It was ME who actually brought it up.
In our case at least SHE gets to do whatever she wants but I must play by the rules
and I'm happy with that b/c it's more about HER pleasure than my own besides,
it's just more fun to watch her get hers several times LMAO
Certain medications can increase staying power.
In MY case after I got sick back in '04 I went through a serious bout of depression because I was forced into retirement at the age of THIRTY!
After I came home from the hospital I was on a huge daily regiment of medications including anti depressants and apparently there is something in those that can interfere with the pleasure center of your brain.
The 1st time we noticed was after a TWO hour "marathon" LOL
Then of course the wife was like: "Am I not good enough for you anymore? Why did it take you so long to finish?"
It actually became an issue till my doctor told us it was the anti depressant I was on causing the issue.
Personally I LOVED it but was sore as Hell the next day as was she but in the end was more of a problem than an enjoyment for her
Our very 1st 3 some was with my wife, myself and a long time friend of ours who is single.
I thought it was GREAT personally, Hope to do it again soon.
Was NO contact between he and I just him and my wife.