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BiCaliGirl777 last won the day on November 11 2014
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Single Bi Female
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Portland, OR
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BiCaliGirl777 started following What are your swinging rules?, Where do you swap?, My first swinger experience and and 4 others
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I agree, if you need alcohol in order to set the mood, then you probably shouldn't be doing it. Don't get me wrong, I like a little buzz but it's not a requirement for me to have it. I personally like to remember the fun times and not wake up with a splitting headache or puking on someone lol
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Young Swingers® Week
BiCaliGirl777 replied to YoungSwingersWk's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Too bad you don't accept single women for these events, otherwise I'd go. -
I've been looking at resorts and cruises, but feel that it's a bit disappointing that many either a) don't allow single people or b) charge an insane supplemental fee. While I understand they have their own reasons to not allow singles, I can't help feeling it's that nagging stereotype that singles will cause drama. Thoughts?
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It really depends on the individual. I know that for single guys it's difficult to even get into parties/clubs without paying a huge fee and/or being screened, whereas single women can just walk right in. Single guys have a stigma against them, so they have to work much more harder to build trust when entering these scenarios. With that being said, I'm only into M/F couples, as a single women I feel there's an extra level of protection and keeping it "in check". If the right single guy came along then I don't mind...
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Normally I'm so nervous that the couple would need to approach me 99% of the time. But in any situation, consent is a must. Always ask permission. The last thing I want to do is put myself in a bad situation. Read their body language. Don't be pushy.
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Singles: What are red flags you look for when meeting a couple?
BiCaliGirl777 replied to cplnuswing's topic in Swinging Solo
Being overly aggressive (as a couple or individual), needing the use of alcohol and/drugs constantly in order to swing, one partner doing it only for their partner, overstepping boundaries, etc. -
As a single bi woman, why not? I like men. I like women. A couple that finds me attractive? Win Win.
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What Is the Best Episode of Playboy Swing?
BiCaliGirl777 replied to LKNcouple's topic in Swingers Talk
I just discovered this show on xvideos and I'm obsessed with it! It really got me thinking about going back into the Swinging lifestyle again. There's a couple of things that annoy me, but other than that, I love it! -
I say whatever floats your boat, do it! That being said a maintained lawn never hurt nobody.
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I'm just...bi. Sometimes I go for women, sometimes men. When I go out it's usually the personality that catches my eye first, then the gender. With the bi-erasure and hate I get within the lesbian/gay and even straight community, I'll take what I can get lol
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Hi BiCaliGirl777
We are complete newbies to this world and we have been reading through the weekly interviews. Having just read yours we just want to say hi across the water; we think you're really cool.
We know we will never meet and are the poorer for it...we love your mind!
Cheers!
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It really depends on how well the party is going on lol. I always come with a backup plan unless it's a bust or if I get to tired to drive home I will get a hotel room.
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I think for me, it was a mixture of curiosity and nervousness going to my first club night. However the place we went to was super friendly, and it felt just like any other club, there wasn't this super emphasis on having sex with people, if you wanted to dance the night away or just chat with people, that was cool. The first night I did end up swinging with a friend of mine and a couple. I think the best advice is just go with the flow.
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So many Bi men, when did this change?
BiCaliGirl777 replied to Formybubu's topic in Bisexual Swingers
I think in general that bisexuality has become more "out" there in the last couple of years. Being bi myself, I have noticed it's becoming mainstream in music, entertainment, sports, etc. Given the so many stereotypes that are connected with it, it's refreshing to see and know so many bisexual men.- 17 replies
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