To Swallow or Not to Swallow

[twohotblondes 15]

And its better having two men droping some sperm on me

 

[lauriern 16]

It's just something you have to do. The only time I spit is when its a much larger amount than I expected and I am just not ready.

[zebrahead7557 15]

I prefer it on my tits. I will only swallow my husband's "marinade",LOL.

[ronkaren 18]

I swallow Ronnie, and will if I know them well. I get turned on by having them cum on me. I like to see the cum spurt and flow out on me when I'm with someone new. Just sooo erotic to make a man cum. And I agree with two hot blondes, two cocks cumming on me is so much more fun than one. It probably goes back to the fact that I never had intercourse until I was in college, and not much then. But I sure did give a lot of handjobs. And I was fascinated by my ability to make them cum.

[Paul&Audrey 20]

Mrs. Ronkaren sounds like my type of lady!

 

~~bare~~

[24funinva 16]

I swallow all the time. I just can't help myself. My husband isn't too thrilled with it, but when I start something (or someone) I just have to finish the job!!

 

D

[Spoomonkey 418]

My husband isn't too thrilled with it...

 

I'd like to respectfully suggest that you work hard to be on the same page as your spouse when swinging. Doing something that he is not comfortable with is incredibly disrespectful. One of the strengths of our marriage and involvement in the lifestyle is that we respect each other and would do nothing that hurts each other.

 

Swallowing is an incredibly sexy thing - but it if you are willing to do it at the risk of your marriage, I would say there are some issues there...

 

Spoomonkey

[DBL D 120]

Yummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm With hubby only. facelick

[akamgaxoxo 25]

I swallow on occasion.....I personally like to watch a man cum as well, and I prefer it to be on other areas of my body. I find that to be a real turn on....but just NEVER on my face!!

[grabbyzz 26]

Looking thru various ads I have noticed that alot of them say "Love to give oral" "I swallow", etc., now I know that alot of them are scams but got me thinking, how many women out there actually like to give head and swallow?

[midnight hour 16]

Me~I have swallowed since the first time I ever gave oral...it was not until later that I found out how few women actually do... no wonder my boyfriends loved me to death..... even now when we are with another man and Mr. Midnight says she loves to swallow they about come off the bed.....

 

midnight hour

[JustAskJulie 2,588]

Ditto. I never realized there was another option and when I realized there was I thought that was just plain out gross (spitting it out). That's the part I love the most, the finish and the look on his face as I suck out the last drop

[Ssugarlips 16]

Swallowing has always seemed the natural thing to do. I would miss my guys' twitching, quivering, groaning/moaning that occurs after I've swallowed but haven't stopped softly sucking/licking on his swollen head.

[MikeNJen 15]

I enjoy it very much and swallow. I even had to explain to a guy that was going to have his first bi experience how to swallow.

I have only had a problem with it once, and that was when my ex grabbed the back of my head and wouldnt let go. I was pissed. and so was he after he realized i didnt swallow it and he had to wash his face

Hubbie has been dissapointed with oral play so far cus he is fairly well endowed and a great many women cant deep throat, and that is what he is use to, but I dont mind, cus i get to give head to both the guys

 

Jen

[txduo2000 18]

I am definitely a swallower ... and in fact, didn't realize that I am a minority !!!!! Everyone I know swallows.

 

Now when it comes to swinging ... I may or may not with other partners. It depends on the comfort level, of course, as in I have to know them well enough and be comfortable enough in their honesty to do that with them. Otherwise, safe sex issues come into play and swallowing is obviously not possible there.

 

But with Hubby .... ALWAYS!

[Vespertine 31]

I'm a selective swallower.

 

With some men, I can't get enough... but they are few and far between.

 

I guess I can be labeled as a Fellatio Snob.

[jennandjamesinm 87]

I'm a selective swallower.

 

With some men, I can't get enough... but they are few and far between.

 

I guess I can be labeled as a Fellatio Snob.

 

Love it!!!! I about fell off of my chair when I read this.

 

Jenn

[jennandjamesinm 87]

Oh yeah - I am a swallower. But there have been times where I just can't - don't know why.

