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It was me Rick for sure, we started going together when we were 17, she was a sweet innocent church going Catholic virgin, I took her cherry when we were 18, we married at 21, had our family at 28 and 30, we joined a nudist club when we were early 30's and soon found out their was a lot of swinging going on ther, naturally I wanted to join in, it took a lot of talking but the wife finally went with her first EVER other guy when we were 35 and married 15 years, what a Pandora's box I opened, it was very sexy and fun seeing my 35 year old wife exploring her new found sexual freedome, she had me biting my tongue a few times with some of the things she got up to. We are now mid 70's, married 55 years and still very much in love, our playing with others has slowed to almost "ALMOST" a stop, but we sure have had a wonderful and exciting sex life. Rick.

I'm new to this site and have never tried swinging or being with multiple partners. It has always intrigued me, however. Recently, my girlfriend brought the topic up again in bed. She asked me to talk dirty to her, which previously she had always been self-conscious about. I started saying some simple things about doing things to her, and if she liked it. Then she asked if I wanted an audience. Then she asked me to describe what the audience was doing to her as well. She said she envisioned more hands and mouths on her body, and even asked me, "Do you have any friends?" As this fantasy talk fueled a fun sexual episode. However, we have not ever discussed it outside of bed, and I am not really sure how to or whether I should. It turns me on when she gets assertive about her fantasies and desires like that, but part of me wonders if she is only saying it to rile me up. Anyway, not much experience here, but curious how any of you got started into the world of sharing, etc.