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We definitely have done it. Daniela my wife with two other guys (separately), and I with a women in our group who was pregnant, and of course in addition to me fucking Daniela and my ex-wife during her pregnancies. Yeah, at certain points during their pregnancies they were really horny. As they progressed, it was always doggy. The other thing was the way their tits got big and nipples dark.

I am interested to see that we are not the only ones who slipped into this relationship. We decided to to entertain husbands fetish of watchng wife in a MFM to get there we had a couple stumbles that led to hubs deciding wife is far more qualified to locate a male to her liking. In this process she fould someone who is actually very cool and gentle to her and the three of us get along very well. We go out together at times and spend nearly every weekend together. Both men are straight. We operate as a throuple for the most part, at least on weekends. This was initially going to be a MFM threesome but it has become much more. We are all very rstpectful of each other and our feelings/emotions. WBoth men have sex with her individually much more than we do as MFM, we do watch each other but also have closed door time as well. It isn't what we set out for but is a truly loving a caring relationship. We have no idea where this is headed. For now we will keep it staus quo but it could be a long term thing.

No person should go through this. I was warned many times about risks of unprotected sex that is multiplied by anonymous men and my want of pushing the envelope. I am blessed with an understanding lovable husband.

Definitely go second. Holding back as he watches, then getting the hot woman back who is his wife, is mind bending. Besides the bi thing, the guys can warm up in her before finishing in you, depending on their ability to control their release.

I was good that you knew each other well in that regard before you got married. It must have made the post marriage lifestyle discussion much more comfortable than most.

So we took in a very good friend about six weeks ago following a very ugly split with her ex. We have know both of them for about ten years and started playing together about three years ago. I actually have known her much longer and before we started hanging out as couples. Anyway, things have evolved to a point where we are sharing our bed 4-5 nights per week. We are playing together and separately. For example, in the morning it’s not unusual for me to come out of the shower and find her and my husband snuggling, touching and even fucking. I actually love seeing them together and have no feelings of jealousy. She and I are doing the same and actually took the day off Wednesday and simply spent the day in bed alone while he was at work. It’s not all about sex, but it’s clear that she really loves him and I think he feels the same about her. I know that I care deeply for her and may actually be in love as well. We prepare meals together, hang out in the evenings together, play together and still swing separately, but it is definitely decreasing. Everything feels very natural and relaxed and we are all content - have we found ourselves slipping into a true polyamorous relationship? I never really thought about it and we were talking about it last night. Thoughts? Warnings? This is uncharted territory.

I posted this years ago regarding taking gifts for sleeping with men something most women and men can relate to. I think many if not most women have had sex on a first date because she felt she owed the guy. Not the only time I slept with someone because I felt I should, I once went with a guy to a concert in Philadelphia, I wanted to pay but he insisted and took me for dinner and drinks after the concert. He wouldn’t let me pay for anything. I had no romantic attraction to him but invited him back to my apartment. I would say the evening cost him at least $500. Forward to a more recent time. Mike and I enjoy picking up men in hotels. I engage someone in the bar and when the time is right I tell him about Mike across the bar. I always tell them I am not looking for anything and that it’s just something we like to do. One time a man left two hundred dollars on the dresser. Mike and I laughed about it. It about paid for the room. This was not the only time.

I had a few dates in my life that smelled fishy now I know why

Sugarbaby is a euphemism to me. Nothing wrong with that just call it what it is. Women are lucky in that they can have fun and be rewarded for it. My Angel is not a sugar baby, doesn’t look for sugar daddies yet has been rewarded with gifts without asking. I ask does a man who cheats or has affairs brings gifts to the woman he meets can qualify as a sugar daddy? I don’t mind my wife meeting men for sex, I cheated before her. She makes her own decisions in her sexual choices with me at times helping her find men on her cheaters group. From a husband’s view I noticed she has come home with new things after her meetings. I at first never asked questions now she shares more. She once said she was left $$, we laughed and I said great let’s go for dinner. It’s amusing that she meets men for her pleasure not for gifts or friendship and then gets rewarded.

