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I've enjoyed having sex with someone's spouse for the thrill of breaking the social taboo. I grew up in a home that was both very traditional and religious. So, doing naughty things became even more thrilling.

100% agree!!! Condoms suck and we have always gone bareback with no issues

We have always gone bareback. The majority of our partners we met in lifestyle clubs, a few online. We may be a little risky but we have always just let the men fuck Jess bareback and finish in her if they wanted. Over a year of swinging, a few pregnancy scares but our most recent testing shows we are clean. Call us lucky but we prefer sex with no condoms even though 95% of our partners are strangers

It finally happened! My wife and I have been to a few swinger clubs, but she only allowed people to watch never touch, this went on for a few years. We were talking and I was explaining the way we should look at is that adding another guy is like me using her toys on her, use it, have fun then put it away. I asked her how about an erotic massage in a nice hotel by me and another guy? To my surprise and excitement, she said she thinks she could do that! My wife is a 42 yr old Colombian with large man-made C cups, thin waist and a med/lg ass. She only had 4 lovers in her past and all of them just did vanilla sex. Boy did I expand her world when we got married LOL! She is absolutely beautiful with a heart of gold, so I wanted to make sure this was amazing but most of all safe. I came up with limits so she would feel comfortable and safe. First, she would be on the massage table, when he came in and she would be blindfolded as she gets embarrassed easily. Second, the guy would not talk unless asked something by me or her. Third, no rough stuff, just gentle massage. I would allow oral and fingering on her by him but oral on him only if she initiated it. Fourth, I told her at the end after we make her cum, I would ask her Green light, Yellow light or Red light? Green would be to continue with sex from both of us, yellow is sex with me only but he can watch and touch, and Red was thank you but he leaves as I want only my husband now. Lastly, I would meet with the guy before the massage and if I felt the slightest hesitation, I would call it off. She liked the rules. I then started looking when “S” PM’d me. He said he was flying into San Antonio on business and was willing to help. We PM’d back and forth while giving me advice as he said he had helped others get introduced into the LS. He answered every question I had so we made plans to meet when he landed and give the massage to my wife later that evening (only time we both had before he returned home). When I met him a few hours prior to the massage he was so polite that my anxiety level went to zero. We again went over the wife’s limits I came up with and he had no problem with any of them. My wife was blindfolded and on the massage table with a towel over her ass when he arrived. He immediately went to the restroom and undressed and washed his hands. When he came out, massage music was playing, and I had those battery powered candles lighting the room. To make her comfortable with another man’s hands on her we started with her neck and back. After about 10 minutes we moved the towel covering her ass and we began to massage her lower half. We moved slow going from her ass back up to her back then down her legs. I bent her knee moving her lower leg inward at an angle and her pussy became exposed to him for the first time. The light from the candles made her already wet pussy glisten. As we rubbed her inner thighs we would graze her pussy lips…..she was SOOO wet. When we flipped her we began working on her breasts. I was getting so turned on watching another man touch my woman. “S” moved nice and slow over her nipples then down her arm as I did the same. Her nipples were becoming hard as we lightly massaged each breast. We went lower toward her landing strip pubic hair but being careful not to go too far in order to drive her wild. When we moved to her legs, we started with her feet then moved up. We bent both of her legs inward at an angle so the bottom of her feet were touching each other…..this opened her pussy wide. We again worked her inner thighs but this time moving our hands right over her pussy lips……this drove me wild seeing him touch her. I then went down on her and she was drenched in her juices, NOT just wet….drenched, and it tasted so good. At that point I looked up at “s” and offered my wife’s pussy to him. He began to eat her out and I saw her mouth open and could tell she was in pure ecstasy. He wrapped his lips around her clit and sunk his fingers deep inside her…..she let out an amazing moan. I got out the clit vibrator and started to tease her clit while “S” bent two of his fingers to massage her g-spot. I handed the vibrator to “S” while I started to massage her breasts and nipples. “S” kept up the fingering mixed with licking until she had the most intense orgasm, I have ever seen her have! She about rolled off the table it was so intense! She motioned for him to stop but continued to twitch for over a minute. After we let her calm down, I moved her to the edge of the table spreading her legs apart and started to fuck her. She was so soaking wet I slid right in. I looked over and she had “S” cock in her hand slowly playing with it…..I had to think of baseball in order not to cum right there LOL!! “S” then moved to the head of the table to hold her head as it was falling off the table…..what a gentleman! She grabbed his arms and had another orgasm while I came deep in her soaking pussy. “S” smiled at me and quietly left as my wife and I held each other. It was perfect. She told me she LOVED the experience and wants to do it again ?. We went home and fucked two more times. The next day “S” texted me to check on my wife to make sure she was doing good. I can’t tell you enough how much I appreciate “S” in helping us take the next step……thanks man!!……D&J

