savcpl912
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- Birthday 09/11/1961
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savcpl912 started following Wife seems like she should be willing to try swinging but won't, This isn't how it was suppose to be!, Husband Wants Open Marriage/I'm Scared and and 6 others
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This isn't how it was suppose to be!
savcpl912 replied to suburbanitemom's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Just had to toss a hat in the mix. We don't do singles at all. Mrs Sav can play on her own and so can Mr Sav. But not with singles. They have nothing to lose in it. We do. -
Husband Wants Open Marriage/I'm Scared
savcpl912 replied to Melpomeana's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Not sure anyone is realy qualified in any situation. But I do notice something in your story that worries me. He say he wants other women but nothing about you and other men. When that chance for you both to experience it he was happy to bail. Not kknowing more it seems he wants to but doesn't want you too. Just a thought. -
New, and Needing Help w/ Pressure!
savcpl912 replied to rose_bleu's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Hi Rose.. It all sounds so very confusing. the wife and I have been married 23 yrs now and only been in the LS for 2 yrs. We do find it fun and enjoyable. However we talked about it a number of years before we started. My asking of course but never playing the guilt card. That in itself is hard in only a 3 yr relation. I do have to wonder why you tied the Knot if he still wants to play. I do not recommend the he play and you not scene. We tried that and it didn't go to well. Even in a secure relation the 'fair' aspect seems to pop up and goes one sided. Hold your ground and see why he realy wants to play the field. -
We were in the same boat. It took us years for wife to start. In the end I let her go on her own a few times with guys and play to get comfortable with that. She also has a very high sex drive and loves to play. Once she played on her own a few we started playing with couples and the mfm. She loves it all now.
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I have to chime in here. I have had a similar instance. What it boils down to they wanted my wife n I can surely understand why. But I (the guy) am the average one. Not the bad boy and all just fair looking. But in the party setting the average get left out. My wife n I have talked on this and now at any setting if both of us are not enjoying it then we are done.
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How would you all have handled this bad experience?
savcpl912 replied to hardrockers70's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Rules are rules and no is no.. Everyone has to agree to the rules and if not then all stops. Not sure if I would have stayed in the bathroom or went to the bar till they got out. Hard to judge the dynamics of the situation when you are not in the line of it. -
Should she drop the sex machine?
savcpl912 replied to yumyum29a's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We had a similar situation. We started as a couple and it has turned into a HotWife senario. Not sure how it came to be but it has. She got so caught up with 1 guy that she was writting love letters. It was hard but it had to be talked and limits made. We ended pulling back some and this one is no longer allowed and she either has 0 or more then 2. -
Why are they not attracted to my hubby?
savcpl912 replied to markley's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
We have found that it seems to be more the woman is Bi but wont come out in the profile and say it. And the hubby doesn't want to share either. So many times its lies in the profile.