Honey is not an older woman, she’s in her 30’s that has been with college age men, not boys, I say it’s fine. So does she. She did what she wanted to do. Many women use their personality to get what they want or need. I have taken girlfriends on weekend trips not calling myself a sugar daddy. Was wondering if age makes a difference and how old does a sugar daddy have to be. Googling people is interesting, I sometimes google old girlfriends.

I understand what you're saying and this type of play brushes up against the consensual non-consent type of play that my GF engages in a lot. There are different ways to explore it both with and without your boyfriend. You can share that fantasy with him and see what he thinks. I understand that you have this fantasy but sometimes it is best to try to build up to it first. Maybe having an actual threesome would be a more appropriate first move rather than simply having your boyfriend play an observer of you having your boundaries pushed with another man. I'm not saying he wouldn't be ok with it but I think it's a difficult scenario to pull off for a first time.

What a sexy old post. We definitely would do it.

There's a song about this – "If I Tell You I Love You I'm Lying" by Melody Gardot. A worthwhile listen.

You should have watched the movie or sex scene with them. We've done that before. Sometimes just saying "hard and aggressive" can actually be confusing to some guys. My GF likes it hard and aggressive and is also into the rape fantasy thing. But just saying "hard and aggressive" can actually mean quite a few different things. Spanking, hair pulling, pussy pounding, throat fucking, slapping, etc. It's usually good to be as specific as possible. Having said that, I know a lot of women are shy divulging specific details or feel laying out a plan beforehand takes away from some of the excitement (my GF is like that), but there needs to be some sort of guidance in my opinion,

I dated a woman in college that after the second time we had sex, she got weird by saying "Hurt me, violate me." It went on to more explicit rape talk. At first I ignored it because I didn't know what to do. As she continued, I stopped dating her. I hope she found a nice, decent guy who satisfied her desires but was otherwise good to her.

My Angel came home after a tryst looking pained. She meets married men from a cheaters group with my knowledge and shares all with me. She’s a great actress in her sexting messages she has before meeting the married men. The majority are in sexless or very vanilla marriages looking to work out his sexual thoughts. Rape Play is real, I read his messages and her answers. She set boundaries and told me she had safe words and promised to keep her phone close. I asked her if he hurt her, Yes. With a smile. Did he stop? Once when I used the word. She said she enjoyed the role playing with the pain bringing a strange pleasure. I’m happy she isn’t in a worse condition after her role playing doing something I couldn’t do before knowing she enjoys it.

We play with the same small group primarily with one of our friends being more aggressive. I once asked if he was hurting the women never hearing any complaints. It made me become somewhat more forceful too.

My posting took a strange direction. NO RAPE FANTASY!!! I wasn’t looking for anything close to be called rape, real or fantasy. Don’t be offended, I looked for a hard fuck, a different fuck, an exciting experience with a new man and going further outside my real me with a woman. In the movie she was a prostitute having random sex. I’m not a prostitute I just wanted random exciting sex. My husband is wonderful talking about how we can go outside our norms. Our meeting is for sex not for friendship. I was attracted to a look that is not a look I usually am attracted to. Last night things went fast with very little getting to know time. I was not the usual me, I didn’t care. Fifteen minutes after meeting I was ready. I was open telling him I wanted hard and aggressive. My husband and the wife wanted watch both nude. He lived up to my wants not my expectations. I wanted to howl like in the movies, I didn’t. He kept going about 10 minutes of very hard thrusting, I enjoyed up to the time he ran out of steam. I can tell he sensed I was completely satisfied, asking if I enjoyed. Then the lookers got busy my husband slightly more aggressive from our normal. I am not a voyeur or an exhibitionist, it is still normalizing the new lifestyle. Step 2, I wanted her to take me orally as they did in the movie. She got me. I felt I needed to reciprocate. I felt like I did it right by the way she responded. Rest time, small talk and one more time. This time, all four of us on the bed with Ladies Up. Cowgirls, this time I was the controller and this time very satisfied. Hard aggressive was fun if not great, it was different, something that we all wanted. Every person is different, the reason for us to meet others.