Hi everyone. I’ve read a lot of the topics and details on the forums and figured I’d share the good and the not so good with our first run and second the day after. First I’ll give a little background as reference. Even after this week I can still say my sexual partners can be counted on one hand. The way I was raised along with being really hard on myself with what I have to offer sexually also went into that (foolishly) My wife on the other hand has lived a much more adventurous sexual life and has found great fulfillment from it. Occasionally through the years she’s let out pieces of her past which eventually played out or led to great sex. Her client and the clients husband are both involved in different ways in the adult industry. For a while she spoke of her trying to get my wife into the business and almost daily for months was asked by my wife if I’d be ok with it. I’ll fast forward a bit by stating an understanding, initiated by them was come to and we had our first experience earlier this week. First I’ll say I’m glad we didn’t just jump in random with random people. I completely see how communication, trust, and friendship can go miles toward it going well. As the night got going I was hit with my first hurdle which was I could not get hard! As aroused as I was I could not, at least initially get an erection. The moment got to me not because I was unhappy but because the moment got to me is the best I can say. That’s the first point I realized an established relationship can go miles as F was able to work me through it and was not judge mental at all. It wasn’t until my wife came to help with her that I was able to perform. It took all of about 30 minutes after to get a script for some sildenafil. I will be taking some beforehand next time. It’s hard to put into words but M struck all the right cords with myself and my wife. Beforehand we all talked about do’s and donts and likes and dislikes. My wife can be a bit of a puzzle whose pieces change minute by minute. The majority of the time she is adventurous and likes rough sex while sometimes it’s the opposite. M catered to her to make us both comfortable and to please her I would assume. That’s the most interesting thing about the sex is it filled likes that we can’t offer each other. I may be dense but never considered that beforehand. For instance, my wife does not like cum going anywhere but inside of her ass or pussy. As I had sex with F she asked me where I wanted to cum. Not having cum by oral in almost 15 years I made my case and I finished in her mouth as she stuck a finger in my ass. Absolutely amazing! Unfortunately I came about 5 minutes after we started having sex and was out of the fun for a long time. That was another negative for another reason as my wife was very disappointed I did not fuck her along with M at the same time. Within minutes though F came out with a strap on and her and M had their way. Relatively frequently my wife requests a dildo gangbang as I’ll call it but it was nice to have an outside of view of her getting fucked by two people. I wouldn’t say my wife had the time of her life but she said it was up there with her experiences in the past. My wife and I are mostly anal sex as she cums during that much more frequently. Typically after I finish she will toy with one of her larger dildos for a few orgasms vaginally. M was very accommodating to say the least as she came over and over as he fucked her vaginally. Both M and F and my wife had great chemistry and we’re borderline violent as a result of the passion. It was amazing watching my wife’s eyes gaze at me as they both fucked her beyond where ive ever gone. As they switched positions I got back involved and began to fuck F again before M came in my wife. My wife asked me to lick her pussy before I fucked her which caught me off guard and I denied. She gets really turned on when I eat her out after I cum in her but couldn’t wrap my head around doing that after another guy. Not yet at least. I did get a bit bothered when I started having sex with my wife as she was talkative with M & F and actually started talking about what to go eat after. Nonetheless I came and it felt good knowing I was fucking her after she’d been cum inside. Before the night wrapped up we played a truth or dare style cell app game. That was a little beyond my level as cumming twice for me is an achievement in and of itself. The following day, due to living almost an hour away they stayed at our place, and the sex was great again. This time around we were at least at first with our spouses. Again I was way over aroused and ended up coming in my wife after about two minutes. Yes I need to work in that. That was a lot to try to hold off with no drinks in me between my wife and having them having sex next to us. M alternated fucking both which was not a bad way to fill a morning either. I appreciate the ears everyone as I’ve seen a lot of good and bad posted on the site. Hopefully those who struggle will take the same approach as me and realize that’s just the reality of just about everything in life and to stay positive. We both have our lists of desires coming out of this and that was a great start. Any advice on either pharmaceutical help or otherwise with the cumming too fast or a different approach would be apprecaited.

