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  1. 2 points
    Tell your sweetie not to worry. I'm sure I've played with many a person who's had it. A few have told me they had it before we played, I appreciated it and when they added that they were not having a breakout. I took my chances with them. I imagine I've played with some who didn't disclose it, although they knew they had it and just ignored it, and probably a few who didn't know they have it. Just watch out for breakouts, and don't play during those times.
  2. 2 points
    My wife prefers separate rooms and I used to be a same room swinger. We really only play with two couples. One couple more frequently than the other and separate rooms has always been the rule. With our other friends we have done both same and separate rooms. Two weeks ago we met up with these friends and on night one we did same room. Night two was separate rooms and it was delightful. I listened to Amy enjoying lovemaking with Steve, telling him how it felt, sighs, little moans and gasps as she took his 9 inches in and out of her pussy. Imagining what was going on was as big a turn on for me as seeing it live. Separate room =s allow each couple to go at their own speed and try fun things without an audience. I think that separate rooms may become the norm with both sets of friends.
  3. 1 point
    Life has a tendency to hit you and turn your life upside down and this year has been difficult for all of us. Just as my journey began to open up, this pandemic hit. It has affected us in so many ways and for me it has been tough. Work has been crazy with long hours. Thankfully, my health is good but I have seen so much and how it has been a tough time for so many. With my mind elsewhere, my lifestyle discovery paused for a few months. It had been months since my adventure with Jay and Jessica (Dr. Sexy) but we have kept in touch. Their lives are hectic as well and with all the precautions, the thought of meeting has not crossed my mind. I lie, it has but I know it isn’t the best time for it. All of us being in healthcare and with so many things unknown it was not a chance any of us wanted to take. However, it gave me an opportunity to get to know Jessica a bit more and she shared a few stories with me. Jessica is married and in a very open secure relationship. Her husband travels a lot for work and they have an understanding about being sexually open and free to do as they want. This is very hard for me to understand, I mean I get the allure of sex especially with someone new, but how can you be committed to one another yet be free to be intimate with others. They obviously have a different view on this and I have made a point to be open-minded. Jessica and I have been texting a lot and spend a few hours a week on the phone. I have really grown to like her and would say we are now friends even though she is about 10 years older than me we have a lot in common. A few weeks ago, as the pandemic fear have decreased and restrictions have lessened we took advantage of meeting up for lunch. This was the first time I would see her since the office, and wow how can we forget the office! I got to the cafe first and was already seated, I was nervous and excited it felt like a date for some reason. She walked up and looked stunning, first time seeing her in regular clothes outside of the clinic, no coat and her hair down. She is beautiful, does not wear a lot of makeup and just this confidence about her. We greeted each other with a hug and kiss on the cheek. We made small talk about work, it was easy to chat and in no way awkward. In the middle of the conversation Jay came up, we had not talked about that day or him in the past. It was fun to reminisce a bit and I couldn't help to begin to get excited. She shared with me how it all began with them and that surprisingly it had only been a few times. Jessica also admitted to me that it was her idea to join in that day in the office. We laughed and I asked her to tell me details. We were so engaged with one another that without knowing our feet would tangle at times. At first I pulled back and said sorry, she responded not to worry about it - "we've done more than play footsies!" It really felt comfortable with her, I asked her to continue. Jessica and Jay had met a couple years ago when he was working as a computer trainer. She said he would come over to the clinic to check in with them and every time he stopped by, they would chat. At first it was all work related and things she needed help with on the computer. She always found him attractive and admitted she started to fantasize about him. As I mentioned Jessica and her husband have a very open relationship and to my shock, Jessica said she told her husband about it. Seems like he was excited for her and supported her pursuit of him. He would be over every other week or so and she started making stuff up for him to come and help. She said then she just started flirting with him and he flirted with her. One day she asked him if he could stop by at the end of the day after she finished seeing patients, she needed help with something. Jay showed up, most of the clinic was done and gone. Jessica said she was nervous because she was going to hit on him and tell him about her fantasies. He came in and chatted kinda like normal, but didn't take long to see that she really didn't need any help. She asked him if he could close the door and she wanted to talk to him about something. Jay reluctantly did so, she stood up and walked towards Jay. She then said, "I know this is awkward and I know you are married but I find you really attractive. You know I'm also married but..." she paused "we are really open about