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Condoms breaking or slipping off

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Did you experience a condom breaking or slipping off?  

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  1. 1. Did you experience a condom breaking or slipping off?

    • I do not use condoms
      126
    • I never had any problems
      244
    • I experienced 1 or 2 failures
      318
    • I experienced 3 to 9 failures
      86
    • I experienced 10 or more failures
      17
    • if it happened - i always noticed it in time
      63
    • if it happened - i did not notice it in time
      48

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Philandscarlett    15

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Phil did break quite a few back in the day, but luckily always with long-term girlfriends with back-up birth control. I am a reasonably well proportioned gentleman which doesn't help the fortitude of the rubber, but mostly I think breakages can usually be blamed on 'getting right to it' without enough juices/lube to ease things along...not my fault though, i just dated a string of women so self conscious about the 'smell' downstairs that foreplay was pretty limited and only seemed interested in penetration

 

Scarlet has been lucky in the condom department so far

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Sophy    551

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We have Never experienced that, but accidents happen no doubt about it, not long ago we were playing with a couple we met that night and during a very passionate foreplay I got accidentally penetrated by the other guy before he had the opportunity to put the condom, we both jump back like cats! he almost fell from bed, my husband and the other girl were shocked, then we all laugh, It was most hilarious than anything.

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I had a guy put one on but then kind of slip it off before he put it in. At least, that's what I think happened. When he pulled out, it wasn't there. He said it just fell off as he pulled out and fell between the bed and the wall. After he left, I looked and couldn't find it any where. Problem here was that I didn't know whether it might be somewhere inside me. I had to finger, probe and was so concerned that I went for a doctor's exam.

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