we are bareback swingers. we have a steady male playmate who gets tested regularly as do we. if we take on any one new we refer them to stdtest.com and meet once they have paperwork in hand. if we went to a club (not happening these days) then it's condoms.

We only swing together. We can do separate rooms, we will split up at house parties, but we don’t generally play separately. We trust each other, but other people have different ideas. We don’t have relationships with other swingers. Sometimes we have friendships, but if we see possessiveness, puppy love, over infatuation, it’s game over. We swing for entertainment purposes. If people develop romantic attachments, we will move on. Some people are polyamorous and we certainly encourage and support their lifestyle, but it’s not our preference.

How many of you, or your spouses, have had NRE to the point that as a couple you needed to do something about it? What caused it? What was the resolution? Here’s my story. Mary and I met James at a bar for a prearranged date. He was just what she wanted that night. He had an evil grin, and when we got to the bedroom, he was as close to a Superman as I’d ever seen. They went, as I remember it, three times, and I joined the two of them from every once in awhile. We were used to MFM threesomes and I had absolutely no problems with it, I was glad Mary was having such a good time. Over the next few weeks, Mary saw him as often as possible, a real case of NRE, the worst I ever saw her in. I gave her permission to go over to his house from time to time, and they screwed a number of times. Now Mary and I are swingers in addition to her being a hotwife, and for whatever reason we weren’t hooking up much with foursomes that summer. So I was feeling a little strange in that Mary was having quite a bit of sex with James but I wasn’t having sex with other women. Mary and I talked about it, she seemed to understand my issue. One day Mary told me as I was heading for work that James was coming over to our house just to hang out - she and James both had the day off. I said it was okay, but I wanted to be with them in an MFM. Mary readily agreed that I’d get home, the three of us would go out to dinner, and then we’d come back to the house for sex. Well, when I got home, James came bounding down the steps, completely naked. “Oh,” I said, “have the two of you been having fun?” “Yeah, we’ve been going at it for a couple of hours.” I got Mary off to the side, she said she didn’t remember that they were supposed to wait for me; but I could tell from body language that she wasn’t being quite honest. They got dressed, we went out to dinner, I’m sure I was grumpy. James, understanding there was a problem, decided to leave. (Of course, I’m sure he’d had his share for the day!). Mary and I had long talks about it for the next couple of days. Finally, I said I was really uncomfortable and that I wanted her to take a break from James, at least a month. She agreed, and kept away from him. And then, unfortunately, the two of them never got back together. I’m sorry it went down that way, James was Mary’s best lover, but I felt I needed to slow it down. What’s your story?

No one else let's a sex partner of mine cum in me, I let him cum in me. If I allow a guy to enter into any of my openings, I expect and want him to ejaculate in me. The idea of those swimmers in me is a turn on, especially in my vagina where they can live for days.

I don’t even think of the other guy or even look to see if he is enjoying watching me. I don’t think of him if he is with my wife, I do think of her having a good time.

I understand what you're saying but I was referring to the person who you are fucking. In your mind you are allowed to take him but in his mind he is allowed to take you. So from his perception the taboo or fetish (or whatever you want to call it) of it might be different.

Another aspect for me, at least in the beginning, is that the man who would become my husband let me have sex with someone else. That someone else didn't take me, I was allowed to take him. It made me feel powerful and confident that I could fuck another guy and was loved all the same.