things, and we've been in the lifestyle for a while and we've had this fantasy of me hooking up with someone married." Jessica said Jay's jaw dropped and she thought he was going to just tell her off and walk away. He stayed quiet for a few seconds and said, "I don't know what to say." He didn't pull away or try to leave and Jessica took the opportunity to go a little further, she got closer to him, he did not hesitate this time. He put his hands around her waist and leaned down to kiss her. Jessica said she felt his cock start getting hard immediately as they pressed closer together. She whispered in his ear if it was ok if he got a little sneak peak of what could happen. What happened next was awesome in my mind and got me so wet. The confidence in which Jessica took control of the situation and it felt as for once the woman was the one taking control and in a way using the man. Jessica turned him around, pushed him down to sit on her chair. She pulled her hair up, kept the glasses on she was wearing. Went down to her knees and quickly got his pants down. It was as if she was on a mission. Reminded me a little of how she took control of me and made me do what she wanted. As I heard her story, I could feel my pussy flood with arousal. She pulled his cock out, already hard and big. I will admit Jay has a really nice thick cock, good size, not scary huge but big enough to fill you up anywhere he puts it in. She took his cock and had herself a good time with it. Sucked him, taking him deep making him moan and without even any input from him made him cum, she said he filled her mouth with cum and swallowed every bit of it. I can see she loves to be in control and I feel empowered by it. I caught myself with my mouth open, in amazement. Jessica also caught me, smiled, and asked me if it turns me on hearing about it. I said "fuck yeah, can't believe you did it like that and in the office... what happened after? you tell your husband?" Jessica replied - With Jay, nothing for a little while. I kissed him and told him to let me know if he was interested, we'd work something out. He left and didn't take long for him to reach out to me by the next day. That night though, when I got home, Dave fucked the shit out of me. As soon as I was done sucking Jay's cock and he left, I texted Dave, told him I did it. I know that turns him on. As you can imagine how wet I was. On my way home, he texted me a pic of his hard cock. Jay is nice and big but Dave is just a little bigger. My mouth was salivating and could not wait to have him. I got home, walked in and he was on the couch in just his shorts, hard cock out just waiting for me. I walked to him and I could not contain myself. I love to be in control except when I'm with him, I completely lose control. He grabbed me by my hair pulled me down, I opened wide as his cock was pushed to the back of my throat. He held me and he began to fuck my mouth, making me gag. Told me he was glad his little slut was home and came home full of cum and next time he wants me to come with a pussy full of cum. He pulled me up, told me to get naked, everything off. I did as I was told... watching him stroke his huge cock. He stood up, dropped his shorts and turned me around, pushed me over the couch and teased me with his cock around my ass then pussy and back over my ass. He said he could see my pussy was so wet and ready for him. It was, I was soaking and wanted him in me. He then slowly started to spread my pussy and forcefully began to fuck me. He was pounding me so hard and so good. I was screaming with such pleasurable pain. He goes in so deep, my ass up in the air taking all of him. It wasn't long that I was screaming as I orgasmed for the first time. It just kept on going... he pulled out and turned me around, sat me down and told me to open my mouth. I obeyed and he put his cock back in my mouth. I could taste my pussy all over it and it was so good. I could tell he was about to cum, but I also knew he wanted more. He pulled me up again by the hair, which I love, tight close to the back of my head by my neck. It's such good pressure and it’s the good type of pain. Dave turned me around before I sat back down and took his cock in once again. He thrusted up, as I sat on him and leaned back and he reached around to rub my clit. It was literally seconds before I came one more time and so much more intense. With my pussy pulsating on his cock his thrust slowed down and I knew he was ready to explode. I pulled away, turned around and back on my knees between his legs. I took his cock one last time in my mouth. I slowed down and stroked him slowly, working his cock to an inch of exploding until he could no longer hold it. I opened my mouth wide as I stroked his cock slowly, feeling silky smooth with my pussy juices all over it until he could not contain himself anymore. He shot his cum up to the back of my throat. I covered his cock with my mouth and felt him fill my mouth with his cum. I swallowed once again every bit of it and licked him completely clean. He laid back completely satisfied, I smiled as I got up. Picked up my clothes and walked into the room. I started the shower and walked in. I knew he'd join me in a few minutes. He sure did, Dave stepped in and came up behind, put his arms around me and told me to tell him every detail of my first hook up with Jay. As I did, I could feel his cock harden up once again. As I continued, his cock easily found my pussy and with slow thrusts I got through every detail. When I finished it did not take long, this time he filled my pussy with his hot cum. The conversation was so hot I wanted to know more I asked her so how long before she came home as Dave requested and as hot as