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If swinging is ultimately about sex with others and trust, why not be ok with swinging alone. Depending on the situation. My wife and I prefer to swing together but if she finds a hot guy and I know it’s safe, why would I mind if she plays alone? If there is so much trust and communication, don’t you want your spouse to go have fun. And yes, I have played alone as well. It’s never done behind the back. It’s always discussed beforehand and the rules still apply, meaning we both have veto power

I think this is a reasonable view. We had a series of conversations last year about open/separate play and came to more or less the same conclusion. We have a few rules, including keeping it away from our vanilla life and discussing intercourse first, but if there's an opportunity to have a fun time, life is short.

ElDiablo, I'm glad for you that the first time went rather well. And if you all want to play again, I see no reason now not to continue. I would be concerned, however, if it took off and she was full of New Relationship Energy. This may be a confusing time for her, and it needs to be managed sensitively. After an initial rush of them getting together, perhaps a few times in a week or two, I'd force a break of a couple weeks (if necessary.) Let her get her feet back on the ground again, realize he's only a toy and you're her main man. This might not happen, just keep your eyes open for it.

Hi! If your wife didnt change her mind on your friend, then the next thing to look out for is if she would ask for another get together or he might ask for it. In our situation with common friend, it wasnt a one time swing but it continued beyond that. It all depends if it will work for both of you or if bothers you. For us, there's no problem at all. After our first mfm, he asked my partner if the 3 of us can play again sometime. His standard reply is if I agree to it, then why not. To make the story short, we played many times as mfm and and feelings developed quickly and found ourselves dating and playing separately. Im lucky he was nice and followed my rules to preserve the relationship with my primary partner. All ended well. Just be prepared if it escalates. No worries, if your wife loves you, she will stay.

So everything went well! My friend stayed with us, and on the second night, I proposed that they go into the bedroom for a couple of hours of "alone time", shut the door, and do whatever they wanted. They took me up on it. My wife sucked his cock, he ate her out, they made out, he fingered her....however, he was nervous and not sure about the situation I think so he never got fully hard, so unfortunately they didn't fuck and my wife didn't cum. He ended up jerking himself off next to her while she was touching and making out with him. Also my wife said from what she could tell he had a really small cock, like as small as the smallest guys she has ever been with. However, she did feel very comfortable with him. Honestly, afterwards, I was kinda surprised at how nothing changed between all of us....we literally all got along as if it never happened, no bad or weird feelings whatsoever!

Once at a club we met a couple and had a great time talking to them. I thought she was a little heavy for her body type, but still very attractive. At some point it became obvious that we all wanted to head for a room. Before we went, she took me aside and told me she was pregnant and asked me if I was bothered by that. We had a little talk, she didn't have any concerns, told me that if she was having any problems with what I was doing to her she'd let me know. When I got her undressed she had a bit of a belly, I'd say she was in the middle of her second trimester. We had a great time, of course we used a condom (my wife and I always did,) and I wouldn't have any problems doing it again!

Actually, for us it depends on who the other couple is. If we connect with them and have played before, being pregnant is kind of beside the point (like having a cold, it's a temporary condition). Don't have to worry about birth control either. Add the fetish part in and I would say that we would consider playing together.

From what I'm reading, you are both on board. You've seen his reaction to you being fondled by strangers. His reaction would be the same with you being piledrivin by some big dick stud. Is the actual event as erotic as the fantasy? Well, depends. Most fantasies like yours include a nameless faceless figure as your bull. In reality, its a guy. He has a job, responsibilities, fears, performance anxiety, just like you. So how erotic your time is, depends on how the bull acts, and your chemistry with him. Once you start, you may not want to stop. There is a lot that can happen between you agreeing to do this and 5 years down the road. But no matter what, it's actually pretty easy to put the brakes on. After a few dozen men, you may find it's not as hot anymore and you are ready to move on to something else. Lastly...enjoy!

My favorite position is to ride a guy reverse and have his wife or my husband servicing my pussy. It also works well if I am on all fours and taking it from behind while i’m getting oral from the bottom.

Brian's mother walked in on us shortly after we had our first child to tell us he was crying (we already knew that!). We were both completely naked of course with Brian on top thrusting away furiously while Jo had her legs wrapped around him and her hands on his hips to give him a helping hand. It was very embarassing at the time but we both laugh about it now.

I was probably 13-14 when my brother invited me up to stay the weekend with him at the university he attended. He lived in the dorms and had a girlfriend who I knew. After I got there, we hung out a little but I was tired and went to bed. His roommate wasn't there and his girlfriend was staying the night "because it was too cold out." They were sleeping on the floor, and I was in his bed. I think I had barely fallen asleep when a soft moan woke me up. It was pretty dark and I probably rolled over, but I didn't say anything, just listened. After a minute or so, they must have figured I was still asleep and the next thing I remember was that I could smell that they had opened a condom. So, I didn't really walk-in on them having sex, but my brother and his girlfriend had sex on the floor about 5 feet from the bed I was sleeping in.