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Believe me. I always dress for sex and try to where something that makes me available. But, here's proof that you don't need to get too sexed up to turn a man on. We had a Super Bowl Party...it was very casual. A lot of team jersey kind of apparel. And looky here. Someone, I don't know who, didn't feel it, did a drive-by cum on my butt! LMAO. Do you think it was my ass or the heels that inspired them?

 

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Believe me. I always dress for sex and try to where something that makes me available. But, here's proof that you don't need to get too sexed up to turn a man on.

 

You don't need to prove that to me. If a woman is hot, I think most guys wouldn't give a rat's ass about what she wears. We just look right throught it anyway. I think this is one reason that I and lots of guys can't really understand why women spend so much time getting ready.

 

 

 

We had a Super Bowl Party...it was very casual. A lot of team jersey kind of apparel. And looky here. Someone, I don't know who, didn't feel it, did a drive-by cum on my butt! LMAO. Do you think it was my ass or the heels that inspired them?

 

As a guy, I'd have to say that the inspiration (in order) would be: (1) I found the woman attractive. And; (2) I had the opportunity.

 

I would never noticed the heels, unless the heels created a height mismatch. If the mismatch is that she's too short, the heels might be handy, but not he only way.

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I disagree. I love it when a woman is wearing sexy clothing. It doesn't have to be blatant, but a bit of cleavage, maybe a slit in a skirt that shows a bit of thigh when sitting, a sweater over yoga pants, something that covers but is easy access is always a good thing. We went for dinner at Culvers last night(I know…totally unhealthy) Mrs Doc was wearing soft faded jeans with heels (not cfm shoes) and a Henley shirt with 3 buttons undone and no bra. Every time she went for ice or napkins, I fully enjoyed the little bounce her boobs did under the shirt as she walked back and how I could see just a hint of her nipples against the softness of the Henley. Im sure that I wasn't the only one who appreciated the look although there was no drive by cum.

To answer your question, I think is was both the heels and your ass in those tight pants that inspired a quick ruboff.

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A lot of men enjoy the look and the heels. As far as function, I'm 5'4" and the 4-6" heels come in handy for kissing and if I want to bend over and accept a man from behind.

 

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I disagree. I love it when a woman is wearing sexy clothing.

OK, but are telling me that you can't tell if a woman is attractive or unattractive regardless of what she is wearing or that you would be interested in a woman because of what she is wearing, but wouldn't if you saw her naked? I mean, you can love sexy clothing, but I can't imagine that clothing would have the slightest affect on whether or not you found a woman attractive (except mabe at a distance).

 

A lot of men enjoy the look and the heels.

Ok, but if you didn't like the way she looked without heels, would the heels change anything? If you liked her with heels, could you find her unattractive if she took them off?

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Never had any complaints about my heels. Even when they are pointed to the ceiling

 

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@ Ozzie & Harriet…Of course not! I like an attractive woman in sexy clothing as described. I also like my wife in a robe with bunny slippers. Given the opportunity, I'd probably like Harriet in a robe and bunny slippers too. When we lived in wintery Pa, I thought my wife was incredibly sexy in blue jeans, boots, and a sweater with a winter coat (it was just more work to get her out of that stuff!!). I think she's pretty sexy wearing one of my dress shirts, heels and a thong (getting her out of that was waaaaay easier). Im a male, I like women dressed or undressed. I was more or less responding to Fullswapclt's initial post not attempting to lock myself into a specific type of dress or undress.

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'Sexy' comes from within the woman and doesn't matter what they are wearing...but some things help amplify it better than others.

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So funny, my husband and I were just talking about this. I love to dress sexy but sometimes I notice he is attracted to women (at the club) who are not dressed sexy at all. When I questioned him, he said he never really pays attention to what a woman is wearing. Really? Men are not noticing our sexy clothing or is it just him???

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Sexy is something that a woman projects from inside and doesn't depend on what she is wearing. We've seen women dressed like soccer moms that are sexy as heck and women trying to be sexy but only look sad or that they are trying too hard. Of course a sexy woman wearing something that shows off her assets is super sexy.

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