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DGrey

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About DGrey

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    Swingers Board Addict
  • Birthday 10/18/1972

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  • Relationship Status
    Married Female
  • Location
    Exit 13A Thank you very much!
  • Occupation
    Teacher
  • Swinging Experience
    A Few Months

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  • SLS Name
    DGrey

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  1. The definition of monogamy is the practice of being married to or only having one mate in a lifetime (or in these days at a time I suppose) and comes from the Latin mono, meaning "one" and gamen meaning "marriage". So, according to that, swingers are monogamous. I don't consider other people I sleep with as mates and I'm certainly not going to marry any of them. Of course, within the definition of monogamy, sexual exclusivity is implied but I'm all about what's within the root of a word. I'm an Anglophile at heart and etymology is a fascination of mine.
  2. Our profile states that we prefer the female half of the couple to be bi or bicurious. I am bi and we both find the interaction between females something exciting. We just like to know that if in the heat of the moment, my hands or mouth should find their way to the other woman, she isn't going to flip out because she's not at least bi-curious. E
  3. I've been on national television...twice. D's been featured in 2 magainze articles. D's won a Webby Award My great-great grandfather founded Rutgers University. I have a Backstreet Boy's phone number on speed dial and he answers if I call to say hello so it's not just a stalker thing.
  4. It depends on the situation and the people we're with.
  5. We prefer no crotch shots at all...we'd rather uncover that prize in real life. However, if we do see a crotch shot, we do prefer them to be well groomed. I was approving some pics last night on SLS and there were quite a few of a woman like Mrs. Tybee described. I wanted to hurl. It holds no appeal for me whatsoever. E
  6. Catslaughing --- very well written and catchy. The only reccommendation I would make would be to rearrange your pics so that when you pull up the profile, all visible pics are right there. Then, when a user click on the "more pictures" link, they will then find the rest after the first 5 are private pics. It's just a peeve of mine to see the "private picture" icon on the main profile page. E
  7. I'll give you an example. Both males in question are 1/2 of a couple we've played with before. Pushy: Greeting me with a kiss where he tries to force his tongue down my throat Flirty: Kissing me lightly on the lips while gently brushing his hand somewhere along my body Pushy: Coming up to me at various points in the evening trying to kiss me as outlined above or blatantly grabbing something Flirty: Walking by and gently kissing my ear Pushy: Rubbing up against me while I'm bent over for a shot during a pool game Flirty: Making eye contact with me and blowing me a kiss forcing me to lose said pool shot E
  8. The reasoning behind the idea that it's easier to spread an STD with anal sex is that condoms are not designed for anal sex. This is why it's believed that the spread of AIDS is easier between homosexual men. The rectum is a tight place and condoms are not manufactured specifically for anal use and therefore, aren't as effective in preventing the spread of disease during anal sex. The idea behind this theory is that with the tightness comes the risk of breaking and/or slipping. Also, the tissue is far more delicate and is more prone to tiny tears again facilitating the spread of disease. Just as no condom is 100% effective in preventing STD transmission for vaginal sex, it's the same for anal sex. Granted, your chances of passing/getting something from anal sex decreases with condom use, it still poses a risk. For me personally, I take a risk by having sex with others, even when condoms are worn. The risk is already there. If anal is something I'm in the mood for and my partner is agreeable to it, it happens. I think it's important to remember that condoms are not a guarantee that you won't end up with an STD.
  9. We enjoyed it before the lifestyle and in the lifestyle, we enjoy it from time to time. I have to be completely in the mood for it though. It's not one of those activities that we can plan because it's just something where if I'm feeling it and really want it, the request will slip out of my mouth and we'll take it from there.
  10. I'm so happy to hear that you're home, doing well and that your cervix and uterus are still intact. This is really wonderful to hear.
  11. A few of our vanilla friends know. If people were to ever ask, we wouldn't lie to them about it.
  12. We have no experience with meeting single men online but we certainly get enough emails from them. A surefire way to get emails from them is to put in your profile, "Not interested in single men". Seriously though, I don't think you'd have a problem finding single men. If there are any local meet and greets in your area, that would probably be a great way to start. E
  13. In my own experience, there's really no "trick" to letting it go. It's letting go of the psychological fear that you're going to pee on someone. It's being able to totally relax and just let it happen.
  14. I just want to give you a hug because I have no advice to offer up to you. I will tell you though to make sure you and your husband speak up and make sure that when you sign all those endless consent forms, you write on it somewhere that the uterus and cervix are not to be removed. Have you discussed the possibility of having an epidural so that if anything should arise, you can discuss it with the surgeon right then and there? I'll be thinking of you.
  15. Wow. I couldn't even imagine touching my sister like that. No relatives is pretty much one of the only rules we have. E
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