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Curious37 - It sounds like she might like to explore or she would not have been in the shower. The bikini on was her "safe guard" in her mind. At that point, you should have asked her if you could remove her top. She very well could have been waiting for someone to make a move. If she did it herself, that would appear in her mind that she was "easy". As far as waiting for the other guy to remove it, he did the right thing by not removing it, especially if he knew you were newbies. While he could have asked as well, most likely he was waiting also for you to make the next move. I know that is what I would have done if I was the other M in the shower. Don't beat yourself up though. I assume you talked with her after the shower and he left. Did you ask her how she felt about it? Ask her what if you had requested/suggested she remove her top, what would she have done and would she have been alright with you removing her top. If she was comfortable with all of that, then look for a future opportunity to explore a little further. The fact that she allowed another guy over and be in the shower with both of you tells me she is curious but, perhaps not fully ready. Give her time and opportunity.

Like everyone else, I echo their caution. But as I've gotten older, my views have mellowed a bit and I'm not quite as cut and dried about it. Why can't we have good friends with benefits? I think it's the ultimate solution, really. The trick is to find the right kind of friends, and to leave room for growth. It sounds like you've had some fun already, which is great. I'd suggest that you treat every new encounter as a one-off, realizing that anyone can change their mind about how okay they are with it at any time. As cplnuswing said, leave room for a graceful exit. Sex makes people behave funny; it's a very intimate part of their lives and their relationship together. Swinging often brings about enormous growth in the relationship and in one's own understanding of one's self. Because of this, their interest in swinging will change over time, and you may or may not be a part of it. If you choose to go forward with playing with them, just recognize this and make allowances for it. I'd also suggest not being too coy with them. If they seem a little embarrassed about your alcohol-fueled party games, I'd try to get a conversation going about it, letting them know that you had a great time, and that you don't regret it at all. If you can find a way to get a dialogue going with them, you can maybe give them the opportunity to freely ask questions and talk about the way you two look at things (especially how you view playing with friends), and you can ask them - as Alura suggested - what they think about it all. Because you're curious. If the question comes up, does everyone want to play, yes or no?, then maybe gentle things a little by saying you're interested in seeing where things go, but that you really value your friendship with them, so they need to be straight with you if they ever feel uncomfortable at any time.

We went to Trapeze in Ft. Lauderdale for a key and lock party. This was our first time at any type of club like this . The club was very clean and laid out well, the food was good and staff were very helpful to us newbies. We met some really nice people and a couple that were not our cup of tea per say, we eventually met a group of friends that met up for the night and they took us right in to the group. We danced and made conversation for a while . Now just some back story ,we said that we could not just jump into full swap the first time out and we had discussed what our rules were for the night and decided that we were up for soft swap at most for our first time. So after we met this couple we made our way to the play area which was very clean and had many areas to play, mind you everything was new to us and it was a lot to take in for one night. The Mrs. is a little more cautious and slow to try anything new , but she jumped in and before we knew it we were swapping and I have to admit I was a little afraid of how I would feel watching another man have sex with my wife, but as soon as it started all my worries went away ,I was really turned on by watching my wife have sex with this other guy and to hear her moaning with enjoyment told me she was at ease as well. The other couple was experienced and were very respectful to us and made sure not to push us into anything we were not ready to do. So once we started we all did oral, and then we moved on and had sex for what seemed like two hours, both the other male and myself had some problems finishing but we both did , could have been the alcohol or nerves? The feeling of another person other than your wife is confusing somewhat because you usually know what your spouse likes or wants, with a new person you need to learn fast, they both told us what they liked during sex and it helped alot to get everybody off. We left after we played and checked the time and it was about 3:00 a.m. did not seem that late. Overall it was a great experience and we will be doing it again.

Apparently it's a (vile, disgusting) thing: "Stealthing" Inside The Online Community Of Men Who Preach Removing Condoms Without Consent | The Huffington Post

We are long time Nudists and started trimming for neatness, J went full bare first when he started shaving his head too. I honestly prefer the visual of a bare open flower and prefer the same for eating but don't object to neat and clean hair.

May not be that wild, but... There is a manager at work that is very good looking. I hadn't thought about him before, but some time ago I was sitting next to him with my legs crossed at his desk going over some stuff and I was wearing a somewhat short skirt and some heels that day, and I thought I might have caught him sneaking glances at my bare legs. I wasn't too sure at first but when he stood up to grab something as he was coming back I saw an unmistakable bulge in his pants and he clearly had an erection. We were being professional, but I couldn't help but be turned on by the fact that he was clearly hard for me and maybe even fantasizing about me. I had this daydream about him placing his hand on my leg while we were chatting and working his hand up my skirt, and I immediately just swung my legs over him and straddled him sitting on his lap and unbuttoning his shirt while making out. I'd slide down and open his pants and pull his cock out and give him a long wet blowjob until he couldn't hold back anymore and then he would stand up and spin me around and push me over his desk, lift my skirt and slide himself inside me and thrusting himself hard inside me. He'd wrap his arm around my upper body and pull me up close to him as he would speed up his thrusts as he was nearing the point of cumming and I would start to moan and breathe heavily and finally he would just explode inside me. I'd turn around, give him a kiss, pull my skirt down, adjust myself and leave the office like nothing had happened and walk out in front of everybody, knowing what we just did, but no one else knew....unless they heard me moaning... That was my fantasy. We, of course, stayed professional and parted ways like co-workers, but I had that entire fantasy while we were sitting next to each other. I really wish I knew what his fantasy was at that moment.

I would think the term pussy is more endearing than the "c" word. I personally think the "c" word is not complimentary to the most beautiful part of a woman.

You and my husband are on the same page. One of his favorite things (mine too!) is for him to go down on me after another guy has cum inside of me!

To each his own, LOL, but I tend to avoid all contact with any other man's spunk at all costs!

Yes, I think the question is 'Why does his wife love it and enjoy it so much and my wife shy's away from me doing it to her"? ummmm, maybe that's not really a question....maybe it's a complaint Never the less, I can personally listen to Hard Tongue talk about his cream pie experiences all day. He don't need a question to make a post in my book!