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  1. #26

    Default Re: Small breasts a dealbreaker?

    I've got a pretty big rack, and I'm currently waiting for reduction surgery. Big tits are NOT as much fun as you might think. They are a huge pain in neck...literally. Do you have any idea how glad I'll be to not HAVE to wear a bra? To not suffer from boob-sweat in July? To not have to shop at the big-lady store to find a size that fits? To be able to buy those cute little light-weight bras from Walmart for $5.99? To be able to wear something strapless? To be able to wear shirts that button in the front? To not be borderline obscene in every goddamned outfit you put on? I can't wear anything low-cut at the office without seeming like a complete hussy, but a smaller-busted coworker could pull it off.

    Ultimately, boob size is a preference, and for every type, there's someone who loves them. And what does that mean? It means that one size is not better than another. It's just different. I'm with cplnuswing: you're not auditioning for America's Next Top Model, you're swinging. People like real people, with real bodies, real confidence, and real chemistry. Work what you've got! Just assume people will find you sexy, and they will. A powerful sexual presence can reside in any kind of body, so find your inner goddess and let Her out.
    Fear is a symptom of ignorance. Knowledge is the cure.

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    FunintheSnow
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    Default Re: Small breasts a dealbreaker?

    I do have some (secondhand) idea, intuition897, not personally but from having had a roommate and good friend who was plagued with backaches and the rest of it. I hope your surgery comes soon and that it goes well!

    Before I was in the LS I did actively enjoy all the positive aspects you describe. My original post was a while ago and I've pretty much come to terms with it. If our culture didn't obsess over breasts, I wouldn't feel any differently about mine than I do about any other aspect of my appearance that might not be Barbie-like.

  3. #28
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    Default Re: Small breasts a dealbreaker?

    Quote Originally Posted by intuition897 View Post
    I've got a pretty big rack, and I'm currently waiting for reduction surgery. Big tits are NOT as much fun as you might think. They are a huge pain in neck...literally. Do you have any idea how glad I'll be to not HAVE to wear a bra? To not suffer from boob-sweat in July? To not have to shop at the big-lady store to find a size that fits? To be able to buy those cute little light-weight bras from Walmart for $5.99? To be able to wear something strapless? To be able to wear shirts that button in the front? To not be borderline obscene in every goddamned outfit you put on? I can't wear anything low-cut at the office without seeming like a complete hussy, but a smaller-busted coworker could pull it off.

    Ultimately, boob size is a preference, and for every type, there's someone who loves them. And what does that mean? It means that one size is not better than another. It's just different. I'm with cplnuswing: you're not auditioning for America's Next Top Model, you're swinging. People like real people, with real bodies, real confidence, and real chemistry. Work what you've got! Just assume people will find you sexy, and they will. A powerful sexual presence can reside in any kind of body, so find your inner goddess and let Her out.
    Good luck with the surgery. How long do you think you will have to wait? Is the surgery called "elective" or something like that so the wait is longer? Or is there a long wait for most medical attention? You have contributed so much to this site over the years and you present as a lovely person, regardless of your breast size--big or small. Again, hope all goes well and soon!

  4. #29

    Default Re: Small breasts a dealbreaker?

    Quote Originally Posted by Wornsilver View Post
    Good luck with the surgery. How long do you think you will have to wait? Is the surgery called "elective" or something like that so the wait is longer? Or is there a long wait for most medical attention? You have contributed so much to this site over the years and you present as a lovely person, regardless of your breast size--big or small. Again, hope all goes well and soon!
    Thanks, Wornsilver. Yes, it's considered elective, so it tends to have a pretty long wait list. I've been waiting for a surgery date over 2 years now, which is getting ridiculous. But when they have to choose between, say, a cancer patient and me, I can understand getting bumped. Since I've lost weight, it's not quite as problematic as it once was - I was a 38H bra size at one point. Try packing THAT into a bathing suit. But I've always been "top-heavy" and I'm looking forward to the rest of my life knowing how the other half lives.
    Fear is a symptom of ignorance. Knowledge is the cure.

  5. #30

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    Just speaking for myself as a pansexual person, I have big breasts and I am probably most attracted to smaller breasts in other women. Something about the contrast really does it for me on a mental level. That being said in general I don't tend to scrutinize or linger over other people's bodies in a bad way. Maybe some other people are different but when I'm mentally attracted, I naturally focus on what I find attractive about their body and everything else kind of fades away. Even stuff like amazing eyes, big hands, a really delicate neck, etc.

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    Default Re: Small breasts a dealbreaker?

