We would have chatted with them online or on the telephone enough to know there was a good chance that we would want to play with them. We always plan on our first meeting as a "Meets & Greets" only. However, if things go as we hope they would, we would open to aborting the "Meets & greets" plan and go on and play on the first meeting. The "Meets & Greets" plan always leaves you an out if you aren't real comfortable with playing with them first time out.