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A lot of folks mention that they were basically "swinging" before they knew there was a name for it or before they realized that there was an entire community of other people who are interested in the same things. They basically just stumbled upon it. While others stumble upon a site like this or a story or a book and discover it and go from there. So which was it for you? Were you swinging before you discovered what swinging was? Or did you learn what swinging was first, then look to swing?

Swingers like freedom....fun....limited inhibitions. We like open discussion, honest communication.....honesty....we like to trust. We love our freedom to express.

We usually wouldn't be naked before the foreplay and sex starts. Exceptions to that have been if there was a hot tub or pool involved, then yes. Taking that further to after sex (and this is assuming we are with a familiar couple at their house or something, not a club setting), then Mrs cplnuswing will usually get at least partially dressed, like just putting on a t-shirt and nothing else, or maybe panties and t-shirt. I'm more prone to stay naked a little longer, but won't spend the whole evening that way. Same pattern more or less holds true at home. I'll get up from having slept naked, have morning coffee on the back deck naked, and won't get dressed until I've showered and ready for the day. She'll usually have at least something on. Come the weekend though, she has no problem spending all afternoon naked out by the pool and will just stay that way if she comes in for a little while to some chores or something. I like those times

^6 inches in Africa? Well then my Irish American white husband is much bigger than that! How about you add 3, You claim--coming from a book written SOME YEARS AGO- that 6 is large? And that somehow proves that black men are better hung than others??? Good grief! Pick up your feet folks, the BS is getting deep in here! If 6 inches is large, than my husband and many other white men are much larger than at least the majority of men in Africa! B-t-w, Africa has a very wide diversity of races, it appears you do not know that. And if it's 6 inches in Africa--coming from the condom company- wait, if the condom company is doing so well there, why is AIDS everywhere? Why are a lot of black people of Africa dying of aids if they are the ones with big dicks buying condoms? Think about it! Why don't people think before they spit out stupidity? I suppose I should ignore my own eyesight because 6 inches is large? That is bs, sorry, but it screams cow patty. I would suggest paying for an AFF account and looking at the majority of pictures and videos, you will find that 6 inches is typically the smallest you will find. Sorry for getting snippy, but this is bs!

I have never been with a black man, but having plenty of black friends, male and female, I have seen and heard plenty to say with confidence that color does not equate into package size! It's a myth! I have seen all colors naked and in person, and the biggest was a mix of Hispanic and Italian! It's all about the genes. I was on the wrestling team in high school, and trust me, a guy can't hide anything in a unitard! I saw plenty then too, b-t-w, I always won... lol I don't understand why so many seemingly intelligent people keep spreading a myth as if it's a common cold??? I'm not trying to be mean, but come on people!!! That would be like saying only German-Scandinavian women know how to screw!!!! Which happens to be me....