I think both of you are on the same page and neither of you want to be the one to say what is on your mind. You are nude, talking sex, even had some touching, you aren’t teens wondering how to make the first move. The same conversations you are having, they are having. You already have so much in common, you already have a good friendship, you already have had sex talk, why not go to the next step? They are friends, what can happen? They could say they aren’t ready yet and you can make a joke or really be honest and say you understand and let them know the ball is in their court. Let them know there is no pressure and you will not bring it up again. If they agree to go to the next step let them set the ground rules, you can always add to the rules if you want. I wish our best friends gave us a signal as loud as your friends. Our friends are as vanilla as any couple, I think. I can only imagine how great it would be to add another dimension to our relationship. If only they gave us a clue or tiny interest in having fun, we would ask. Mr. S2P has said he would be willing to give a hint, I have asked him not to. They know we go to a nude beach and they never asked to join, maybe if they did we would give other hints.

My wife and I didn't "find out" about swinging, we just did it. First her getting reacquainted with two exes, who knew that I knew what was going on and approved but didn't know about each other. Then MFMing with them; later dropping them and doing traditional swinging with couples who we hadn't met before. The question now is: Are my wife and I still swingers since we only play within a closed group of married couples? It's all good, but quite different from our previous "true swinging." There is alone play, no condoms, emotions, what feels like dating (not with our spouse necessarily), double dating, and a casualousness to it that has taken some of the excitement away from what was the edginess of my spouse having sex with another man/woman/couple. IDK.

It appears to me that, perhaps, you hadn't expressed your needs and desires fully before you had the experience. I'm concerned that she isn't intimate with you after the deed. It would be very helpful to find out the reason. It's even possible she's as confused as you seem to be. You both need to sit down calmly, discuss the situation, find out what the other thinks. If you can be honest with each other, I suspect the emotions will sort out easily.

NC I suspect a creative writing error.

We have had many group sessions over the years....the women that attend...wives, girlfriends and single ladies can play with and as often as they want until the men wear out. For attending gang bangs the Queen’s birthday bang had eleven players...men....most had her twice and some three times vaginally over about five hours.....and over 300 photos. She still had myself and her boyfriend in a more intimate threesome that night....each of us twice. She was very tired....exhausted....and slept for about ten hours over night into the next morning. Didn’t slow her down at all the next night. High level of excitement and lube helps a lot. State of mind. As there has been many more times of being worn out after just one, two or three men. Depends I guess.

I had 3 men in one night during a mini-gb. There were rests in between. On another occasion, 4 men in one day but serially. Those happened once and not sure if I'm going to experience them again ?

Like Sandra, my wife Mary tends to get a little wild at house parties and not elsewhere. When we're having friends over to our house for a threesome or foursome, we're limited by the number of people, obviously. At the club, there's too many things to do, and Mary is not attracted to the public room. Our normal scene is that we will play in a foursome, then do other things for awhile. Such as the jacuzzi and dancing. By the time we're ready again, we'll find a single guy for her or possibly another foursome. Then at 2:00 they're kicking us out, so we're done. But at house parties, there's no other things to do after the first round other than conversing in the kitchen with other people, and they are all dressed (or undressed) sexily, which leads us into more trouble. Plus, unlike the other scenarios, Mary and I trust a number of people there who are our friends, and we tend to split up rather than stay together. Without that consideration, Mary tends to become more accepting of invitations, so her body count goes up.

yes, I think home parties like this would be very fun, thank you, Madam

Four. We have been with up to three other couples at once. Each of the other husbands had his dick in my wife's pussy, but I didn't know if they all came in her (I did after we got back home), because we men were in the other wives as well.

Me and my wife went to a swingers party we ended up with 3 black guys, so she took a total of 4 that night. Very awesome

I totally agree. What turns me on most is the variety - it’s why I love the nude beach. I love seeing so many naked men of all shapes and sizes. Visually I have stated before that I really like the way a smaller penis looks. During sex I do like seeing a large erect cock and I like the way they feel in my hands or inside me. Most of my partners know how to really give our pleasure regardless of their size so it’s all good.

My husband is 5 3/4” long and 5” around I had dated guys before we got married similarly in size some a bit bigger and some a bit smaller. I’m the rare girl I’ve never had a lover I didn’t enjoy, my husband wanted to watch me enjoy his best friend who’s cock is 9 1/2” long and 6 3/4” thick around. While I was nervous about risking our marriage over a fantasy for my husband. I made sure he was sure about it I was actually excited the more we talked about doing it. It was a few weeks before I actually thought it thru and agreed. It was amazing for one I was attracted to his friend and comfortable and trusted him. I couldn’t and wouldn’t had done it ever if it was a stranger I’m not like that. I think being attracted with his friend made it much better and more pleasure. I will say the thickness was the best part and yes a very thick and long cocks going to fill you up allot more I love it. I think everyone is different on what they like and are going to enjoy and admit on here.