it is, wasn't she worried about not wearing condoms? Jessica was happy to answer - It was a few weeks later. We kept on having fun flirting when he came over to the clinic. I guess one of the benefits of being a doctor I can order that STD testing! I asked him if he was interested in more, I had a special request. He said yes but wanted to share something with me but he wouldn't say. I told him to meet me again at the end of the day on a Friday, but first I needed to be sure that he was clean in order to fulfill my special request - he said “sure I was meaning to get it done already.” I told him I'll let him know if we were good to go on Friday when I got the results. That comment stayed in my mind, but it all made sense when we met. Friday morning checked and his results came in and everything looked good so I called him and told him see in the afternoon. Friday was definitely the best day of the week, not only the end of the week but everyone leaves earlier. Remember? I laughed because I knew exactly what she was referring to, Friday was my last day and also Jay's last day and on both days we had fun in that building! Jessica continued... I made sure that I was wearing a dress that day and about an hour or so before he showed up I took my panties off. I actually saw the last couple patients pantie-less. That on its own is arousing especially when there are a couple cute patients! Jay was in my office when I was done with the last patient. We still had a couple people in the clinic, but knew they would be leaving soon. We made small talk for a few minutes until the last nurse left. My pussy was wet, warm, and ready to take him. I asked him about what he wanted to share with me, he responded saying nothing as he came close to me and kissed me. He said he'd tell me after. I wanted to know, I pulled back and told him we're not doing anything until he told me. He said as he pulled me closer "not a big deal, just that I can't wait to fuck you and my wife - we're in the lifestyle as well, but you and maybe your husband will have to promise me not to say anything to her about today or any other day?" That was a surprise to me and just responded with "DEAL" He then said "so what's this special request?" I responded "well as you know my husband is open and supportive, he knows exactly what happened last time and he fucked me so good while I told him details, he said next time he wants me to come with a pussy full of cum... do you think you can help with that?" I took his hand down under my dress and let him feel me bare pussy. He happily let me guide him, without hesitation rubbed my clit, and slowly pushed his finger in sliding easily in. I undid his pants, pulled his hard cock out and took him in. Made sure his cock was nice and wet, not that I needed it but I wanted to taste him. I then turned around, put my hands over my desk, pulled my dress up exposing my ass. I told him "ok let's see what you got, fill me up!" Jay came behind me and started slow, but I did not want slow. I wanted hard and deep even if it took only a couple minutes. I reached back, pulled him in, and told him "don't slow down just fuck me hard I don't care if it's only a couple minutes". Fuck me he did!! And it wasn't a couple min but he fucked me hard for a little while, his stamina is amazing! Going in so deep, it was hard to not scream. I was pretty sure the clinic was empty but didn't want to take the chance of someone running into the office. Muffled sounds came out of me as I covered my mouth. He pounded me hard and deep and I felt as he cock began to shoot his hot cum. He grabbed me by the hips, pulled me and pushed to get his cock as far in as he could. His cock contracted inside me with every shot and filled my pussy up. My body relaxed as I took a deep breath. He pulled out, I turned around, gave him my phone and asked him to take a pic. I sat down on my chair, spread my legs wide open with one leg supported on top of my desk and the other in the air. He took the first picture and then told him to take another one close up of my pussy, I spread it open and he came in closer smiling. He took the second shot. I grabbed my panties and put them on quickly, I wanted to save as much as I could for Dave. I pulled Jay closer and took his cock, softened up just a bit, but still tasted so good. I clean him up really well. Looked up and told him take one more with your cock fully in my mouth. He obeyed without hesitation. I pulled back, took my phone from him. He pulled up his pants and he said, "I won't hold you back, it seems like you have a delivery!" I sure did, I grabbed my purse and we walked out together. Said until next time and I got in the car. I looked at the pics and immediately sent them to Dave and started driving. A couple minutes later he responded - GOOD GIRL I got home, he was waiting for me once again this time in the kitchen. He kissed me and led me over to the counter where he picked me up and sat me on top. He spread my legs with both his arms as I reached back to support myself, Dave took off my panties. I could tell they were soaking wet with pussy juices and cum. He admired my pussy for a second before he slowly lowered his head, stuck his tongue out and starting at the bottom he licked, putting his tongue far into my pussy and finishing up at my clit. He rose and with a tongue full of cum and pussy mixture, he kissed me. I could taste his mouth; the smell of sex transferred on to him was intoxicating. He led me down off the counter and walked into the couch, on the way clothing coming off. He laid me down and got on top without much hesitation his hard cock slid in me. He slowly fucked me for a while, long, deep forceful strokes. It was a soft