Poor Things with Emma Stone Worried adds excitement to the unknown every time we meet anyone new. We are still getting used to initial flutters, our first time having sex, just getting naked took time adding to the excitement. I figure most people looking on a swingers site are more hardcore, we are still newbies, our first was only months ago. I want restrained aggressiveness, not painful, pleasurably aggressive. We are married six years with half during the pandemic, plenty of role play. We had many laughs about the Amazon delivery knew about packages. My husband can be aggressive sexually and very satisfying in a predictable way. That sounds bad, it’s not. He is also an avid gym goer who looks at asses on the elliptical and enjoys telling me about it. He also tells me about some real gym rats that would “fuck me good”. We are open about wants and sexy talk, he knows because I told him about my feelings with the few we met. The excitement of newness and the unknown. FaceTime with the woman has gotten me even more wanting to meet. I think she won’t be afraid that something extra I want. Please have the reality meet the anticipation.

For me, I do have strong feelings of jealousy but it make me love seeing them together. The jealousy applies to both. My time with each of them will come later and be made more intense because of what I saw. That time is occasionally only minutes later when I am invited in to join them. Or I can go down the hall and see if Clair and Red are up to anything...

This definitely sounds like a polyamourous relationship developing, just keep in mind she is probably experiencing emotions of loneliness and abandonment as most people experience during a divorce, so essentially you and your husband are her rebound relationship. Generally that doesn't last. Hope in your case it does cause it sounds truly beautiful. Good luck babe. ???

I respect people’s choices and I make sure a couple knows up front how bisexual I am. I haven’t had any negative experiences with homophobic people(knock on wood) but I don’t get how quickly people can turn weird if bi play is mentioned. I will say one guy in a couple told me “I’m not bi or gay..hope you’re not disappointed”. I told him I was totally fine with it. After about an hour of play with his wife, he told me he wanted me to suck his cock ?I didn’t hesitate.

We were emailing a guy in Vegas once. Set up the threesome. Everything seemed fine. No one suggested or hinted at anything bi. It's assumed there might be some incidental contact we assumed from previous experience. About four hours before we were due to meet up he emailed this tirade about no male to male touching like if I even looked at his dick I'd get punched out. We passed on him. Needless to say.

I've never encountered anyone like you describe. Been in plenty of MFM threesomes and if incidental bumping/touching happens, it's instantly ignored because what's happening is so friggin' hot. Maybe once or twice, a creepy touch occurs and the other guy and me will just look at each other like, "ew" and try to avoid a repeat. But it's never hostile. One chick, while performing a 2-cock BJ, even put mine and the other dick in her mouth at the same time - there had to be some incidental sword touching. I think I thought for a thousandth-of-second that I would pull away, but I didn't because she was very skilled, she was SO hot and she was getting into it SO much. And anyway, lots of people were watching and I would have ruined the show. So, I agree with your premise: If a man is so homophobic that he gets stressed / angry / upset / visibly concerned / jealous / paranoid simply by seeing another man naked, or simply by accidentally banging legs with another man they why on earth would this guy even want another man in a threesome? I've just never had that experience.

With us, even now since we have had our baby, we feel swinging while pregnant is a mater of what people are comfortable with. If say us while Tazzie's pregnant, we are with another couple, if we wanted to swing, we would as long as everyone is comfortable with the idea of doing it while she's pregnant. We have been with another couple while both Tazzie and the other woman were pregnant at the same time, and we all had a very good time.

well we swung with a pregnant couple, and it was pretty cool. She was extremely attractive anyway (probably out of my league?) and she had just a very small "pooch" belly which drives me wild anyway. We did not have intercourse but enjoyed a LOT of oral!

I think I might mess around with another woman while pregnant if I knew her very well, but the idea of another man fucking me while I was pregnant with my hubby's baby? Nah, not for me. Vice versa...I wouldn't be comfortable with my husband having sex with another pregnant woman. What's the reason? Just seems weird to me...

My wife is 7 months preg and has no desire to swing. She thinks of herself as fat and unsexy and I have to agree, she is fat and unsexy. I know its not what a husband is suppose to say, but I've never understood the pregnancy is sexy idea or the fetishlike 'preggers' porn sites.