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The average adult has sex 54 times a year. The average sexual encounter lasts about 30 minutes. About 5 percent of people have sex at least three times a week. People in their 20s have sex more than 80 times per year. People in their 40s have sex about 60 times a year. Sex drops to 20 times per year by age 65. After the age of 25, sexual frequency declines 3.2 percent annually. After controlling for age and time period, those born in the 1930s had sex the most often; people born in the 1990s (millennials) had sex the least often. About 20 percent of people, most of them widows, have been celibate for at least a year. The typical married person has sex an average of 51 times a year. “Very Happy” couples have sex, on average, 74 times a year. Married people under 30 have sex about 112 times a year; single people under 30 have sex about 69 times a year. Married people in their 40s have sex 69 times a year; single people in their 40s have sex 50 times a year. Active people have more sex. People who drink alcohol have 20 percent more sex than teetotalers. On average, extra education is associated with about a week’s worth of less sex each year. --- From https://www.nytimes.com/guides/well/how-to-have-a-better-relationship
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My wife is really uptight about her sexuality to the point where it hinders even are regular sex life. Any suggestions on how to open her up? I am interested in a swinger type lifestyle. She isn't totally opposed to it, like she doesn't straight up tell me no way in hell when I mention a threesome, but she is not emotionally ready for one because of her uptightness. The other night was the first time she was even willing to put on a show for me and masturbate after 2 and a half years of marriage. She is uptight enough that she has a hard time getting wet because she is too worried about how she is whether I'm enjoying myself etc. etc. How do I get her to open up and more sexual? -
According to an article in the latest issue of Psychology Today about 25% or the population harbor some type of fantasy, kink, fetish or dark secret not considered normal. For instance the guy who surfs the web looking for shemale sites to get off on, or the prim and proper schoolteacher who loves getting spanked, etc., etc.. This does not include pedophiles or other types harmful to society. The good news is that generally these people are usually the adventurous and daring types who shape the world. Generally the 75% considered normal usually lead bland and uneventful lives. Does that make you feel better about yourself? Does me.
