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I’m pleased to learn after all these years that #eldiablo311 reports that, despite the predictions of many naysayers, his marriage remains strong despite the asymmetry of his and his wife’s ENM relationship. It’s perhaps a good example of the aphorism that no one can truly know another couple’s marriage. Some of those commenters have likely seen marriages where attempts to establish an asymmetric ENM relationship have gone badly. And I’m sure that happens, just as it sometimes does for couples who both participate in the wide variety of ENM relationships that exist, including swinging. Not singling out the board members who commented here, but I wonder if what informs their perspective is an internal conversation, perhaps outside their awareness, that goes like this: "I couldn’t have a relationship where my partner was having other sexual engagements or relationships when I didn’t, nor would I be comfortable having sex with others if my partner were not also. And I think other people are generally like me." That last sentence is the problem. It should read — and some commenters have essentially acknowledged this — "Even among the small minority of couples who are swingers or engaged otherwise in an ENM relationship, there are additional challenges in having one partner play while the other doesn’t. But for some folks it’s quite workable." Full disclosure; I have been in an asymmetric ENM marriage for the past 20 of its now 33-year duration. Naturally, I see such a relationship as quite plausible, and I may well not fully appreciate how challenging this would be for other couples in the lifestyle, whether new to it or longtimeers revising their "rules of the road". My wife and I are both in our mid-70s and agree that our marriage continues to thrive. I attribute our success to a number of factors: neither of us is crazy; we were friends for almost 20 years before we became lovers; we support each other through thoughtful division of household tasks; we have made sure we spend less than our income — she was a personal finance journalist 😉😊 — and we have remained blessedly free of financial strain. But to my mind the most important reason we’ve been able to successfully maintain a happy marriage where I have other sexual and affectionate relationships and she does not, is that we both sincerely want the other to have as full and rewarding a life as possible. And we have both been willing to make accommodations to facilitate the other’s fulfillment. I don’t mean to imply that there have never been conflicting matters, sexual and otherwise. There have been. But when they have occurred we have negotiated a solution that (thus far, touch wood) is acceptable to both of us.

We have a different outlook concerning partners. I like a variety while Amy is a "one guy" girl. Last night we did Hall Passes and Amy went out with Ken. She says he knows how to please her 100%. My date was with Melissa, first time in a while. We had great sex. Amy has been the driving force finding couples to swing with. Recently she found Claire and Pete. I enjoy sex with Claire, small boobs and a deep pussy. The best part of Hall Passes is when we get home and tell each other about our escapade while having a great time time together. Amy insists on ro riding on top and telling me just how Ken cums inside her and holds it there for a long time.

Is it a DP if you spit-roast a woman? if that counts then yes I've had a DP.

Never thought I would be posting about double penetration as it never interested me. Mrs. NA, my little Devil, got us an invite to a private lake house party with 5 couples. It took her convincing me to go because I’m not into group sex and I wouldn’t know anyone. Maybe I will post about that later. DP, normally I don’t need to be with another man during sex with a woman, I’m more of a 1:1 guy. One of the husbands wanted to watch his wife do a DP and I was selected as the ass man, made me think I was the smallest. At the edge of a bed with me in her butt, leaning back another guy entered her. I didn’t have the best view I did feel him as I tried to just stay hard and be still. Then she brought two other guys over, one on each side of me and realized her husband had his phone videoing as she had two in her mouth. I was part of a QP, a quad but I couldn’t see much. What I did feel was a butt tighten and a guy jamming her. I eventually popped out of her.

Oh no I don’t normally spit and he didn’t cum to make me swallow

Double hot!

He doesn't mind, most of the time he is just happy to participate, besides, DP is all about us, the girls, boys just need to accommodate,

I usually prefer playing with men serially, one after another. Anal by itself doesn't do much for me, I've never orgasmed that way, but one man in my pussy and one in my bum is delightful, real synergy. We've never had a problem with the physical aspects of it.

We are part of a bare back full fluids sharing swing group and we all live close to each other and dirty chat is very much part of our fun

Pan sexual??? Someone with a fetish for teflon?? Someone who gets aroused by frying bacon? Oh wait, I do!! Maybe I AM pan sexual.Damn, I learn something new on this Board every day!!!!!