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knb2004 last won the day on December 11 2008
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364 ExcellentAbout knb2004
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Swingers Board Addict
- Birthday 05/30/1969
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M. Couple
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NYC
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Poker, swimming, fishing, camping and more!
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Taking care of each other
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Swinging Experience
3 Yrs
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knb2004
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Checkmates Manhattan
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knb2004 started following Single male hiding swinging involvement from girlfriend, New reality show on Discover Health features swingers, ABC's Nightline does a swinger story and and 4 others
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Interesting journalistic article on the lifestyle, and for once they got a lot of things remarkably accurate and it's not a "hit piece" designed as journalism. 'Course, they missed the most important part in the definition of "Unicorn", which they described merely as "a single female", and am I the only one who's never heard of a "Cruise Director"? Sadly, the comment section is predictable. The secret life of swingers: New reality show reveals what REALLY goes on when five 'average' couples swap sexual partners | Mail Online
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"Cheating", by definition, is violating the rules. If the rules of your relationship include, by mutual consent, that fucking other people (even if only under certain circumstances) is NOT a violation of the rules, then no cheating has occurred. The terms of your relationship are determined by the two of you, and nobody else.
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Recent experience at Caliente Resort Tampa
knb2004 replied to Amazing's topic in Adventures in Swinging
Funny to find this old post and read my prior comment. Since those words were posted, we have moved to Tampa and party at Caliente all the time. 13 out of the past 14 weekends LOL, and we'll be there tomorrow night! -
Since we moved to Florida, it's practically every weekend. It's sometimes exhausting lol...
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Okay for me but not for thee is a problem. Nuff said.
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Are you "out" as a swinger to your families?
knb2004 replied to StewartP's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Outside of parental units, and work peeps, we're pretty much completely open. We have few vanilla friends, but they know because, frankly we wouldn't want to be associated with anyone who would be judgemental. We make exceptions for parents because we're genuinely concerned the shock could instigate a stroke, or worse. But if my mom doesn't stop asking so many pointed questions, I'm going to start answering them truthfully. -
Single male hiding swinging involvement from girlfriend
knb2004 replied to shrevecouple's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
My take on it is that it's a disaster in the making regardless of what was or wasn't said and by whom. Swingers and vanillas don't belong together. Like oil and water, the two just don't mix.- 23 replies
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Well, then, do the rest of us a favor and find the 10% who meet your (unrealistic) standards and have fun with them. In the meantime, those of us who realize that Playboy TV is unrealistic fantasy will have fun with our 30- and 40- and 50-something non-perfect friends, and go home having enjoyed a good time, even if it wasn't with flawless pornstars. You may be hotter than this months Playmate of the Month, but given your attitude, I wouldn't fuck you with Charlie Sheen's dick. Sorry. And rest assured, I'm no underwear model. But I have hundreds of friends that share a mutual love. Which is way more important than making you have the most recent plastic surgery to look perfect.
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Wow. Please let me defend Florida swingers, while we've only been 'Florida' swingers for a couple of months now, we've been swingers for much longer. In the 2 months we've been here, we have met some of the most amazing, beautiful, kind, loving, sweet and amazing people you'd ever want to meet, and we don't ever want to leave. (Anyone reading these words who knows the term Swing Break and spent the last few days wearing a wrist band probably knows us!) Are we all 22-year-old hardbodies? Hell no. This is the real world, the one portrayed by Playboy-TV is a nice fantasy, but it doesn't exist in reality. And thank goodness it doesn't, otherwise our lifestyle would be a dead end after 25, which those of us older than that know comes way too quickly. Anyway, I won't ramble on, god knows I could really go deep into the rabbit hole, but suffice it to say that the OP in this case does not represent the Florida Swingers we know and love.
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Recent experience at Caliente Resort Tampa
knb2004 replied to Amazing's topic in Adventures in Swinging
Hah, the folks who ran that party are good friends of mine, unfortunately we're 1200 miles away and had another to attend, otherwise we may have been there. One of these days. -
Not much to add here that hasn't already been said, but one thing did stand out for me. Ya'll are approaching this like it's a contest, and you are KEEPING SCORE. He did this, she did that, he DIDN'T do this, she DIDN'T do that. This is not a lifestyle in which you are competing, you are complementing each other on a journey of pleasure and (if you're lucky) perhaps even picking up some life-long friends in the process. And, as so many others have said, if you do not genuinely enjoy your spouse getting pleasured by another person, perhaps this isn't the lifestyle for you. Regardless, stop keeping score.
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Strange reactions from vanilla friends and coworkers?
knb2004 replied to Newpants's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Interesting. There was a young kid at my office, 10 or 12 years younger than me, and he and I would sometimes trade stories out in the smoking area, though I censored myself quite a bit. Until one day he told a particularly graphic (I think, don't really remember what he said that inspired me) story that caused me to show him a picture on my personal PC (that just happened to be in my car, which is not a normal thing) of myself naked, surrounded by about 7 naked women including my lovely bride. After he picked his jaw up off the ground he said, and I quote, "Dude, you are the man, and I got nothing to top that. Or even come close!" He did keep my secret though. I don't think a story of a naked food presentation, which actually has a name (Nyataimori) would shock very many here in NY, though I suppose I could be wrong. -
"Have you used magazines, videos or online pornography even when there was considerable risk of being caught by family members who would be upset by your behavior?" So if my "family members" would be upset, using mags et al is indicative of sexual addiction, if they would not be upset it's contraindicated. Or, as I've suspected all along with the whole sexual "addiction" thing, it's mismatched values and addiction is purely in the eye of the beholder.