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We started when we were about 30 years married 32 years knowing each other. We raised our kids and now it was our time. Prior to us getting together neither of us had many partners so we wanted to just have some fun get try new people out. We are somewhat new to this like 8 months had 3 different results. 1st was bad, 2nd was ok at best, and 3rd was very good for both of us. So far it has brought us closer and hornier to. Lol

Thanks NC.That's pretty much what we plan on doing. Its funny though. As nervous as we are and if you asked either one of us outright "are you ready for xyz" we would probably say no or I don't know. However I know me, AND I know how strong my wife's sexual energy as well even though she wasn't very experienced at all before she met me(hell we were both kids)I know she's got fire. I think she could have more freak in her than me and honestly that kind of scares me a bit..in a good way I guess.. LMAO

We just posted this on another thread for someone who was asking about going on a swingers cruise ... it’s probably applicable to you as well. Our advice -- and you'll read it over and over on this board if you're here enough -- is to go with NO expectations other than to have a hot time together. If you wind up playing with another couple, that's great. But even if you don't, you can still have an incredibly sexy time with just the two of you, whether that means making out and groping each other on the dance floor, or watching other couples having sex, or putting on your own show in a playroom. We went to a club three times and a house party three times before we ever hooked up with anybody else on our seventh trip ... but on every one of those first six visits, we at least got a playroom to ourselves and had an incredible time with the lights low and the music thumping, knowing that people were walking by right outside the door (probably) wondering who was in that room and just what they were doing in there. So it's absolutely NOT necessary to swing to have a great experience at a swingers' event!

We’ve met hundreds....maybe thousands of people in the lifestyle over the years. Most by association....same event or party. Many chatting...texting...some we meet....some we didn’t. Some we’ve become long term friends with.....some FWB. and a smaller circle we’ve known, mixed with, socialized with and played with. We never had been asked let alone announced our ethnicity, political views, religion etc. There have been requests for HWP, smoker/non smoker, drinker/non drinker, soft/hard swap etc etc. We were never shopping for an experience.....and we’ve enjoyed many great times. We like the connection at the moment....circumstances of the meet. We greatly enjoy the Christmas gift experience....never knowing what you got....until you open the gift...... Attitude....personality....life experiences seem to define each person and couple we meet. Accents, skin tone are the spice of life.

We find that very few couples can understand our lifestyle choices so we choose to keep things private. We are known as nudists, sluts and perverts among some of our friends so we choose to not try to explain. We are also the only ones with a solid marriage and are always together having fun.

Well we have discussed it several times. I think I am the one more interested, but you never know!!!