    Quote Originally Posted by intuition897 View Post
    I was a 38H bra size at one point. Try packing THAT into a bathing suit.
    A woman friend of ours weighs 90 pounds and has a shape like a bean pole (a bean pole having no protuberances). She is also legally blind. At a party she encounters a dining room chair and finds a brassiere draped over the back. She holds the bra up close to her good eye and reads out loud, "44EE." Her only comment was, "this much material could be used to make an entire dress for me."

    Bean poles are OK with me.
    Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. The answer is "yes".

  7. #32

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    [HUBBY] oh trust me they are far from a dealbreaker. In fact there are tons of men out there who have a huge fetish for them and don't like big boobs at all.

    You'll find plenty of people who will be super into them. In my experience men aren't too picky. A guy may say that he likes a tall blonde, with blue eyes and big D cup boobs, but really if he runs into a really cute brunette who is 5ft5, brown eyes and a B cup, you know what? He's fine with that! Cute is cute. I think men are more flexible than even some women are in this regard. In my experience, a lot of girls I know who say they don't like blonde guys, mean it and just won't date a blonde guy unless their preferences change when they are older. I've known girls who prefer tall guys at least 6ft and they stick to it. I've known very few guys that don't go outside of their declared preferences because at the end of the day, if we think you are cute, we're into you regardless of type.

    PS small perky boobs are super fun to play with in my book. I love variety, big boobs are fun on a different way, but small boobs are crazy fun too.

  8. #33

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    We like our girls small and sporty, from your post it sounds like you're just our type. Don't change a thing!


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    Default Re: Small breasts a dealbreaker?

    Quote Originally Posted by intuition897 View Post
    Thanks, Wornsilver. Yes, it's considered elective, so it tends to have a pretty long wait list. I've been waiting for a surgery date over 2 years now, which is getting ridiculous. But when they have to choose between, say, a cancer patient and me, I can understand getting bumped. Since I've lost weight, it's not quite as problematic as it once was - I was a 38H bra size at one point. Try packing THAT into a bathing suit. But I've always been "top-heavy" and I'm looking forward to the rest of my life knowing how the other half lives.
    Hey, Intuition. Did you ever get the surgery? Hope so.

  10. #35

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    Well I am not alone in loving ladies with small breasts, the only thing I like better is having them pierced a sign of a true kinky lady. I have know a couple of ladies that have had implants what a waste of a nice pair of breasts. Stick with what you have they sound wonderful.

  11. #36

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    Quote Originally Posted by FunintheSnow View Post
    Thoughts? Am I crazy to think many people walk on by when they see my figure? Or am I being realistic? Am I being stupid about implants?
    I love women of all shapes and sizes.

    It sounds as if you think people are walking by because you have small tits. How big is big enough. How little is too little Do you really want an experience with people who are that shallow?

  12. #37

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    Any part of a breast you can't get in your mouth is wasted.

  13. #38

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    When I was younger I was very self-conscious of my late development. I never met anyone who ran because I wasn’t big.
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  14. #39

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    I've had many conversations with my husband about his lifetime of partners and he has never expressed any kind of aversion to any body type. One partner with pretty much just nipples, he said he just loved their erectness and it was just as much of a turn on...she also had other turn ons about her...slim, soft legs, etc.

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    Default Re: Small breasts a dealbreaker?

    Here is what science tells us about this question:

    Men Like Big Boobs
    Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. The answer is "yes".

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    Default Re: Small breasts a dealbreaker?

    I cant speak for any one but myself...eyes & smile are what makes a woman atractive and sexy.. boobs, ass and the rest is the spicy variety that makes each of you unique... so dont worry about your boobs.. just smile & let us see your beautifull eyes and youll drive us guys crazy... boing! be yourself, be happy... smiles are sooo dammm sexy..lol


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    Default Re: Small breasts a dealbreaker?

    I like any kind of shapely boobs. The other curves are a bonus. I am a little on the heavy side, so if the woman is too, no problem , who am I to complain. My wife on the other hand is super fit.

    I agree that it is more about the smile, personality and innate sexiness that attracts me over one body part.

    Huge boobs are not a turn on for me. I don't think that I have been with a woman with enhanced breasts, but if it is ok with her, it is ok with me.

  18. #43
    Swingers Board Addict couplers's Avatar
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    Default Re: Small breasts a dealbreaker?

    Obviously, those in my poly family like my tits well enough. Among the three of us girls there is a good variety of me being tiny, Clair being fairly large and Lora nicely in the middle. My point in commenting here though is that of all the other guys who have commented on me being small breasted (at the gym, at work, running partners, etc.) secretly, down deep, really want to have a peak at whatever is actually there.

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