Hi all. My wife and I don't swing (yet) but we have talked about it a decent amount. She's had more partners before getting married than I did and sometimes talks about how she misses random hookups at bars. It really turns me on thinking of her fucking another guy and I think I'd be ok with it. Those husbands that have done this, have you been in the same room watching? Did you take part or just observe? Just curious about what's normal or not.