 

Jenn

[Dynamar 246]

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't... mainly depends on the size of the equipment. I can swallow easier with the average guys.

[DBL D 120]

Swallowing..I would miss my guys' twitching, quivering, groaning/moaning that occurs after I've swallowed but haven't stopped softly sucking/licking on his swollen head.

 

OMG Sugarlips, that is exactly what happens to me when I cum in a ladies mouth, but for some reason that doesn't seem to be the "coup de gras". I like to cum other places too.

 

Last time I was with a playmate, I asked her where she would like it. She said it didn't matter. I gave her a shot in her pussy and then the rest in her mouth.

 

Is that like...multi-tasking?

 

Male D

[silent04 15]

love to swallow why watse a good thing lol nedd i say more

[djjwp 129]

Wow, this should have been a poll!

 

I hardly ever cum by oral; she swallowed the one of two times I was able to cum in her mouth. She has stated that she is not thrilled by the taste. I guess I need to get some pineapple juice!

[ALilOEverything 900]

I try, I really really try. I can only take a little bit at a time and I have to be in the mood. I think if I could just change my mindset I think it would be easier. Maybe I should practice a little more

[MikeNJen 15]

Its like sucking a milkshake through a straw, suck hard and keep swallowing

[Mrs Spoomonkey 117]

Vespertine said:

I'm a selective swallower.

 

With some men, I can't get enough... but they are few and far between.

 

I guess I can be labeled as a Fellatio Snob.

 

 

I can always count on you Ves to come up with something like this

 

 

I had only given oral a couple of times before meeting Mr Spoo and had never swallowed Didn't like the thought or the possiblity of tasting it.

What can I say though ... the first thing I wanted to do was to suck his cock and I've been at it ever since I guess you could say he's my experiment monkey Whenever I get a new idea or want to practice "deep throating" I do it on him.....which is everytime we have sex

 

Ssugarlips said:

Swallowing..I would miss my guys' twitching, quivering, groaning/moaning that occurs after I've swallowed but haven't stopped softly sucking/licking on his swollen head.

 

Exactly why I love swallowing with Mr Spoo facelick

I love to swallow whatever he has to give me and yes since I had never done it prior to Mr Spoo it was something I had to learn, but now I love it. I do have to say that I am like Ves and txduo2000. When it comes to playmates the whole safe sex issue comes into play so there are only a few that we know well that I will swallow.

[Spoomonkey 418]

I love this woman...

[Pineyfolks 15]

I have swallowed but i prefer to deep throat him and then fuck his brains out He hasn't mentioned a preference. Now my problem is i gag with alot of thick stuff in my mouth. Medicine, cum, even toothpaste makes me gag. SO I prefer to NOT gag and just enjoy the sucking and his response. HOWEVER....his cock doesn't gag me...lmao...(bigger then average)

[northindycpl 32]

With Mr. Indy there is never an issue. I like to do it. And it is all about the finish. Doing it to completion and watching his face and body recieve so much pleasure.

 

With playmates, I don't want to. I would rather it be deposited elsewhere.

 

Count me in the snob catagory, too, Ves!

[MichelleandJohn 15]

Well, you know the old saying "If at first you don't succeed, keep sucking".

[bicuryuskuple 15]

OMG Sugarlips, that is exactly what happens to me when I cum in a ladies mouth, but for some reason that doesn't seem to be the "coup de gras". I like to cum other places too.

 

Last time I was with a playmate, I asked her where she would like it. She said it didn't matter. I gave her a shot in her pussy and then the rest in her mouth.

 

Is that like...multi-tasking?

 

Male D

 

THAT is a great idea. She loves it when I shoot inside her, but I never thought about popping my load both in AND out. ThankX!

[bicuryuskuple 15]

How do you get over the "taste" issue? I think that is the biggest hurdle for her, and I have yet to try it.....

[intuition897 2,177]

Sure I don't have a problem swallowing, but I don't exactly roll it around in my mouth and savour the taste. Sorry guys. Nothing personal. You'd be all set if it was chocolate-flavoured or something. But it's not. Ladies, can you think of a way to describe the flavour? Or gentlemen if you have the experience?

