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I generally respond to honest couples that sent a message and seemed to have read about us. I give an honest reason unless the truth may be rude or hurtful. When we were on more sites we would get a ton of single men that obviously didn't read up on us and just wants an exotic fuck. Those just got deleted with no response. And I never never let my husband do the searching. He'll see a couple and only really check out the wife. She'll be some hot number and her husband makes Stephen Hawking look like George Clooney and he won't notice. Thanks babe

Married Couple ready to enter the Lifestyle... I’m having some reservations after window shopping profiles, some males don’t show their member, they just show the female. Then there’s the hung like a horse guy comparing flashlights and what not to his pride and joy! Now, is being undersized in comparison, 5 inches, going to be an issue? My wife seems to likes it! LOL I understand she’ll have fun with the larger version mentioned above, and I have no problems with that, in fact, I can’t wait to hear her screaming out in ecstasy playing with a bull! So, my worries, is this going to make it harder finding playmates? Playmates that you “want” to play with? Considering other female being use to the “larger” package, is she going to be interested in playing with a smaller one?!? When does penis size come into the conversation? Or, am I being a typical guy focusing in on penis envy?? Want my wife to have the best options available seeing how we want to play with couples... Threesomes, no brainer... Thanks in advance for your advice and commits...

Tried it and love the thought of it. It hasn't always gone easily in real life. But I'll keep trying

Cock pics are horrible. I won't be with a man that sent me a cock pic. It says so many negative things about the guy. Lonely perv that can't get a woman. Bad communication skills and just stupid. We're into some BDSM including some CBT and it's really bad when I get a pic of a dick that the guy did some solo CBT to. I'm a very open and accepting person that gets over many hiccups but an uninvited dick pic gets them on the hell no list.

I'm not a screamer, I make moaning sounds and breath funny. If someone I've been in the presence of a couple women that screamed and it was kind of annoying, especially if she was going on too long. I have a girl friend that only makes tons of noise if others are around but one on one she never makes a sound... Like she's doing it for attention. I wouldn't want to hamper a gal getting off but screaming can be over done real easy.

I'm a big gal too and its sometimes a big deal to feel secure enough to bare all and really enjoy the sexual experience. Remember that everyone has flaws that they magnify in their head. I do several things to help if I'm feeling bad about my appearance. Wearing lingerie, stockings and so on can help be that's just a short term hide. The biggest thing is to swing with people that support you. As for would be partners not wanting to be with someone because of weight I've never seen happen. I have seen and probably been rejected due to attitude. If you become a quiet wall flower and shy would be partners will tend not to show interest because you may seem unapproachable or you don't want to be there. As for big vs skinny again that's all on your action. Be active, have fun and other will want to have fun with you. And BBWs are far better bed mates than little stick girls and that's a proven fact Have fun and enjoy life while you can. Accept yourself and others will accept you, and the ones that don't aren't worth the time and others will see that.

Thanks for the responses in this thread. For the record, nothing came of it but we did have some fun hanging out at a couple of bars with a free pass to flirt.

Sounds like you are on the right track. We have found that our lifestyle activities have enhanced our communication skills.

We talked about rules long before ever even making the first attempt of just going to a club. Kissing was one of the first things that was brought up. My wife wasn't sure she would be okay with watching me kiss another woman. My response is that we are both very passionate in our own sex life and kissing is an integral part of getting turned on but it doesn't have to necessarily mean we are crossing an intimacy boundary, we are just getting ourselves warmed up. She seemed to accept that answer and relax some. She loves being kissed so I think when she visualized it more as herself rather than me she understood better. We agreed that kissing was OK but also agreed that if it made us uncomfortable we wouldn't stop it at the time but would revisit it at an appropriate time. Incidentally, A while back there were three couples sitting by us in the club. There was lots of kissing going on back and forth across couples as the night progressed. My wife was very observant of that. Up to this point we had only played very lightly, not even really soft swap in the club, limiting any real play to just ourselves. After that last night we agreed we were ready to take another step if the opportunity presented itself. We talked about the rules and she mentioned kissing again but this time she said after watching the way those three couples interacted with playful kissing and how that was a turn on to watch she was more confident it would be OK. Fast forward to our first swap. She was really into the kissing and actually made the first move on the other guy. It was passionate and enthusiastic. I could tell she enjoyed it and got turned on by it just by the way she leaned into him and grabbed the back of his neck the way she does with me. I have no problem with it and she doesn't now either. To answer the original question. 1) Same room. 2) Condoms for penis/vagina penetration. 3) If anything happens that we aren't comfortable with or prepared for we have the right to stop it, no questions asked. However, we agree it's probably best to let it continue unless it's a health or safety thing and talk about it at a more appropriate time and adjust accordingly. Things can happen and we can get caught up in a moment, perhaps one gets a little too romantic, passionate, animalistic, whatever, because we might be feeding from whoever we are with at the moment and it feels good. I'm not going to stop her in the middle of fucking just because she says, "Oh God, I love your big hard cock" and she's never said that to me before. I'm going to let her enjoy her big hard cock and later in the week bring it up in an adult way. Maybe I'd say something like "you might not even remember saying it but it was a little more than I was comfortable with hearing you tell Bob you loved his big hard cock". Just for the record I'd never say that because I loved hearing her say just that during our swap. It's just an example of how we have agreed to handle it. I made a point, on Wednesday, after our first swap on the previous Saturday to find some quiet time and ask if there was anything we needed to discuss about the weekend like adjusting our rules in any way or if something happened that she didn't want to happen again. Her first reaction was to ask, in a concerned tone, if there was something I needed to talk about. I told her absolutely not, I loved every second of it but it was a question that I felt would always need to be asked and she could count on it being asked again. That answer from me got me a nice blow job and a quickie:-) I figure it's a good idea to wait a few days to allow ourselves to digest the events, come down from the high or recover from the disappointment and know we are going to have some time to talk.

I love it... even when I had not done it, I was so fascinated by it that I knew I would be doing it some day... just thinking bout putting my tongue on a girl's starfish makes me horny... i can lick a sexy, juicy butt for like 30 mins... lol... has to be clean though... and i use wet wipes before putting my tongue there...

Literally got done double stuffing my wife for the first time with her good friend....