimes long distance relationships can be fun too.

[Playtou 15]

Thanks Prettylady, I wondered about dwelling too much on the requirement for us to see both parties but we have had a real problem with that.

 

As for being so far away there’s always Hedo! We meet lots of couples from Canada there.

[wdc_couple 15]

OK, we've been doing this a little over a year now, and figured out what we like and don't like so we have put some time in our profile and thought we'd see what the experts say, good or bad. We are a couple more into an overall fun evening/experience verses meet and have sex 10 minutes later. Let us know what you think - and thanks in advance!

 

We are wdc_couple on SLS - we're sorry but don't have the public profile option turned on, so we guess that only SLS members will be able to comment.

[Mr. Truelove 81]

We would love to get some input on ours.

We are Playtou on SLS.

Thanks.

 

Wow, I totally agree. All these great couples live too far away! I love the black cowgirl hat. Very sexy....

 

Mr. Truelove

[The Fuse 1,012]

Bad Sandy said:

Hi guys, check ours out. I know we aren't certified yet. We need to ask a couple of our "playmates" to do that and also need to do that for them. Thanks in advance for suggestions. Sandy

 

Hi Sandy,

 

Great profile! The only nit I have is that the word "discreet" is mis-spelled the first time it's used. It's spelled correctly the second time it appears.

 

And, though it's obvious... wow... facelick and I like what you two wrote in your descriptions too.

[VanHlebar 187]

Bad Sandy said:

Hi guys, check ours out. I know we aren't certified yet. We need to ask a couple of our "playmates" to do that and also need to do that for them. Thanks in advance for suggestions. Sandy

 

Hi Sandy great profile. I noticed in your profile that you two are headed to Hedo II (again) this winter. MrsVan and I are headed there for our first trip here in 11 days and can't wait to go.

 

-Van

[Bad Sandy 15]

Gee thanks, Mr. Truelove. The same goes for you guys! LEt us know if you ever get down to Caliente or Paradise Lakes!

 

Sandy

[Mr. Truelove 81]

Oh, if we ever are, we'll look you up...

 

There are always the vanilla meetups the board arranges.

 

Mr. Truelove

[wdc_couple 15]

We tried to post this a couple of days ago, but it never showed up on the board. If this ends up being a repost, we apologize.

 

We've been in the lifestyle for over a year now and feel we have learned what we are looking for. We tend to want to have fun evenings with couples we enjoy socially, and then hopefully enjoy each other even more in private. We've spent some time on our profile, and would love to hear what everyone thinks. Our profile name is wdc_couple, and we are listed on swinglifestyle.com as well as altplayground.net.

 

Thanks in advance!

[swingcouple69 25]

Hello everyone! I hope that I'm doing this right. Our Board name was taken on SLS so we switched. If you could give advice on our profile it would be much appreciated. Also if you have any idea of what kind of pics would be appropriate for our profile we are open to suggestions! I hope I'm giving the correct link we are a public profile.

 

coupleswing69 at swinglifestyle.com

[Bad Sandy 15]

Thanks for your help Fuse. I'll go fix the spelling! Can't see your profile though. I must be doing something wrong.

 

And Mr. Van, we just got back from our second trip to Hedo II. Man, it is addicting! I know you guys will love it. Are you going during a lifestyles takeover? We have never been on a regular week, but the lifestyles weeks are crazy! Like living in an amature porn flik for a week!

 

Sandy

[blueguitar 15]

Hi all! Just wondering if you could give us newbies a hand in making our sls site look tasteful and inviting. Any criticisms, comments, feedback, suggestions are welcome. We don't have a public site though, so you will have to do a search for us under the name "blueguitar".

 

Thanks in advance!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,019]

OK, JoAnn and I are going to put our profile up for public critique. Our appreciation for any comments or suggestions.

 

Michael

[mdhappycouple2 15]

We are members on SLS and have met a couple of interesting people. We have met a couple that we really click with and have had an incredible night with them. However, no one is responding to our ad at this point, it's like SLS has died. Is anyone else experiencing this on SLS?

 

Feel free to go check out our ad we are happycouple2share

 

Any advice you can give to draw more attention to it will be much appreciated.

[good times 990]

mdhappycouple2,

 

We thought your profile was ok, but I have to admit we wouldn't contact you because from your profile it sounds like you are really only seeking single females. That may be the problem, since their are very few single females that are willing to play with the male of a couple, you may be limiting the response you get by indicating that is what you prefer. Basically when I read what you are looking for it says to me that you are looking for single females or if they were absolutely perfect you might settle for a couple.

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

OK, JoAnn and I are going to put our profile up for public critique. Our appreciation for any comments or suggestions.

 

Michael

Hi Michael and JoAnn!

 

I took a look at your profile and loved it instantly for it's unique appeal. Your pictures are so well done. I got the biggest laugh from Michael at the ironing board. What a hoot! Now that's the way every man should show off his bare chest.

 

Your default picture of the two of you together is superb.

 

I can't find a thing to improve about your profile.

 

LM

[spectraschain 21]

You asked............

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

We are members on SLS and have met a couple of interesting people. We have met a couple that we really click with and have had an incredible night with them. However, no one is responding to our ad at this point, it's like SLS has died. Is anyone else experiencing this on SLS?