 

Now that said, I really do enjoy swallowing. It adds to the experience I think. But I find that I have to be really 'into it' to enjoy it. If I'm in the wrong frame of mind it can really make me gag. You know, I don't think it's the flavour that's the problem so much as the texture. Kinda reminds me of raw egg whites if I think about it the wrong way.

 

Sorry guys, am I being too graphic?

[Vespertine 31]

Ladies, can you think of a way to describe the flavour?

It sure doesn't taste like chicken.

[bear_and_babe 68]

I love giving oral, but I just can't swallow. I guess I am strange, I love for a guy to cum in my mouth, but I just can't gulp it down. Sorry guys, but to me it is like swallowing a raw oyster - YUCK! It is a texture thing. I do swallow Bear every once in a while, but not swing partners. Most of my swing partners are happy to get a blowjob, swallow or not. It seems that not a lot of women enjoy giving blowjobs.

 

Oh, and I also love to have a load on my clit, tits, ass...well, anywhere I guess!

[Paul&Audrey 20]

Hmmmmmm....

I feel kinda lonely on this matter now... I love giving head on hubby and he tells me I am very good at it! BUT! I have yet to bring myself to swallow. Just can't overcome feelings from the past on the matter...long story.

 

Baremama

[MassPleaser 16]

My wife will only give head if I wear a condom or cover it with something with a fruit taste, she get's grossed out by the idea of swallowing. It's been ok with me because I've never really cared about it and only recently have I received such good head that I came within minutes, gotta love her mom. The other women in her family all swallow, and so have most of the women we've been with.

[Dynamar 246]

It's been ok with me because I've never really cared about it and only recently have I received such good head that I came within minutes, gotta love her mom. The other women in her family all swallow, and so have most of the women we've been with.

Ummm... Am I the only one wondering about this scenario? LOL

[BiDrywallChick 18]

Ummm... Am I the only one wondering about this scenario? LOL

 

lmao.. lets not wonder too much

 

side note:

 

I do not swallow.. I dont wanna, dont like too ect ect. I am a visual person. I like to watch someone come on me.. my fav places are belly and breasts.. it gets me started for round 2 or 3 or 12

[MassPleaser 16]

Yass, Vat eez dis family connect-shun you have, Masspleaser?

 

M.D.

maybe I forgot to mention that my wife let's me have sex with pretty much anyone, and that includes her mom, sister, ex-girlfriends etc.....

[Dynamar 246]

maybe I forgot to mention that my wife let's me have sex with pretty much anyone, and that includes her mom, sister, ex-girlfriends etc.....

Wow... just... wow!

[DBL D 120]

maybe I forgot to mention that my wife let's me have sex with pretty much anyone, and that includes her mom, sister, ex-girlfriends etc.....

 

That must be one TIGHT circle! YIKES!

 

M.D.

[Spoomonkey 418]

Personally, I am a visual guy. Sure, I enjoy it when Mrs Spoo swallows - and there are certainly times when I ask her to, depending on the mood, but generally speaking, I really prefer to "see" what we've accomplished

 

That said, I have only had one playmate swallow. I am difficult to finish orally - I love oral - but I rarely finish that way. For me - it is really a non-issue.

 

It sure is sexy, though, when Mrs Spoo tells me that's what she wants! She is in a pretty lusty mood when that happens.

 

Spoomonkey

[Vespertine 31]

I am difficult to finish orally - I love oral - but I rarely finish that way.

I have met a lot of men that have a difficult time finishing orally. I think a lot of men are very visual and prefer to "see" the end product of their sexual experience.

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

Spoomonkey said:

 

I am difficult to finish orally - I love oral - but I rarely finish that way. For me - it is really a non-issue.

This bit of news really hit me as a surprise! Not as a personal statement about you, Spoo, but that men would have difficulty finishing orally.

 

I've always thought that an oral finish would be easy to obtain, even more so than through intercourse.

 

Boy, I need to hear more about this. I'm now feeling I've put some guys under pressure to cum. They don't tell me to stop so I keep going, yet they don't cum. I figure it's first time jitters, or they're worn out. And yes, it could be my technique, but I've had enough men cum with my oral and show their delight to feel I am adequate there.