Sometimes it's just what's needed. A few weeks ago we were playing with some friends and my pussy simply dilated a bit - not sure why. My partner was on the smaller side and it got to the point where neither of us was getting what we needed. He switched with another guy that was thicker and longer. He lubed his cock and was able to fill me in the way I needed. I'm usually fine with any sized cock.

So true - one of my favorite partners is a fit younger guy. His cock is about 4” rock hard with tight little balls. It is perfectly shaped and he looks amazing. He is super attentive and always finds just the right spot to make me cum every time.

My wife einjoys her regular lover's 8 inch cock, she lets him go bareback. I have a good 6 inches, but the extra length seems to do a lot for her. She also made love with my friend who has 9 inches, but did not express the same degree if enthusiasm that she has for the 8 inch cock. My conclusion is that its not just the length, but how the partner uses it.

I noticed that some men's cum is very watery. Others are very thick. I saw once where the first two guys who entered my wife were very watery. They leaked out pretty quickly. The next three were pretty thick and being older men didn't have as much semen as the first two so their semen didn't leak out. After that, all the other men were different ages and their semen were different thicknesses and volumes so she leaked like Niagara Falls. The bed was really messy as well as her pussy and when she had to go to the bathroom to pee, she felt lumps of semen on its way out and she cupped her pussy with her hand to catch the lumps to keep it from falling to the floor. I still remember it as if it happened yesterday. She didn't close the door to the restroom. All of us men could see her sitting on the toilet and hear her peeing. She looked at the lump of cum in her hand. Smelt it. Then spread her legs open and tried to dump it into the toilet. It wouldn't come off her hands. So she licked it off her hands, wiped, slushed the toilet and came back for more fun.

Female half: I've been swinging with a male partner who is over twice my age and not my husband. Never considered it a big deal for other people to know until it became an issue for some that the man I have a sexual relationship with is not my spouse. I like keeping my marriage and home life separate from my sexual exploration. Sometimes it's even a turn-on for me to come home after having fun for my husband to get the sloppy seconds later on. I love my husband very much but unfortunately crave sex from someone other than him more. Unfortunately this is unpopular in the lifestyle. My husband is also very traditional and conservative when it comes to sex. Condoms, missionary, less aggressive. While my partner is very rough, sloppy, and dominant with me. I need both in my life.

We are bareback only. Semen is welcome internally at all times. Exchanging body fluids gets two thumbs up from us! We chose our partners carefully in our mind. We understand what we are doing. On a side note: We would never consider a condom a reason to play with someone we had not screened or if he/she made an off hand remark about their sexual health. In other words, if you use a condom "just in case" or "just to be sure"; then you are having risky sex. If you always use a condom but decline to screen because you think the condom is good enough, you are having risky sex. Both sides of this question are open to criticism! On a lighter note, regardless how you play, don't stop!

Well, it's unfortunate, but for J and me, sex with condoms is like a movie with ear muffs. Let it fly...just not in the eye! We are infrequent flyers though, maybe 5 times a year max. But even new lovers are allowed to cum where they want. But new lovers are recruited only every few years. We are selective and very lucky.

I'm on bc so it's not like every time we do something we have a scare. The only scares have come from late periods or something similar

Good for you. And why not? Nearly everything in life has a risk. You could be run over by a bus just crossing the street.

Reached our overflow point with guy #4. Indeed very hot to watch. Especially making her clean it up afterwards

I feel like I get off more through anal sex. However everyone is different.

My wife and I haven't used condoms in I can't remember how long. When we decided to play with our friends we sort of asked about condoms. We knew pregnancy wasn't the question. We also knew we were clean. We also knew they had been swingers for many years. They assured us that they are careful who they play with but it was up to us. We didn't use them.

I couldn't have said it better myself. That's exactly it. We can't control who others have sex with, and just like I have bareback sex with some but not others, we look for those who seem to have good judgment and are trustworthy.

