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I understand that in theory, but all too often a person will be married to someone - and be happy - but it's more of a comfortable arrangement that is easy and familiar, not spicy... And then when they suddenly find that spice in someone, they don't realize how badly they need it until it's presented to them in a hot little package. That is something that I greatly fear - that someone else will be that package for him while I'm still scrambling around trying to figure out how to do it. I've read a lot of books on sexuality,, taken classes in erotic massage, yadda yadda yadda... But still I struggle to actually FEEL desirable and sexy. i This is BEAUTIFUL. I've never heard of it put this way before. This really does give me something to think about. Thank you.

I'll be honest and say I haven't heard of him before and when I saw the thread title I thought some Supreme Court decision had been reversed. I'll try to be smarter the next time. To the subject at hand, sounds like a life well lived with very few regrets.

Wear easy access clothing, maybe a skirt and a button down blouse, no bra and once everyone has had an adult beverage or two to relax make sure a couple of buttons are undone. Go sit next to the other husband, turn towards him, lean forward a little, look him in the eye with a sexy smile and whisper, "this isn't going to unbeaten itself big guy". If that doesn't get the party started, there won't BE a party!

We are in Long Beach, CA. If you find it is a good club, let us know how it went, and which one. Always looking for good clubs near us.

this pretty much sums up my entire fantasy lol