A few years ago my sister Jill and I compared notes and realized that there was on boy from high school that we both slept with. We had no idea at the time!
I was 42 when I started swinging
I started after getting divorced
I wish I had started when I was younger and I encourage my girls to be open to everything!
As an educator, I am very guarded about with whom I share my personal lifestyle choices but I do have a few "vanilla" friends who know the real me and it hasn't caused any issues.
While I was going through my divorce, my ex-husband had told me that I was not sexually open enough. When I talked to a co-worker and her boyfriend, they told me that they were swingers and they encouraged me to come with them to a club in Tampa.