 

I ask men to tell me what they want, how they like it, but some men are not good about directing me. I'm used to receiving that from Mr LM and I like it when a guy says, "slower, faster, deeper, oh yeah, that's just feeling great right there."

 

Some men are too quiet for me. Got any suggestions for finding out what men like? I've asked them if they want to cum in my mouth, on my body, or inside me? Most respond, whatever you want. I now wonder if they are trying to be pleasers rather than say what they prefer.

 

I love to swallow if I can see that my partner is turned on by it. If he has a ho-hum attitude, I'll find somebody else's cum to swallow.

[DBL D 120]

I'm a plumber, what can I say? I like to keep the "fluid" in the "pipe". However in this situation, I could probably handle seeing a "leak". facelick

 

M.D.

[Ssugarlips 16]

LikeMinds321 said:

This bit of news really hit me as a surprise! Not as a personal statement about you, Spoo, but that men would have difficulty finishing orally.

 

I've always thought that an oral finish would be easy to obtain, even more so than through intercourse.

 

My husband has never finished from oral sex...no matter what woman was involved. I have seen him receive some killer bj's but he finishes inside a woman. The few times I've taken him in my mouth have been when he's pulled out so I can drink him down or rarely, he'll jerk off for me and I'll catch the ending.

 

Most, not all, of my lovers cum from oral sex. I don't worry about it any more. I usually ask them when we first begin a sexual relationship if they cum from bj's. Every man has been able to say yes or no to the question. I still enjoy the pleasure of man's dick in my mouth, but for the ones who don't finish that way, I don't give myself lockjaw from attempting the impossible. I enjoy myself, give them some pleasure, and move on to the next activities.

[MrsPlaytime 17]

I remember the first time my b/f came in my mouth, what a surprise I about drowned and gagged. I have learned to really like it now, I think it is a very normal reaction now. If my first b/f could see me know.

[CuriousInOregon 16]

I guess there are a lot more swallowers out there than I thought, but I am not one of them, I have tried and tried but cant bring myself to do it with out gaging, I have no problems with cum in my mouth as long as I am warned first but expect me to spit either back on you for more lube or I keep a towel close by for discreat disposal. Mr. Has tried everything pinapple juice, no red meat, Coconut Milk, all the remedys out there to sweeten and heighten the taste but Its just not for me, I guess you have to like the taste at least a little huh?

[momnextdoor2 15]

I've swallowed once, when the guy I was with came suddenly and I wasn't expecting it. The only other time I've had cum in my mouth is with my husband and I ended up spitting it out. I just can't get over the texture and the anticipation almost makes it worse. If I knew exactly when it was going to happen, I think I'd feel better about it. "If I suck his dick for 5 minutes, then he'll be done right then." It's the not knowing that gets me - it's like that ride at Six Flags that takes you up to the top of a tall tower and you don't know when it's going to drop out from under you - I hate that.

[curiousagain 326]

My husband has never finished from oral sex...no matter what woman was involved. I have seen him receive some killer bj's but he finishes inside a woman. The few times I've taken him in my mouth have been when he's pulled out so I can drink him down or rarely, he'll jerk off for me and I'll catch the ending.

 

Most, not all, of my lovers cum from oral sex. I don't worry about it any more. I usually ask them when we first begin a sexual relationship if they cum from bj's. Every man has been able to say yes or no to the question. I still enjoy the pleasure of man's dick in my mouth, but for the ones who don't finish that way, I don't give myself lockjaw from attempting the impossible. I enjoy myself, give them some pleasure, and move on to the next activities.

 

 

There perhaps is the key. If a guy isn't sure if a woman will swallow or not he will be very hesitant to give her the opportunity and may even have a mental block. She needs to let him know before the start or early on that she is ready, able, and willing to swallow. I recently went through the "BJ forever but not to finish" with a FWB several times because I thought she didn't want to swallow and I didn't want to ruin her hair do.

 

One day she asked why I couldn't finish with a BJ and I told her why so she informed me she loved to swallow. End of problem! Now she can finish me in about a minute when she wants. It's like I lose control or something cause I know she's going to swallow.