 

Feel free to go check out our ad we are happycouple2share

 

Any advice you can give to draw more attention to it will be much appreciated.

I agree with GoodTimes that your profile seems directed toward women since you start by saying "We are in search of a sexy lady to play with us. We have not ruled out couples but need to meet one that everything feels right with." I would be hesitant to contact you because I would wonder if you aren't really interested in meeting couples other than to get a women, and the hubby would be left watching.

 

You describe yourselves and what you enjoy clearly enough. As I read through your profile I was comfortable until I got to the last long paragraph where the tone of your profile changed considerably. You say you aren't into "watersports, kids, animals, extreme pain, and other weird shit" and I don't think most swingers are, so I wouldn't even list that. I think reading that statement turns more people away than attracts them. Regarding your feelings about bicurious men: all that needs saying is that you aren't interested in meeting bicurious men.

 

LM

[The Fuse 1,012]

We are members on SLS and have met a couple of interesting people. We have met a couple that we really click with and have had an incredible night with them. However, no one is responding to our ad at this point, it's like SLS has died. Is anyone else experiencing this on SLS?

 

Feel free to go check out our ad we are happycouple2share

 

Any advice you can give to draw more attention to it will be much appreciated.

 

You will definitely get more attention if you post some more flattering public pictures. One pic of the two of you in sweatshirts? You can do better than that.

 

GoodTimes and LikeMinds have good points. I would be convinced you're not looking for couples at all. If you're not, say you're not.

 

I would also suggest taking out some of the negative-sounding commentary about bi-curious males. It would be enough to say "We have no interest in bi or bi-curious males", and leave it at that.

[cataryna 70]

Wow...We'd love for you guys to look at and critique our profile.

 

SLS ID cataryna

[The Fuse 1,012]

Wow...We'd love for you guys to look at and critique our profile.

 

SLS ID cataryna

You guys have a wonderful profile. The only thing I can find is a nit. In the sentence "It's whats behind those eyes that interests us more", there should be an apostrophe in "what's".

 

Have fun!

[cataryna 70]

Thanks! We have a lot of friends in the lifestyle though because we host parties, but we very rarely hook up through the profile and don't understand why. I've thought about adding some more risque pictures but well I'm very camera shy and hate every picture that has been taken of me. He is very photogenic and never takes bad pictures.

[The Fuse 1,012]

If you have lots of friends through your parties, consider yourself lucky and don't worry about your SLS profile. I don't think you need risque photos, although a few full-body shots in party clothes would be nice.

 

Your sexiness shines in your personality (from your posts so far, that is obvious) as well as your pictures, and he's a handsome dude. Again, I wouldn't worry about your ad since you're doing well in person already -- and the objective of the ad is to get where you are already.

[mdhappycouple2 15]

Thank you for the advice. I will update my profile.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,019]

I took a look at your profile . . . LM

 

We are flattered. I was reluctant to post the ironing board picture. It was her idea and she is now vindicated.

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

OK, we've been doing this a little over a year now, and figured out what we like and don't like so we have put some time in our profile and thought we'd see what the experts say, good or bad. We are a couple more into an overall fun evening/experience verses meet and have sex 10 minutes later. Let us know what you think - and thanks in advance!

 

We are wdc_couple on SLS - we're sorry but don't have the public profile option turned on, so we guess that only SLS members will be able to comment.

My goodness, it's been too long since you requested comments on your profile. Sorry it has taken this long for someone to reply. I only just came across it.

 

You have a profile that communicates many things that people appreciate knowing right from the start. I think you do it well and keep a consistent upbeat approach throughout. Your profile kept my interest all the way through, and that's good, considering it's a longer profile.

 

You've got pictures of both of you available to the public that clearly show your physical appearance in a tasteful way.

 

I'm not coming up with any suggestions for change.

 

LM

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

swingcouple69 said:

Our Board name was taken on SLS so we switched. If you could give advice on our profile it would be much appreciated.

I first notice pictures when opening a profile and I have to say that I don't know what that is on Mr coupleswing69 genitals. Is he wearing something, or did you block out that protion of the picture with scribbling? I would prefer seeing another type of picture up front.

 

Your first paragraph is where I wanted to make changes: "for safety reasons" can be taken out. I wouldn't mention that "it's been sometime since our last fun" because I don't think it helps your profile. And saying "NO fakes!" won't stop them from contacting you if they want to, so I'd take that statement out, it rings too loud when read. And if you say, "If you want to email that's fine." it sounds like you are so disinterested in being contacted, and more important, how is someone suppose to contact you unless they email?

 

You do a great job of telling people exactly what you'd like to do sexually. That shows you are confident enough to share what you like and what you want.

 

LM

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

Hi all! Just wondering if you could give us newbies a hand in making our sls site look tasteful and inviting. Any criticisms, comments, feedback, suggestions are welcome. We don't have a public site though, so you will have to do a search for us under the name "blueguitar".

 

Thanks in advance!

I hope someone else will see your request and give you their opinions. I took a look at your profile awhile back (while replying to another thread you started) and I had this to say:

 

I looked at your profile and I think it's great. Wonderful pictures. Smart of you to keep your faces private. Your personality and fine character come through.

 

So you know I liked what I saw.

 

LM