yet purposeful way he took me. He stared at my eyes as they rolled back with pleasure. Did not take long to orgasm and he followed soon thereafter. This time, he pulled out and with a couple strokes of his cock the first stream of cum shot up to my neck, with the remaining streams falling and splashing down on my tits and finally on my stomach. I was completely lost in her stories. It was like a movie, a porn but still a movie! I was completely sure my panties were soaked through to my pants. I told Jessica I wanted to be just like her. She laughed and said she can teach me everything! Somehow, we went through the rest of lunch and without even noticing it had been over an hour we sat and talked. We got up and walked over to the parking lot. I wanted to see Jessica again and maybe even meet Dave at some point, but didn't want to bring it up. Not meeting him anyway, but I did say that I can't wait for the next time we could meet. Jessica said she'd love to see me again as well and get more comfortable. She invited me over to her house for drinks the following weekend. I thought it too long to wait, but it would be completely worth it! Read the next chapter at: My Journey Into The Lifestyle - Chapter 5 - No Turning Back, I Love Women Read the Previous Chapters My Journey Into The Lifestyle - The Beginning My Journey Into the Lifestyle - Chapter 2 - Self Discovery My Journey Into The Lifestyle - Chapter 3 - Soft Feeling of a Woman
  4. 1 point
    My significant other and I began playing last May and have played about a dozen times. We did a lot of verbal Covid screening and we're all good there. We did our first STD checkups since starting, and she turned up positive for HSV-2. I turned up negative for everything. I consider this as no big deal. She has never had a breakout, and our theory is that she got it from a vanilla dating partner prior to us getting together a bit over a year ago. Her previous screening to this was done before her last partner before we began dating. Long story short, she is super sad because she thinks she is ruined/tainted and that no one will want to play with her again. We are so new that we don't know the answer to that. I work with numbers for a living, and my guesstimate is that in any given club or house party, up to half the people there will have it. Yet no one walks around disclosing their HSV-2 status. We use protection for penetration, but oral has always been "open season" so the risk of HSV-2 transmission is there. And condoms only protect female-to-male transmission about 65%. From my readings, unprotected sex if there's no breakout has a 3-4% chance of transmission. Taking Valtrex daily drops that to 1-2%. Nothing can be done to take this risk totally down to 0%. Seems that due to regular testing by most in the LS, there is some acceptance of risk. Any advice or observations from experienced folk is appreciated!
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    I know it's hard when something like this gets sprung on you, but she shouldn't worry or feel that way about herself. adamgunn's outlook on it is pretty much ours. Relative to other STIs it's common even though most don't even know they "have" it, it's not typically included in a STI screen so people who say "I've been tested and I'm clean" may or may not be when it comes to herpes, the whole HSV-1 and HSV-2 confusion, and so on. I distinctly remember battling some herpes sores...I was like 9, and the more commonly used, and less scary, terminology there would be "cold sores" but really HSV-1. I don't feel the need to disclose that to anyone, even though if I was tested for it, I'm assuming it would be a positive. If I had a cold sore on my mouth, I wouldn't be playing with anyone, and if I had a sore on my genitals, I wouldn't be playing with anyone. Beyond that, I think that is really all you can ask of people since for the vast majority, the truth is they honestly don't know one way or another. Other than doing some pre-play visual inspection to make sure no outbreak is going on, there's just really not a lot you can do. Condoms do offer some protection, but it's not complete. So, it's just one of those things where just about activity in life carries some risk, and you just have to decide for yourself where your risk tolerance line is at. Starting to veer away from fact toward more opinion here, but I think the whole herpes thing is waaaaaay overblown, and just another example of sex-shaming by a culture that has a love-hate relationship with all things sexual, especially when there is money to be made off of it. A lot of things that we think are freak-out worthy, we have been taught we should be freaked out about, well beyond the level of what it really deserves. You may find this article interesting reading. How Herpes Became a Sexual Boogeyman There are also several good older in-depth discussions on this topic here on the site. Threads discussing Herpes Sending best wishes that this all will soon be just a bad memory.
  6. 1 point
    I think that HSV and HPV are commonly transmitted, even with condoms. HPV does have a vaccine intended for younger people. Both viruses are so common in the populace that one must presume that they are spread in swinging. A well known risk, not much discussed.
  7. 1 point
    I prefer separate rooms. I like to be quiet and focus. Laughing, giggling, talking disrupts my concentration. We have a second bedroom near our bedroom. we often split up that way. You can hear faint sounds of the other couple, which is sexy, but it is not a distraction. We have been with couples who are very creative as a foursome and I will stick around for that!
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