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Kissing is huge, its that simple

Laura once told me, "Darling, if i spread my legs for a man, I've already decided to take his cum. If I didn't want him to come inside me, I wouldn't have his cock in my pussy and my tongue in his mouth." I think (if she'd had a different opinion)our reclamation afterward wouldn't have been as meaningful or as intense.

Early on, we might have had a problem with one of us wanting to play separately. After 15 years, we're definitely OK with it. Mrs Doc even went to a swingers club by herself. The night was a fizzle for her sadly. My only condition was that she call me when she got back to her hotel so I could sleep knowing she was OK and so that she could fill me in on the details. I think I was more disappointed that there were no details to share than was she. There are friends she plays with without me and I have a FWB that I have happy hour and play time with once a month or so. This hobby is so liberating and so much fun that we really DO feel sorry for some of our vanilla friends.

From what I understand, the Romans were pragmatists, far beyond any worries about religion or philosophy. Being as it was a brutal time, their elimination of foes like Jesus was predictable. Constantine's Bible is not going to shed a bad light on the Romans, remembering that the winners write the history. Truly, I have little criticism of the people who did what they did in conformance to the mores of their age. Do I throw out Thomas Jefferson (or John Kennedy's praise of him) on the basis of his ownership of slaves and fathering children by a slave woman? If you visit his home and listen to the guides, it is all about slavery, not much about his contributions to our nation. But I worry about the way the actions of the past impact today's lives--there are a bunch of examples.

Hi all! Anyone else cruising this wonderful new ship next year?

We only play with those within our closed group of couples. We often play singlely, both threesomes and alone play, especially during the week when people are busy. For threesomes, it works both ways - either my wife or I will join another couple or one of them joins us. It is good when a spouse is traveling. Alone play happens because it is the easiest to set up and is a thrill for everyone involved, and not involved. For us, coming home to leftovers is not a bad thing. Weekends are for more relaxed couples get togethers.

Pretty much so I we see it too. Our expectations (erotic) are that when SO let´s him between her legs she is rready to accept his seed. Very hot thinking of his sperm swimming around inside her and her natural feelings.

Not for me and many others on this page. It is about the visual, like a real life porno film featuring your SO and her reacting differently than she does with us.

I am not very informed about the Bible or the various stories, but I do wonder about the actions and subsequent consequences of those who were involved in the early formation of "the Church" that eventually became a lot of churches. The culture of monotheism that became Christianity (and others) borrowed from others (Christmas trees, anyone??) but incorporated the biases of the early founders so we now have the consequences of celibacy impacting the lives of (primarily) women and children in today's world. Inasmuch as churchgoers look at women as equals, don't stone anybody and look to improve lives, I'm all in. When they pick at what women can wear, how they should act in public and endorse the actions of men who act like animals, I'm out. Then you get to specific, personal behaviors and preferences, like swinging. I would expect it is not approved by any major religion, but when it is practiced by people like those on this Board where it is consensual, care is given to the ability to say no, and a good time is had by all...why aren't we seeing religions on board for such an inexpensive, safe and pleasure-delivering activity? Sometimes I think the psychotics play a role that is way too prominent.

Ever since our first swap, we have always had separate rooms. Not technically swinging alone, but we have never watched each other. We feel sex with the other person is way more personal and intimate in separate rooms. After, we all finish the night with coffee and tell each other what we did and how it felt. By the time we get home, or after they leave, my wife and I can't wait to get into each other's pants.

After over 20 years of marriage and a waning sex drive, we decided to try swinging. We weren't particularly concerned with the moral side, but definitely concerned with the health side. We had decided if it was worth doing, then we wanted to enjoy "everything"...meaning bare and intimate. We met a couple on line, then socially 3 times to find out if they would be compatible with both of us and to develop "trust." They had been swinging over 20 years and with over 40 other couples; but all long term and all married couples. Thus, after 3 social meetings we felt as reasonably "safe" as we could expect to be (from STDs) and asked them to be our first. At the time they were with just one other couple and had been with them all 20 of their swinging years so we weren't worried about that couple. Our first time was in separate rooms and it turned out to be wonderful. So wonderful in fact, that the girls made a date for the very next week. We have seen them every week ever since. She was only my 7th woman ever and he was only my wife's 3d man ever. And it was bare, lasted about 3 hours, and we were all "spent." Once you do it, you want more of it. I fear we have become addicted to it, but that is a good problem.

Aww, just before us! We set sail on the 12th.

Forget about that party, because.......... All's well that ends well, eh? As for your daughter, we don't know her, so we can't speak to her motivation for doing a party drive-by.