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I've had one 3some with friends of mine and I found it more comfortable than the thought of strangers. Mind you they were open to it as it had been a flirty topic before. I think it depends on the friends. I wouldn't ask friends who haven't expressed any interest before. That might end badly. But with strangers you don't know who they really are.

My wife and I are not swingers, but more voyeurs. We have been to the Trapeze in Atlanta 2 times and the Trapeze in FLL 3 times. We have been to Desire 4 times, but have never swapped. You will find that people in the lifestyle are the most friendly, outgoing, fun people you will ever meet. My advice is to tell people that you are new and just there to check things out. My advice is to go on a Saturday night as it is couples only. Don't go to early as it tends to be dead early and get crowded later. Have fun, take some drinks (it is BYOB), Dance, talk to some people, get your courage up and go to the locker room and take your clothes off and go into the back room. Even if you don't do anything it is pretty erotic to walk around.

When we began, four of the five couples we swapped with were prior vanilla friends. One of the husbands was even a coworker of mine and another of the husbands was the contractor we hired to build us a house. We never, ever, had any problems after.

Let us invite all who are interested in religion and swinging to recall this bit of prose from Mark Twain, see especially Letter VIII. Mr. Samuel Clemens would have made a helluva swinger.

I can't imagine not playing on the first date if both my wife and I were attracted to the other couple. The reason we are going to the clubs is the excitement and fun of having sex with each other and playing with other couples. If you are lucky enough to meet a couple you connect then play. Life is too short to waste time.

Friday dawned bright and early, a little play time and a little nap. Got up finally, showered, made coffee in the room, Rob had another water glass of his boxed "grape juice", etc. We were at the pool by 10 AM. Sun screened, stretched out and sunning. We did lunch pool side in the hootch..... We visited with resort guests arriving for the weekend and got to speak with Connie and George. Rob hung back and just smiled. If Connie wanted to warm up great, but Rob didn't want to encourage her at all. Me being forward, I asked them about soft swing, swing and exhibitionism. George is up for anything, Connie, not so sure. At 3:30 Rob and I head back to our room to get ready for the Friday meet and greet in the lobby party. I brought a nice "showie" dress specially for this meet and greet....... Julie

It is super sexy seeing your wife with someone else, I have never sat back and just watched. I have always participated in the action, we have only did MFM 2 times but both were very enjoyable. My wife was so turned on that when we tried dp she took the other guys dick in her ass so easily. But we also role play her with other guys at home. I write spicy sex stories for her and then I blind fold her while she rides the dildo and I read her the story she had some good orgasms

Over the centuries the Christian church , both denominational and non-denominational, is a business. Avery big business. The product they sell is salvation. Their marketing is based on the tried and true reward and fear concepts used by so many successful businesses. To get buy in by their customers they establish rues which are aimed at controlling the customer. The price they charge is based on customer income and not their cost of goods. Since males have historically controlled the income, males have been treated better than females. Not to mention males set up the rules. The church's attitude about sex is just part of these controlling rules. Setting aside the "Church", what does it mean to be a Christian? I believe there are a few simple rules in the teaching of Jesus. In terms of human interaction, the primary one we know as the Golden Rule - Do unto others as you would have them do to you. The LS conforms to this rule. In my opinion there is nothing unchristian in practicing the Lifestyle.

I would say both are very fun and exciting, but I prefer MFM, I am not a cuckhold and always participate in the action but for me there is just something about pleasuring your wife to mutiple orgasmas that can't be accomplished with 1 person, and just seeing my wife with someone else is better then any porno, the sounds and sights of her are amazing and can't forget DP for her is an intense orgasm.

Hi this is the wife. I just wanted to give my side so there is a better understanding of what my husband is saying. My entire sex life has been well, a lie. I had to base what was out there on what I got. It was always hard and to the point. I have heard of slow and sensual but never received it. I was a product of my parents selfishness in a sense. I love older men yet was never shown anything new. When my husband came along, again the pace was set into his pace. This continued for many years until I just didn't want to have sex any longer. Recently we talked about the lifestyle and opening up to each other. It has been exciting. 3 days in a row we had sex. 1st day hard and fast, next day s&s, next day same. I told him I have NEVER felt what I felt those 2 days. I came more those 2 days then our entire marriage. There was a sense of closeness and love, a connection that wasn't there before. I had an entirely new outlook on life and he rocked my world. I'll take that over hard any day.��

"Do you enjoy two mouths on your cock?" is a question we usually ask before anything gets serious. Don't require a guy to be bi but he should be receptive to shared oral at least.

My wife and I had our first experiences in the 80s. The first was with a much younger couple who were also nudists. We were very close to them and I had done a lot of nude photography of the two of them and they even had me take some photographs of them having sex. We went on a weekend camping trip with them in a very small RV. Although we didn't switch partners with them, both couples had sex in the same small camper bed with our bodies touching each other. That whole weekend was very sexually charged. Looking back, that weekend was what turned my wife and me onto the possibility of playing with others. A couple of years after that we had our first real swap. We had been getting together with another nudist couple who were very close friends. When we got together at each others homes, the clothes came off immediately. There was a lot of flirting and fondling. Finally one evening, Bill, our male friend, and my wife were on the carpeted floor massaging each other and I was massaging Bill's wife D. D nodded for me to look over at the other couple. They were having intercourse, which seemed totally natural D and me, so we started having sex ourselves. The amazing thing is that my wife and I had never discussed it beforehand but were both euphoric when it did. We were hooked big time.

Yes, I frequently find when I'm with a couple the man will want some degree of erotic engagement with me. By agreement with my wife, I play only in groups or with couples in committed relationships. And it turns out that with many of the couples I've played with over the years, the husband wants some contact with me as well. It might be as little as touching my butt or fondling my balls while I'm engaged with his wife/GF, up through giving me oral and sometimes including penetrative sex between the two of us. (Indeed, during my first MFM, more than 30 years ago with a couple I knew socially, the husband fondled my balls while I was fucking his wife missionary. I also thought at first it was the woman reaching down over my ass. But when she and I conferred the next day, she confirmed it was her hubby who was holding my balls while I ejaculated in her pussy. (In 1982 no one used condoms.) One point of nomenclature; I've found in threesomes with two men and a woman, MFM is generally used to describe a tryst where the contact will be exclusively or primarily between the mean and the woman. MMF suggests that the two men will have substantial contact with one another.

Not always true. Plenty of boob jobs out there

I'm a trimmed up top and shaved below guy, because I'd look as goofy as a football bat totally shaved, and I'd maintain this look without swinging. I've grown accustomed to it. Mrs two4you is one of the last swingers in the world that doesn't shave. She naturally has a lighter amount of pubic hair, and it hasn't appeared to be a big deal to anyone that we know of.

Bobby and Nicki here. He has been bi forever and Nicki is a newbie and just started exploring her bi side recently. Even though she knows I like to suck cock she had not seen me, until recently when we were at a house party and a friend ask me if he could fuck her. I of course yes and he said he was not hard and it would take a little time. She looked at me and said why not help him out. They sat together on a couch and I went to my knees and took him in my mouth,having played with him before I knew what he liked and had him hard in no time, my wife smiled pushed me to the side and then mounted him and rode him until they both came. When they parted I licked them both clean. Damn good time!!!