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Shorecpl4u started following Married female new to the idea of swinging, Ladies - where do you buy your slut gear?, First MFM--mixed review and and 5 others
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Ladies - where do you buy your slut gear?
Shorecpl4u replied to angelkin's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
Spicy Lingerie Nice stuff and priced well. -
How to tell others you're not interested in a nice way?
Shorecpl4u replied to phishfan's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Think you're better off finding out these people are rude and have no manners before meeting them. -
Very well said Blitzen I totally agree.
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Sharing My Partner VS Disliking Men
Shorecpl4u replied to shadowpuppet's topic in Curious About Swinging?
I've read the post a few times and and the comments that followed which I believe were very constructive. However, the real problem, sorry to say, is you or more specifically your way of thinking. We as individuals are basically internally generating magnets and we attract other people and situations based on how we feel or perceive things. You get back what you put out not the other way around. If you believe something will happen it will happen because you attracted it IE you asked for it. The reason you have never had any good relationships with other men in your life is because you are thinking all men are shit so you're attracting shitty men to you. Also, when you meet a man for the first time don't you think he picks up on the disdain you have for him? You also don't have any respect for him so why should he like or respect you. I'd like to pass along the following in hopes that it will help you attract better things in your life. Any time I feel myself getting negative thoughts or anxiety I read this and it straitens me right out. Actually, I keep it in my work vehicle in plain sight and although it's just a coffee stained, half torn crumpled up piece of paper it is one of the most valuable things I have in my life. I hope it helps you. Whatever feelings you have within you are attracting your tomorrow. Worry attracts more worry. Anxiety attracts more anxiety. Unhappiness attracts more unhappiness. Dissatisfaction attracts more dissatisfaction. AND... Joy attracts more joy. Happiness attracts more happiness. Peace attracts more peace. Gratitude attracts more gratitude. Kindness attracts more kindness. Love attracts more love. Your job is an inside one. To change your world, all you have to do is change the way you feel inside. How easy is that -
Edging is very beneficial to building a mans stamina. What is actually occurring is you are giving your kegel muscles a work out which gives you much stronger erections and control. When masturbating I would say I edge 90% of the time and the longer the better. Aside from the good work out it makes for a very strong orgasm and huge load. Hey gotta clean the pipes out...
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I'm not real hairy but, have it in the usual places. When I hit my forties my chest hair was graying quite a bit and I was a little self conscious about it. Was dating at the time and just didn't like the way it looked. Couldn't see the point in shaving it because it would look a little odd. So I tried a clipper and trimmed all my chest down to about a quarter of an inch and it looked a lot better. It's a more natural look and you don't notice the grey that much at all. Give it a try think you'll like it.
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Why are there so few male pics on SLS profiles?
Shorecpl4u replied to Shorecpl4u's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Maybe because most great artists were men. Make that heterosexual men. Just saying. -
Trust me you and the husband will be watching intently and doing a lot of high fives lol. One thing I noticed, at least at first was, I couldn't remember a lot the next day. It's kind of like sensory overload. You're watching something that is so stimulating and over the top that it's hard for your brain to process and file away. All I can say is I never get tired of seeing my wife with another woman. High five hahhahaa
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Married female new to the idea of swinging
Shorecpl4u replied to kittycat43's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Hey kittycat43 Well I guess it's up to your husband or what you two can agree on. Husbands not participating or watching is not really that uncommon. Actually, we've run into this situation many times especially were the wife is bi and husband just wants to watch and not be involved. It's great you have strong loving marriage which really is a prerequisite for what you're looking to do. It also means you have the ability to communicate with each other and figure out what works for both you. Good luck and feel free to ask questions here. There's a lot of great people and information to help you on this forum. -
Why are there so few male pics on SLS profiles?
Shorecpl4u replied to Shorecpl4u's topic in Finding People to Swing With
No, I don't have a problem with going the extra step and requesting a pic of the male half if we are somewhat interested. I guess I just don't understand why it is done so much even with couples who have been in the lifestyle for some time. Like you we would never meet with a couple where a picture request was denied. Also, as an add on, why do people put pictures up from 10 years or 30 lbs ago? -
Swinging - is it a bit of a power trip for you?
Shorecpl4u replied to sunbuckus's topic in Swingers Talk
I think for me it's more an ego boost than a power trip. As human beings we have a need to be wanted and or desired. For a lot of us swinging does just that. I truly can't think of another situation where you would get such positive personal feedback. I mean it's nice to get checked out by or flirted with by a member of the opposite sex but, I think it fails in comparison to having sex with a new partner. -
I guess I can call this a pet peeve but, more so I just don't understand why couples have a dozen pictures of the wife but none of the husband. You would figure that they as a couple would like to meet another couple so isn't half the equation missing? Would you be willing to meet another couple where you had no idea what the male half looked like?