Our first MMF happened with husband watching me. It made me want it more as I saw the look on his face....I just let go. He wasn't jealous he says he loves seeing me just enjoy sex. I wasn't leaving him..our relationship is very strong. It allows me to fully enjoy every moment. MMF MMMF off the bucket list and both time with black men so another item off the bucket list.

I've thought about the size factor. Do you guys seek out a larger endowed man or is it a lottery? I have been thinking about whether I would have feelings of inadequacy compared to a larger male, but I dont think I would because I get off to the extreme at the thought of my wife receiving maximum pleasure. I guess I'm also fairly confident in how I use what I got. But I can see where watching another man ravaging your spouse, especially when he's well endowed, could cause some mixed emotions. I don't know, maybe it is my serious voyeur tendencies and confidence in my wifes true love for only me that keeps me from getting to anxious at the thought. But I guess I will find out soon enough

Oh, so we can expect another update. Don't be in too much of a rush (it's called new relationship energy or NRE). Take your time and enjoy the experiences.

...but she came with you and then left with you. That's what needs to be focused on. Glad to hear that things are going so well for the both of you (uh, three of you?).

We swing three or four times a month. It is Jo's decision as to where her partners cum but she prefers them to cum inside her because that is the natural way for a couple to finish sexual intercourse. We will go bareback with partners we trust which includes the couples we swing with on a regular basis. Jo will allow all her partners to cum inside her using condoms with new playmates.

I enjoy all cocks no matter what size, but I do like to have a huge one every so often because I enjoy playing with it. Hold it in my hands, suck on it, lick it, and then have it slowly enter me and slide in and out, mmmmm

Being stretched ... Definitely. Of course, along with that comes the "being filled" that you are referring to. It's not a "cop-out" to choose both. They are similar feelings, IMO.

My wife has claimed for years that size doesn't matter, but I learned that she's been fibbing. Last summer, with my blessing, she has been actively searching the online dating sites for much younger men to both date and to have sex with. The first thing she looks for in their profile is "long and thick". She finally admitted that she loves the feeling of being filled, and that since she is only seeking part time playmates, not someone to share her life with, she is going to find the ones that give her physical pleasure. So far, so good.

My wife likes 'em big. She prefers girth to length. I am about 7.5 inches and have to be careful not to penetrate her too deeply, or I hurt her. However, I have seen her penetrated my a man who was about twice as thick as me (I'm not thin) and she felt no discomfort at all. She had one partner who was about 10 inches and very thick, who was very good in bed. He would get a nice rhythm, only inserting a little more than about half way, and every now and then, he would slowly but firmly push all the way into her. He drove her crazy. She does actively seek out bigger men too. Her first was when she was a young teenager. She was seduced by a married man she was babysitting for. (Yes, somewhere out there there is a guy with a true "babysitter" story) Whether it was his size or his experience, she attributed the amazing sex to his size. Because of this, she had several one night stands with black guys, based on the stereotype, but that did not work out. As far as were to find the really huge guys, it's mostly statistics. She has had sex with a lot of men. Even posting here, I don't want to say how many. Several, she encountered by chance, some she guessed right based on their proportions (tall, long legged, big hands and feet) some she went after based on reputation or what other women told her, and some advertised. (You can't always believe the internet though.

Mrs. Ekies found a single male who is fairly large...8 x 6.5...and she really enjoys it. He's not a really good lover but he'll lay still and let her mount up and grind for as long as she likes. Give a man like me or some of our "friends" an opportunity to fuck her with that thing and I swear she'd never be the same. As with most of the ladies who've weighed-in here, she just likes to have sex with men and women who are fun and giving. Trace

I can speak for my wife. She does not like it long. Six inches is more than enough. But the best times have been with "Thick" ones. It's hard to give a numerical figure to thickness. but you know it when you see it. I saw one guy in the hot tube at the club, and after one look at his meat, I knew she would like it. SHE DID!!!

I'm sorry that the encounter didn't go as you had hoped. If your wife does decide she wants to try again, I'd suggest (as a woman) that you and the other man spend more time on foreplay and give her an orgasm, perhaps through oral sex. That will relax the vaginal walls and make it easier for her to enjoy herself. Also, don't forget that lube is a wonderful, wonderful thing!