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Off hand, I'd say you're not swinging. She has a friend with benefits. You need to talk to her about it. Tell her you are not OK with the way things are. Figure out together what needs to change and make those changes.

There were two couples sitting closely together visiting in conversation pool. Another nice looking couple close to Rob's age was sitting alone in the night light shadow of a palm. Julie walked over to the pool side and introduced me and herself and asked if we could join them. Connie and George said sure. We quickly got into the pool with Julie sitting next to Connie and me kneeling/squatting in the pool in front of them. We quickly exchanged a bit of background information with them. This was Connie and George's first nude resort experience and had absolutely no swing experience. Connie was fairly uncomfortable with being at the resort had not realized that Caliente and especially the conversation pool after about 10 PM could be a bit swing oriented depending on the people. They must have prepared pretty well for this resort visit as they both had very good no line tans. Connie had gone nude most of the afternoon at the pool and had dressed for dinner not feeling comfortable at all being nude out of the pool area. After dinner, George had almost drug her to the conversation pool. He was like a little kid in a candy store he was so excited. Julie did well calming Connie down and briefly telling her and explaining our background, experiences and ideas about nudity, swinging and things in between. George got out of the pool to hit the restroom with me still kneeling in front of the girls. When George got back, I shifted to the front of Connie and he knelt in the pool in front of Julie. After a bit, everyone had loosened up a bit. Julie told us she was going to give George a feel with her foot and we all laughed. I reached over with my hand and she had her foot on George's hard dick! Connie didn't faint or jump up and out so all was good. George moved to sit next to Julie so I moved next to Connie. Julie was giving a quiet play by play as they felt each other up under the water. Connie was pretty poker faced but didn't flinch when I touched her breasts and nipples. She did hold my hand from moving higher than her mid to upper thigh. Julie and George were feeling everything and giggling. It was late and Julie and I said we were going to head back to our room. Connie and George's room was a couple doors down from ours, so we all got out of the pool, dried off a bit as George patted down his erection and in towels we started back to our rooms. Julie and Rob

That must have been a better Oprah episode than Tom Cruise jumping on the couch...

We were seduced by our best friends in the mid 1980s. We were all nudists and got together at each other's homes about once a week. When we got together we were always nude. What started as flirting with them led to him seducing my wife while he was massaging my nude wife and I was massaging his nude wife. My wife and I had never discussed swinging before but were overjoyed it had happened. A number of years later they split up, but we are still friends with her. We have continued to play with over the year. We are now in a poly relationship with him which is great. Next week we are going on a 3 day, 2 night road trip with him. We have never spent the night together so all of us are really excited about 3 days of sightseeing and 2 days of sex in the same hotel room.

My wife and I were seduced by friends the first time. And, three of the other four couples we swapped with were also friends first. One couple we met through a swinger's meet and greet. And, as for advice, talk it out a lot and don't get in a hurry. If you do decide to take the plunge, whether ankle deep or in the deep end, enjoy every little step. Discussing and planning can sure inspire some fun activities between just the two of you.