MarniJohn
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MarniJohn started following Corona Virus and Swinging, Swing clubs in Lisbon and Porto, Missing condom and and 7 others
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The woman that had this happen is actually very laid back and so is her husband. I think that's why I'm so shocked that he just didn't say anything. I wondered if he thought it fell off when he pulled out. Just think I would be furious if I "found" a condom while peeing!
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Good points! That's what I love about this forum. You can get other points of view!! Thanks!!!
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We have been in the lifestyle for a very long time. We always have fun and try to keep things light. We were playing next to a couple last night and alarms bells were ringing in my head while I watched. The passion between a couple who swapped (one man, one woman) was palpable. Their spouses lightly played and enjoyed each other but this couple had a passion that was hard to ignore. When their spouses noticed how hot they were, they tried to intervene and touch but they were completely ignored. My husband and I agreed that there is a fine line between fun and lifestyle danger. This seemed like more than simple swapping. Ignoring your spouse seems so wrong to me. Thoughts?
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Discomfort with receiving oral
MarniJohn replied to PNW_Mr_Tom's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
My husband is not circumcised and oral is a REAL challenge for him. He is very sensitive and the majority of women he has encountered, have been very rough. When we met he didn't tell me what the issue was and often avoided having me suck him. I was perplexed! When I finally asked him and he told me, I showed him how wonderful it could be if he would trust me to be gentle and follow his lead. I have told him often, to be honest with women in the lifestyle because frankly, if a woman is giving a guy head, it is to please him. A brief comment before she starts would make all the difference! I would bet no woman would have a problem with a man telling her what he likes! -
Yes! I do the same. Wouldn't you want your partner to tell you if you had bad breath? It's like having a piece of food caught in your teeth. Tell me, please!
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I cannot figure out why bad breath is such a common problem at swing clubs. The part that baffles me the most is that we know a few men whose breath have hang time. I mean it's so bad that I have a problem talking to them. I like them so much but I cannot handle the smell. My question is why don't their partners tell them? Or, like I often do, offer them a mint? One of these couples both husband and wife are dentists! Thoughts?
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Trapeze, Ft. Lauderdale, Florida is open
MarniJohn replied to njbm's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
I heard when the club was open, Saturday night was at about 50% of a regular Saturday When I asked how many people that would be, I was told about 200 people. The play room was packed. Go figure.... -
Men often tell me I'm tight but I think it's because I delivered my kids by c section.
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Actually Collette's is opening Friday in Houston, Austin & Dallas. New Orleans won't allow it. They report that they had over 1500 responses asking if people want them to open: 75% of their customers said they can't wait, 10% said no, 15% not yet. Their response: the 25% who are not ready they totally understand. 70% of the respondents said no masks necessary. 71% thought taking the staff's temperature would put them at ease 92% are ok with them refusing members with a temperature The result, they will disinfect the place so people should not have to worry about getting sick at their club.
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There are swingers from these clubs that have been holding private parties the entire time. I don't agree with their decision but my freedom is the choice to decline the invitations to attend. They argue that swingers are risk takers and they are not worried about getting sick. My argument to them was that I am concerned not strictly for myself, but for those around me that I could unintentionally contaminate. Apparantly this makes me a pussy.... These are the folks that are waiting for the doors to open. I agree in terms of the problems businesses are facing that we must reopen to avoid total collapse. Perhaps there is a way they can reopen for social purposes, not sexual... I'm laughing as I write this because I know that's impossible.
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I have had this happen more than once (with different men). I am very vocal about not playing without a condom but some men think it's their decision and not mine. It is disrespectful at the very least. I called them both out as soon as I discovered what was happening. I will not play with anyone who acts like that.
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I have a really hard time understanding why people can't ride this out with their significant other. I agree, if you must go out, take a walk or ride your bike, you'd be surprised how good it feels. It is a well known fact that a group of "regular" swingers in our area are continuing to have parties. We've been invited and found it shocking that this group can't handle a lilttle down time. We were told we are pussies because we declined the invitation. I can live with that.
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I couldn't agree more! I have very definite opinions about this but I realize that those who agree will applaud, and those who don't will say something nasty. Whatever the case, what my husband and I have gained from this (and we are big time swingers), is a sense of renewed closeness. We have turned back to only each other for sex and comfort. It has been remarkable to feel so close again.