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My question is it normal or appropriate for the wife to be concerned about whether the single male is comfortable and making sure he's pleased and pleasured? At our first play I (male half) had some issues regarding playing, since then (it was few months ago) I am trying hard to convince my wife that I worked out my issues by talking with her and I am comfortable with any situation comes up while playing with our friend. The past couple of meetings we had with our friend, they were not 100 percent comfortable and I assured my wife and our SM friend that I am ok with any kind of play. He's respectful to me and my wife and attractive so it's all good, but my wife mentioned that in some conversations he would be more comfortable with her and she would be more comfortable with him if they played alone. He had some issues not having orgasmed I guess because I was present, so I feel like she is going out of her way to make him comfortable in all levels so he's satisfied. Is that normal?? Any input greatly appreciated.

I've been reading so many different threads on this board, especially those related to my biggest fantasy, sharing my wife with another man. At first, I thought something was wrong with me. The idea has grown from an exciting fantasy in my head to a fantasy that I talk to her about in the bedroom constantly. The idea make me feel like I teenager exploring sex for the first time. I get so incredibly and uncontrollably turned on when we discuss it. I have noticed, much to my surprise, that my fantasy is not so abnormal. In fact, if I'm correct, it seems as though the majority of people in these discussions not only support the idea of MFM but may prefer MFM over MFF. I have always felt that I, as a man, should prefer 2 girls in a threesome rather that inviting in another man, but I don't. I, for some reason, get so turned on by the idea of watching my wife with another man and being involved. My questions are: Do you prefer MMF or MFF? and Do you believe we are a special group of people feeling this way or do you believe more people have these thoughts and just havenot been able to talk about it?

Any tips on how you approach a guy at a club/bar and let him know that your wife finds him attractive and would like to get to know him better? My wife and I are both want to bring another guy into the bedroom, but feel awkward about how to approach it without looking like total weirdos.

Good news is that you both meet the most important test and that is you are willing to talk about it. Reasons are unimportant what is important is communication. Talk rool play and then go for if you are both interested. We did long ago, but as I remember when we agreeded to give it a try we also agreeded if it was not something we wanted to do again we would not judge each other. Truth is other than nerves the first time and not know how to get rid of the other couple after we did it so we could talk and make sure we were both still ok with everything, we had a blast and wanted to do it again maybe with a few less gitters. Been doing it ever since and it's only brought us closer, we are still each others best friend and lover, but a little new adventure now and then adds to our relationship and while having sex with others is fun and exciting we have no desire to spend the night sleeping next to anyone but each other.

Well, let's say you skip the whole swinging thing, fall in love and get married. 15 years down the road, her frustrations boil to the surface and she leaves you. Now, let's suppose you swing. You will see her riding a huge dick and possibly having the sexual adventure of her life. My opinion is that if she is super horny and a possible size queen, wouldn't it be better to find out now, rather than after you have 2 kids and a retirement account? This was probably my biggest concern. My wife has a pretty roomy vagina and I just can't fill the room. I assumed that once she got a hold of a big dick at the hands of someone who has experience, our sex life would change. And it did, for the better. Come to find out, dick size is just one of myriad things going through her mind concerning attraction. Size isn't as big a deal for women as men. Variety though, I can't say enough about.

I liked fiona response. I wish I could explore more of my bi curious side with my fiance. She hasn't brought it up but do like viewing attractive men. I guess I'm situationally bi as well. I hope as time evolves that women are more comfortable with men exploring with other men.

We had a very nice time with a couple we met and made plans to see them again. Their sitter flaked-out that night so only one of them could play. They gave us the choice of him or her. We had an equally fun time as a threesome. We now have plans to see them both again. Perfect example of an all out in the open 'hall pass'. Now, if only one can play, who to choose???

SLS isn’t a really good site, the platform is archaic and the owners don’t even try to weed out fakes. They aren’t changing benefits to free members for the greater good. It is only a reaction to SESTA/FOSTA. They’ve never before taken benefits from free members because they know the site is severely lacking in many ways.