When my husband and I first got into the LS we both agreed that he would have no contact with the other women. I couldn't handle seeing him with another woman ans he said he didn't want to. But yet he loved to watch me with another woman and do me while I pleasured her. And he loved to see me with another man. He said it was about me being pleasured.
The key is to talk about it before you start in he LS. If he is not ok with you being with another man then maybe you guys should take a break until he can be. But then again, he may never be ok with it.
Rascal said it all!!! I totally agree! Well said