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First, you need to tell them. Making something up like "taking time off" will backfire when they run into you playing with others. They will ask again to play and you are back to square one. Adamgunn's approach is the best one. But also realize the just being friends is most likely not going to work out since the other couple will only think of "rejection" each time they see or get with you on a friendly type basis. And don't lead on with sexy teases after you told them. We had a couple we really liked and played with a number of times (we were their first couple in fact). But they gave us the "we just want to be friends now" speech. We were glad they told us and respected that. But then, each time we would see them, he would go into a deep passionate kiss with my wife like nothing changed. I told her to not respond to that and not allow him that kind of kiss. Friends don't do that and they can't have it both ways. We have moved on and you should too.

I check your profile. You guys are hot. Sorry I haven’t said something sooner

What makes you think they are really couples? I'm convinced that single men sometimes make couples profiles so actual couples will respond to their messages or contact them first.

Maybe he took something to keep him going. The sad part is her not feeling comfortable speaking up when it was no longer felt good. I remember my first party with one man when I said it was starting to hurt he kept saying he was about to cum and just suggested changing positions. After two position changes I was done, too sore to even bother to offer to finish him orally. It’s always acceptable to say you are uncomfortable.

As always it’s about communication. Sometimes I want to be fucked slowly and over a long period of time with tons of lube. Other times I want it fast and hard. I always want my partner to come and I don’t want him to finish before i’m ready. I talk to my partner and I make sure he knows what I want and I make sure I know what he wants.