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What does your swinger club cost?
SoFlaCouple replied to SwingSetWife's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Our primary club for couples is $50 for a 2 month membership ($300/yr) and a nightly fee ranging from $40 on Wednesday to $80 on Saturday (again for couples). Much more for single men (who are not allowed on Saturday and Sunday), and less expensive for single women. A very good dinner buffet and starting at 1 am breakfast buffet with cooked to order eggs and omelets is included. Two bars provide all the mixers for your BYOB. -
New and wife is more comfortable that I am. Need advice
SoFlaCouple replied to PlacidMatt's topic in Curious About Swinging?
We stick to men text the men, women text the women, or a group text with all involved. But then again, we are in this as a couple and our "kink" is the group aspect, not the one on one with someone else. -
Wife wants "open marriage", not sure about the idea
SoFlaCouple replied to 3622maw's topic in Swinging Solo
Great story! Glad it worked out so well! -
Yes, yes, and yes. ;-)
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New and wife is more comfortable that I am. Need advice
SoFlaCouple replied to PlacidMatt's topic in Curious About Swinging?
No, you love to have sex with her and want to have more. I think that's healthy and normal. The good news is that you will likely end up having even more sex with her. This swinging thing has a way or ramping up sexual energy on both sides. We also have what we call reclamation sex. Whether it is when we get home, the next morning, or the next night, we make it a point to have sex again, just the two of us, as a way to reconnect. -
Special bed cover or sheets for sex?
SoFlaCouple replied to TwoFunTexans's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
We use the Liberator Throe and love it. It has a waterproof membrane that keeps the sheets from getting wet. I usually throw it in the wash when we are done, and we have it fresh for the next night. Highly recommended. We have given them as gifts to some of our wetter friends. Liberator Fascinator Throe - Sex Blanket, Waterproof Female Ejaculation Sheets -
We finished the second show last night, and ... well, we liked watching it. Not because it is riveting programming, to the contrary it's seems a bit scripted and contrived. However... We liked for other reasons. First, it sparked discussions between us on various issues, and helped to reaffirm that we are on the same page in a lot of different areas. Second, like most LS couples, we have had our bumps along the way. We typically only discuss these bumps with each other and not among our LS friends. Seeing the issues arise on the show (usually before they even happen), the reactions, the discussions, and how they are resolved are instructive, both in a positive and negative way. Third, although we have had friends come to us with an issue from time to time, we have never been a fly on the wall of other couples to see how they resolve their issues. This gives you that opportunity. Just maybe someone will learn from some of these situations. Fourth, it's a decent reality check on how swingers can be perceived by others, and potential consequences of being out or outed. Finally, it is a reminder that no matter how careful you think you are, you may be giving away the fact that you are a swinger. For example, when the one woman confessed to her mom, my take away is that no matter how careful you may think you are, you may unknowingly be identifying yourself as a swinger by your everyday actions (in fact, how people carry themselves in bars and interact with others is how we are able to pick swingers out of a crowd). Will the show win an Emmy? No. Does the show promote the best view of swingers? No. Are there lessons real and potential swingers can take from the show? I think so. And for that reason, I'll keep watching.
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Great advise above. Being smart will greatly reduce the risk. If you do happen to run into someone in a club, they are there for the same reason as you, and you can always say it is your first time there (unless it is the second time you run into them). ;-) On a more serious note, there was a thread a while back asking if anyone actually knew anyone that really suffered consequences for being outed. Not only were the stories of being outed very few, but despite the collective years of experience on this board, as I recall, nobody knew anyone that had something REALLY bad happen (my apologies if my memory is failing me). There were a few stories of kids, family, etc accidentally seeing pictures on a phone or computer (please everyone, password protect that stuff!!). Again, just be smart. If all else fails, admit nothing, deny everything, and use the Shaggy defense ..."it wasn't me."
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Used to play separately, husband wants to change it
SoFlaCouple replied to hasema's topic in Swinging Solo
My wife telling me she can get babysitting for her to swing alone but not to swing with me would bother me. I agree that you should find the root of why the separate play really bothers you, and that might solve the problem. Also, it may be your gut telling you it is time to slow down for a while. Listen to that instinct.- 14 replies
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We want to swing with the couple across the street
SoFlaCouple replied to Sirramm's topic in Finding People to Swing With
For the reasons stated above, HORRIBLE, HORRIBLE, HORRIBLE idea!!! ... and that was my toned down response. Let this fantasy remain a fantasy. -
Lies, cheating, and responsibility
SoFlaCouple replied to Lionheart72's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
^^This^^ Not quite to the level of gonorrhea, but we certainly wouldn't play with them again. We expect honesty from couples. If they are going to lie to their spouses and lie to us about being a couple or having the consent of their spouse, then how do we know they are telling the truth about being disease free? We take that personally. Not the we will lose sleep over it personally, the "fuck you" we are moving on personally.